The "exquisite egoist" is an "egoist" who has been dressed up or even disguised. The emergence of this group shows that social development has reached a critical point or crossroads that determines the direction. The cause of "egoism" can be traced back to the beginning of children's birth, and it is constantly strengthened in kindergartens, primary schools and middle schools, while the university stage only makes it more "exquisite".
cause
High IQ is the greatest feature of refined egoists.
First of all, the backward selfish family concept or overly indulgent family environment are the family reasons for the emergence of "exquisite egoists".
Family influence has a great influence on children's early growth. Whether poor or rich, rural or urban, there are always some families who prefer selfish lifestyles. Parents' words and deeds make these children pay too much attention to personal interests. On the other hand, a poor life or an overindulgent family environment will make children have deep-rooted selfishness.
Secondly, "only fraction theory" is the educational reason of "exquisite egoist".
Generally speaking, people who can become "exquisite egoists" are all people with high IQ and EQ in the same level. In China, every time kindergartens, primary schools and middle schools start school, you can see the crowds in front of famous schools and the surrounding roads are crowded.
Parents' anxious faces are sweating like rain. This is not an ordinary school. This is obviously an expectation for their children's future. Many parents believe that there is no good primary school without a good kindergarten, no good middle school without a good primary school, no good university without a good middle school, no good job without a good university and no success without a good job.
It is the score that determines all this. In some middle schools, for top students, the school not only does not charge tuition and fees, but also provides free suites for parents to accompany.