Detailed introduction

When a new life sets foot on this world, it is first to distinguish between men and women, and then different education. Men are physically victorious and endowed with rationality; Female, emotional thinking is preferred. A correct view of the differences between men and women will build a healthy mentality. In the process of growing up, there will be many unexpected things and some injuries may be encountered. How to avoid injury or how to minimize injury after injury? When accidents happen, psychological changes often occur, and psychological injuries are often accompanied by life, and women's psychology is more prone to fluctuations. Therefore, in the face of accidents, how to adjust and treat them correctly is particularly important.

When minors transition to adulthood, the gradual progress of the stage is particularly important. At an early age, boys and girls will have doubts, why do boys pee standing up ... and why girls can wear skirts and boys can't? This is the first question a child asks about sex. During adolescence, girls begin menarche and boys begin nocturnal emission. At the beginning, there was a panic that needed someone to answer and appease. Step by step, we can grow well.

There is an article describing the body structure in the biology textbook, and there should be a sex education class in the classroom, but for various reasons, most of them are skipped in a hurry. Sex becomes obscure and shameful, which leads to the change of color when talking about sex. The importance of this class is to help children establish the bottom line of their bodies, face the sense of crisis, give curious answers to physical differences, and teach children shame and self-esteem.

In recent years, sexual assault cases frequently appear in the public eye, mostly involving children and girls. A woman is a girl in her teens and a woman in her adulthood. Women, for sensitivity and intelligence. In the process of girls' transformation to women, a correct view of sex education is the inner soul.

Why sex education is essential, perhaps, can only be understood after reading Lin's book Fang Siqi's First Love Paradise.

Lin was born on 199 1 and died on 20 17. In order to write this book well, she has to write for more than eight hours every day. This book deals with child sexual abuse and domestic violence. The main story of this book has true stories to follow. This book written by Lin reflects her experience of being sexually assaulted by a cram school teacher. She has been in psychiatry for many years and was diagnosed with depression.

As Feng Tang once said when reading this book, a sad story is an angry reality. Sex and violence, in the darkness of human nature, sink, cheat, nausea. Sexual violence, facing the confusion of human nature, is painful to cut open the skin and expose the flesh and blood.

? amusement park

I once heard a question, if there is a time machine in this world, when do you want to go back? After listening to many answers, I want to go back to my carefree and trouble-free childhood. I can run barefoot on the ground, lie in the arms of my family, say whatever I want, and a candy will be enough, regardless of whether it is appropriate or not. However, when I was a child, must I be carefree? Can we get this straight? Hiding in the corner after injury will the wound heal automatically? The wound on the body is ok, but what about the heart? Maybe the older generation scoffed. These words are all made up by you young people.

Really? Do psychological problems really only appear in recent years? It still existed for a long time, but it broke out slowly at this time.

Liu Fang's family lives on the first floor and their neighbors get along well. Liu's little girls grew up together, more like a pair of unrelated twins.

Fang Siqi, a girl who likes to record her feelings and life in words. Optimistic, cheerful, all the beautiful adjectives in this world can be used on her.

Liu Yiting is more like Fang Siqi, another ordinary face. Their thoughts are similar and their souls are in harmony. They are very much like one person.

The advantage of being a child is that you can speak freely, grow up slowly, and then think about it and say it, worrying too much.

Fang Jia and Liu Jia have a very good relationship. The two families live on the first floor. Sometimes Liu Yiting knocks on Fang Jia's door in his pajamas with takeout. Sometimes Fang Siqi will appear with delicious food. Sometimes, two girls can play in the room all afternoon without getting bored. The two adults in Liu's room often go out to eat. There is a plate of sea cucumber on the dining table, one next to the other. Liu Yiting looked at the sea cucumber in front of him and couldn't help laughing. Liu's mother is very puzzled. Liu Yiting said it was a secret. Liu raised his voice and asked. Liu Yiting said innocently, "It's like oral sex." Mother Liu was very angry. She punished Liu Yiting. Fang Siqi said she would like to be with her. At this time, mother Liu said to her mother, "Your Siqi is really sensible", which is what we often heard about other children when we were young.

Siqi and Yi Ting stood silently in front of the French window. Si Qi asked in a low voice, as if quietly, "Why did you say that just now? Do you know what that word means? " Liu Yiting shook his head, I don't know, but I think this is much more advanced than saying that sea cucumber is taking a shit. "At that time, they didn't know that words they didn't know were actually crimes, although they might not be sentenced.

