What do you mean by strictly educating children and asking them to judge their own conduct?
A woman who is strict with herself must be harsh if she wants to test a person's character. Strict discipline of children means strict discipline of one's own woman, being responsible for children's physical and mental development, strict discipline of children's words and deeds, and strict examination of children's conduct, that is, to test whether a person's conduct is qualified, it is necessary to be harsh. A person's character can be recognized as long as it can stand the harsh requirements and conditions, and a really good character can stand any test.