Sean was very kind to her at first, teaching her to ride horses, saving her in times of danger, taking her to drive long-distance trucks, teaching her self-defense skills and telling her that she was different from others. At that time, he thought Sean was his patron saint. But suddenly he stared at her like crazy, broke her toe, stuffed her head into the toilet, handed her a knife in front of her parents, and killed the dog she bought at a high price, just to vent her anger. Because she is far away from overseas, he even threatened her by phone and email. At first, I will come and apologize to her soon after I hit her, admit my sins and beg her forgiveness, and then act like nothing happened.
Love and hate, or hate because of love. Sean hopes that his sister can be loyal to this family, and the so-called loyalty is nothing more than listening to his father, not being a so-called "prostitute" in public and being a filial woman. When his sister listens to him and respects his father, he won't do anything to her. And my sister began to have her own ideas and became an adult. Until the cognitive deviation between going to college and his family grew bigger and bigger, Sean began to hate her and began to beat her more cruelly.
In his cognition, the more his brothers and sisters contact with the outside world and know more, the farther away they are from home and the farther away they are from their beliefs. They are sinners in the family and should be dealt with by his means. So, for Taylor's sake and for his sister's sake, he also used such means. At first, he thought they were a family. As they grew up, he felt that they had betrayed their family and beliefs, so he began to deal with them with his fists. The difference is that my sister chose to give in, and Taylor and she chose to escape.
Interestingly, Sean is the only one in the family who dares to compete with his father. He can argue with his father and walk away. His desire for control is subtly endowed by his father, and he even wants to be above his father. There is no one else in his heart. He is the boss. He can manage the construction team well and bring short-term security to his little sister, his wife and other vulnerable people. He can do everything he can control well, but his desire for control turns his mind into a demon, such as falling in love with someone and then monitoring her every move for thousands of miles, repeatedly asking her to obey, and when things get out of control, he begins to go crazy.
Sean has done him much more harm than mentally and physically. He nicknamed her a prostitute, a nigger and a traitor. For a long time, she doubted whether she really became that kind of person. He wants to control everything. He made disobedient people listen because of fear, and then he used his so-called love as an excuse for all this. It is horrible to use some labels to define others by borrowing the control formed. She lost herself for a moment and wondered if she was such an unbearable person.
She could have asked her parents and brothers and sisters for help. But dad started it. Dad used his understanding of the world to construct his understanding of this family. He asked his father for help. Dad doesn't believe that Sean can do such a thing, and it's also because her behavior cognition goes beyond her family and is incompatible with her family. Dad would rather trust loyal Sean than her. Mother knew what she had suffered, and she even saw it with her own eyes. She chose to turn a blind eye because there was nothing she could do. My sister didn't resist Sean's threats, and my father advised her to rely on them. In the end, she didn't choose to fight with her. Taylor, who stood on the United front with him, suffered a lot, but his strength was small after all.
Because she chose to fight and became an enemy at home, Sean had to increase violence against her. Where there is resistance, there is violence. My father has been preaching her home all her life, and Sean has always chosen violence to make her yield.