Punished Fang Siqi and Liu Yiting returned to the dinner table. Adults put dessert in front of them. Fang Siqi gave Yi Ting maltose and was rejected. Yi Ting said, "Don't give me anything you don't eat." Si Qi also began to get angry. "This is obviously my favorite food." Maltose melted on her fingers, and Siqi quickly opened her mouth and licked it. Yi Ting said with a smile, "It's really ugly". Siqi wanted to answer back, but thought that if she continued, she might quarrel. Yi Ting began to notice this problem. Both of them are very quiet, and the table is as quiet as the sea. Suddenly, a figure appeared. "Two little beauties have something on their minds." Grandpa Qian sat down. Fang Siqi and Liu Yiting hate being called by others. However, Fang Siqi and Liu Yiting were in trouble, and no one spoke.

The next day they were like one person.

Neighboring communities often cook more food for homeless people during festivals. "This is the Lantern Festival, so it's charity to ask two children to help," said the aunt of the neighborhood committee. Fang Siqi and Liu Yiting don't know what charity is. While Yi Ting and Siqi seriously started to give away jiaozi's package, and the package was crooked at the intersection. There were so many people that they didn't go to the toilet all morning. Finally, they couldn't help it. They slipped away. When I came back, I heard Aunt Zhang whisper, "Are they all playing out of sight?" ? Yi Ting doesn't want to hear them say this. She felt beaten, and they sneaked into the street. When I was a child, my neighbors, the daughter of the Zhang family and the son of the Wang family were all gossiped in the communication, and the secrets between the neighbors could not be concealed.

Xu Wenyi, a doctor of literature in her twenties, has an oval face and thick eyelashes, blinking and touching.

Before Xu got married, she thought the man she was looking for should be reliable and suitable. She also asked why Qian chose her. "All the women used to be very close to me, but now I just want to find someone similar to me." Xu thinks what he said is actually very logical.

The whole corridor is full of joy. Brother Qian and Sister Xu are getting married today. Siqi and Yi Ting are wearing beautiful skirts and swinging back and forth.

When they read the wedding vows, they were filled with emotion. Siqi and Yiting looked at Sister Xu in a white wedding dress and were full of longing for their future wedding.

In the bridal chamber, Brother Qian gave a pink necklace and said, "I don't know anything about jewelry, but I think you like pink, so I'll buy you a necklace inlaid with pink diamond." .

The first guests Xu moved into his new house were Siqi and Yi Ting. As soon as Yi Ting opened his mouth, he said, "Brother One Dimension always said that his girlfriend knows more than us." Wenyi immediately fell in love with their two little girls.

Qian Yiwei and Xu have a high wall of books, which is full of books and some artworks. From teenage girls to teenage girls, Siqi and Yiting like to stick to the stories in Sister Xu's books. They think that the literature described by Sister Xu is warmer and the words are more wonderful, and they often run upstairs and downstairs. Children's world is full of simplicity. If you like it, you must linger and follow it like a small tail.

At that time, Sister Xu was still the woman who wore shorts all day.

? 2. Paradise Lost

The devil's eyes, flashing in the dark heart, are always looking for delicious prey, making perfect plans, locking them step by step, and finally swallowing them. Li Guohua first met Siqi and Yi Ting in the elevator. Two girls in school uniforms are talking about campus life. The look on their faces, like stones, made ripples in Li Guohua's heart. Ring after ring, for a long time. Li Guohua asked, "Who is Yi Ting and who is Siqi?" ? "How do you know our names?" Yi Ting pretends to be an adult and pretends to be somewhat calm. After Siqi entered middle school, she often received snacks, drinks and love letters. There is a kind of alert in their eyes and words, but looking at this person in front of them seems to have crossed the line of alert.

For the first time, Li Guohua thanked the traces left on his face by the years. Fang Siqi and Liu Yiting slowly took off their guard, but the two girls were smart and left a mind's eye. Si Qi said, "No matter who you call, we will turn back." Li Guohua looked at the girl who opened her mouth, wanted to think, and knew that this was Fang Siqi, a building upstairs and downstairs, and the child's personality description was always heard. Fang Siqi has the face of a newborn lamb. Li Guohua put on a nearly perfect polite smile. "I just moved to this building to teach Chinese. If you have anything to solve, just ask. " . The two girls shook hands with him in turn and the elevator opened. Li Guohua felt that the elevator was so fast for the first time. Looking at the figure of Fang Siqi drifting away, Li Guohua's eyes flashed the light of hunting, but it was almost a flash. He denied in his mind that it would be too much trouble not to touch the children of rich families.

On weekends, Siqi and Yiting were taken to visit their new neighbors. Fang Siqi was wearing a skirt that day. When she entered the room, it suddenly occurred to her that she didn't wear socks, and a little shame was reflected on her cheeks. When Fang Siqi cocked her toes and showed pink nails, she unexpectedly became a beautiful landscape. Liu's mother told Li Guohua that children were naughty, and Li Guohua thought the word naughty was very interesting, and it didn't have to be over fourteen.

Siqi and Yi Ting patiently accompany Xi to play and tell stories. At this time, the wind blew Fang Siqi's bangs, revealing her smooth forehead at that moment, much like a newborn baby's milk burp, perfectly embedded with the oval face. Li Guohua's heart is in chaos, like a flood that has been imprisoned for a long time. It opened the floodgate and spewed out.

Li Guohua seems to be a modest, courteous and generous teacher, enjoying the happiness brought by the female students in school and cram school in his heart. Whenever, those young girls can bring him happiness. The ignorant girls in "Seeds of Love" turned their affection into admiration and sent them to Li Guohua in a pink envelope, and Li Guohua put them in the mailbox of his secret garden.

Li Guohua likes to watch silently. Fang Siqi is still wearing a school uniform, but under her name tag, there is a red edge of a bra without lace, which outlines her milky chest. The sun shines on her face, and his heart is rolling, slowly sucking air, and there can be no expression on the surface. Take your time and have a careful plan.

Li Guohua thinks his identity is really good. A teacher who teaches and educates people, Li Guohua counterpart Si Qi said, "If you don't understand anything, you can ask me.".

When Li Guohua opened her door, Fang Siqi came to Li Guohua to explain. She wants to know why there are no textbooks and pens on the tutoring table. Fang Siqi reached for something, and the skin around her waist caught Li Guohua's eye. Li Guohua, close the door. He is not in a hurry, slowly talking about the composition ideas. Slowly, the topic shifted to Fang Siqi's hand, and she blushed deeply. Just then, the pen dropped, and Fang Siqi bent down to pick it up. She looked up and found that the teacher was holding her hand, and her face flashed with emotions that she could not understand. She scared Li Guohua to Fang Siqi. Breathe, Si Qi has been saying no, but in Li Guohua's eyes, it is more attractive. Li Guohua grabbed her clothes and dumped her penis. When she says half-assed, just use her mouth. At this moment, Siqi said, "I won't." Li Guohua lifted herself up, all invaded Siqi's mouth, pinned her throat and forced her to hold her breath. In the process of swallowing, Li Guohua let out a cry of "Oh, my God", which contained the words like bacon.

Fang Siqi didn't even make a sound when she cried. She felt that she died at the age of thirteen and would never grow up again. She silently picked up the scattered clothes and curled up. Li Guohua felt Fang Siqi's self-esteem was not allowed to say, because it was too dirty. Looking at her in front of her, Li Guohua felt that the bud of desire was about to break ground. Fang Siqi looked at the man who was gnawing at himself and felt lifeless in his heart.

Fang Siqi thinks the teacher likes herself. He said something he didn't understand. Teach yourself what you don't understand, and then you will fall in love with the teacher. Falling in love with him, these things are natural and normal. Later, Fang Siqi entered high school, and Li Guohua took her to her secret apartment. Fang Siqi always asks the teacher again, do you love me? She wants to give herself a correct answer. On the high school campus, she always receives many invitations from boys, but she refuses them. She feels that she doesn't belong to their sunny world, and it is not difficult for her to comfort herself that she loves her teacher. Si Qi also jokingly mentioned to her family that we didn't seem to have sex education, and her family was very scared. At this moment, Si Qi began to understand that his family would eventually be absent from this class. Yiting also began to drift away from herself.

Li Guohua went to Singapore with the school physics teacher and others. They talked about the last female student. Aren't you tired of it? The other said, what about you and that little model? A word comes out of their mouths, just to talk about academic issues. They are more like a congregation, one introducing the other and believing in it.

Li Guohua fell in love with a Guo Xiaoqi in the cram school and violated her on the grounds of study. Guo Xiaoqi believed Li Guohua's words, and Guo Xiaoqi fell in love with Li Guohua. In college, Li Guohua said that the best way for a teacher to love you is to let you go. Guo Xiaoqi stayed at the door all night and didn't leave.

Guo Xiaoqi, a college student, felt very uncomfortable and indulged himself. There are words that seriously hurt her on campus. She is about to drop out of school. At that moment, she said crazily that the teacher loves herself and she is with the teacher. To prove this, Guo's parents talked with Li Guohua and his wife. Li Guohua sincerely told Guo's parents that he loved them, but he knew they couldn't be together. Guo's parents are ashamed and don't want to make a big deal out of it. Jenny was silent for a long time with empty eyes. The hoarse voice rusted a few times. Li Guohua argued that she forced me, but I refused. What I just did was to appease her parents. That student gave me an idea, just once Jenny doesn't want to believe that Li Guohua will never get divorced, at least not for this reason. The woman in front of her daughter now looks like a pair of eyes.

Guo Xiaoqi sent text messages crazily, and Li Guohua hid in the dark and replied that he looked like a mouse. I never loved you. Everything was a lie. Guo Xiaoqi is crazy, posting on the forum, and he raped me. This is a typical Stockholm syndrome.

At this moment, Li vented Li Guohua's madness on Siqi, who asked him, "Do you know what we are like now? Oh, teacher, we cheat, which is the smell of fish. "

Fang Siqi can't sleep. As soon as she closes her eyes, the picture in front of her will always be the first time she was violated by her teacher. She's sick and scared. From thirteen pairs to eighteen pairs, she seems to have had more than two thousand nightmares day and night.

Fang Siqi ran away like crazy.

When Liu Yiting received a phone call and came to the police station, Siqi became the girl who could only peel bananas and her eyes were distracted. The housekeeper sent Siqi to a mental hospital for treatment, and no one knew why Siqi was crazy.

Yi Ting went back to the place where she lived with Siqi, only to find that Siqi had been writing a diary. In the diary, Siqi lived in fear, in hell, suffering from fire and water, and died at the age of thirteen.

? Step 3 return to heaven

Later, Xu and divorced. One year after marriage, Qian Yiwei began to drink heavily. After being drunk, Xu played the most vigorously. After waking up, he apologized desperately, day after day, year after year. Similarly, Xu became a woman who could only wear a coat and trousers. In order to cover up the scars of being beaten, Xu Wenyi likes Qian Yiwei best. Later, once, Qian Yiwei woke up in the middle of the night and found literature and art in a pool of blood. Xu realized that he was wrong, which was outrageous. It turns out that domestic violence is only o times, countless times. It turns out that every kind word and forgiveness is for the next violence.

When literature and art were together with Yi Ting, Yi Ting always regretted it. If Siqi was more concerned and careful, she might not be the girl in the hospital. It's not that I don't know Siqi's strangeness, but I'm too radical to ask in detail. It turns out that she is the best protected person, and she is still the good girl as always. Siqi became the girl who never grew up. Xu told Yi Ting that you should go to college, make a boyfriend, live with Siqi's share, and pretend that there has never been any harm and no victims in this world, and live happily.

Li Guohua-style people exist in every dark and bright place in this society. Some of them have never been discovered, some are complacent, and some are like a group. Some people are responsible for assisting, and some people are assisting in hunting. Birds of a feather flock together to discuss the beauty of their prey. Their words are shameless and obscene, and they still maintain a saint's face on the surface. Distorted heart, abnormal human nature, and sinking step by step. The lack of sex and the distortion of human nature.

Girls who are sexually assaulted are afraid to speak when they think that they are in a beautiful world, a world of children. When they think they are wrong, they will hide first. Sex itself is not right or wrong. It's people who are wrong, scum who kill with sex. They killed one girl after another with this weapon.

This is not love, this is desire, walking Pandora's box, like an abyss, like hell, dirty and rotten.

Many cases of child sexual abuse mostly occur in schools. In the safest and most beautiful places in the eyes of the world, some people have received higher quality education, but they just put on masks to disguise themselves and better implement their hunting plans. The wolf in sheep's clothing still shows the killing of predators. Some people are respected and covered with human skin, which seems sacred and inviolable. In fact, their bones are rotten. Drag people into purgatory like animals.

Children's world should be beautiful, at least it should be well protected. The best way for girls to grow up is to protect themselves.