First, the six principles of cultivating children's good behavior habits in the family. The cultivation of habits is the result of behavior accumulation. If a child gains a sense of success from a certain behavior, it will naturally repeat this behavior and become his habit. Habit determines a person's character, and the cultivation of good behavior habits should start from an early age, starting from the family. In promoting children to develop good behavior, parents can follow the following six basic principles: 1, favorable environment. Children must be provided with a suitable environment to form good habits and try to avoid any behavior that destroys this good environment. Parents should strive to create a harmonious and stable family environment. In terms of software, parents should constantly improve their own cultural literacy and connotation, overcome bad habits and customs, create a relaxed, democratic, dialogue, communication and humanistic environment, enjoy exploration and learning, and have a harmonious parent-child relationship. In terms of hardware, the design of bedroom lighting, the posting of calligraphy and painting, the purchase of books, the cleaning of sanitation, and the placement of articles should be harmonious and comfortable, so that the home will become a comfortable and warm harbor for both parents and children. 2. Patient guidance. Everyone has the hope that their children will succeed, but rushing too quickly often fails to achieve the expected results. We can't ask children to develop many good habits at once, we must be patient and guide them slowly. 3. Praise in time. When children are inadvertently found to have good behavior, parents should immediately praise them to show encouragement and strengthen their behavior. 4. Good demonstration. Every move of parents can't escape the children's eyes. They must set an example and always set a good example for their children. 5. A firm attitude. In front of children, parents must have their own opinions and be firm in everything they do. If parents can't make up their minds, children will be affected. 6. tacit cooperation. Inconsistent attitudes among adults greatly hinder the cultivation of children's good habits. Even if adults have different opinions, they should discuss it without the children, and everyone should seek solutions in the discussion. Second, cultivating good study habits in the family can start from the following aspects: study habits refer to the special tendency of children to carry out an activity automatically under a certain learning background. In other words, at a certain time, children will learn automatically. The main content of study habits: The basic study habits are: concentrate on listening in class, finish homework independently, preview carefully and review in time. 1, classroom study habits: preview-concentrate on listening-take notes-speak boldly-be good at asking questions. (Diligence and curiosity) 2. Work habits: neat handwriting-diligent thinking-independent completion of homework-sorting out wrong questions. 3, test habits: study hard at ordinary times-review carefully-relax the mentality test. Only in a good state of relaxation can children give full play in the examination room and correctly guide them to overcome the habit of leaving the examination room. 4, reading habits: books are the ladder of human progress, reading is the golden key to open the door to children's wisdom. Some people say that if a child develops a good habit of reading, it is equivalent to installing a growth engine in his heart. To cultivate children's interest in reading, we must first make children happy in reading and guide them correctly on the basis of happiness. To cultivate good study habits at home, we can start from the following aspects: 1. Parents should set an example, don't gather at home to play cards, and don't watch TV while their children are doing their homework. In short, try not to do anything at home that distracts children's attention and affects their study. 2. Children must have a clear study time after school, and generally will not change it at will. 3. Children have a reasonable arrangement for study and entertainment every week, such as Monday to Thursday. If they don't watch TV or watch less, they'd better not watch it. They can concentrate on their studies and rest. They can watch 1-2 hours of TV every Friday, Saturday and Sunday, and at the same time, they can arrange some time every Saturday and Sunday for their children to do something they are particularly interested in, such as playing basketball, table tennis and playing computer, but playing computer. 4. It is stipulated that children should not do other things unrelated to learning without completing their learning tasks. 5. Put an end to children's bad habit of eating while doing homework. 6. Parents should try their best to accompany, assist and urge their children to complete their learning tasks. 7. Give children a fixed, quiet and good learning environment, including a separate room, a fixed writing desk and a special eye-protection desk lamp. Let the children invest in the learning atmosphere as soon as they step into this environment. Third, how to cultivate children's good self-care habits in the family: 1 Guide children to form self-care consciousness. On the one hand, parents should change their own practice of arranging children instead of too much, and reverse their dependence mentality; On the other hand, it is necessary to cultivate and strengthen children's self-management awareness. Learn to manage yourself from primary school, and at the same time, in life, parents should consciously arrange their children to do what they can. For example, children are required to insist on dressing, folding quilts and sorting out school supplies every day, so that their self-care awareness will continue to strengthen over time and gradually form self-care habits in the improvement of self-care ability. 2. Cultivate children's concept of time; Good habits are inseparable from a strong sense of time. Therefore, parents must cultivate their children's sense of time and improve their self-discipline while cultivating their self-care habits. Parents should help their children make a schedule for family work and rest, urge them to get up on time, go to bed on time, go to school on time and finish their homework on time, and let them gradually learn to adjust their behavior under the constraints of time. 3. Help children master several aspects of family study. Children's learning activities after returning home are an extension and supplement of school education, which is very necessary to consolidate the knowledge learned in class. But at first, children don't know how to study at home, which requires the careful training of parents. Parents should help their children master the four links of learning; That is, review, homework, inspection and preview. Review is to review the knowledge learned that day and find out the key knowledge; On the basis of review, carefully complete the homework assigned by the teacher; Then carefully check the completed homework; Finally, preview the knowledge to be learned in the next class, master the words you don't know and understand through the dictionary, and mark the questions you don't understand so that you can pay attention to the teacher's explanation in the next class. In order to help children master these four links, parents must work with their children step by step from the beginning. After children are familiar with and master the methods of review, homework, inspection and preview, parents should always supervise and guide their children's behavior so that children can gradually form stable habits. According to relevant research, once the primary school students in lower grades form a family study habit mode of "reviewing, doing homework, checking and previewing", it will not only promote their learning enthusiasm in class, but also have a far-reaching impact on their future study. 4. Parents should set a good example for their children: it is very important for parents to set an example by themselves to cultivate their self-care habits. Therefore, parents should pay attention to influence their children with good words and deeds in peacetime, create an orderly family life environment for their children, and let them feel that everything their parents do is serious and done well by their own efforts. In this way, children will learn the excellent quality and good habits of their parents in dealing with work and life in a subtle way. In short, good self-care habits are the foundation of success, and a qualified parent should be the designer and cultivator of children's good habits. Fourth, how to help children overcome some bad habits and develop good habits, whether it is living habits, study habits or thinking habits, will benefit a person's life. But to be honest, bad habits are easy to form, but good habits are hard to form. If you don't persist, you may lose them. People have the nature to avoid work, which is also the reason for the existence of bad habits such as laziness, procrastination, inattention and squandering money. But reason is the most precious human nature. As parents, we should strive to cultivate children's rational thinking and let them get happiness from obeying rationality. This kind of happiness, whether material or spiritual, is positive and effective. Habits are not formed in a day. It is better to be angry than to work hard. It is also an important part of life for parents and children to overcome various bad habits together. First of all, parents should take the lead in overcoming some bad study and living habits. No matter what the living conditions at home are, as long as you are diligent, your home can be clean and tidy. It is best to have family rules or "three chapters of the contract". For example, the parent-child theory takes turns to clean the living room, not piling things up, not sleeping late, not swearing, not cursing children, not watching unhealthy audio-visual products, not smoking, not spitting and so on. Bad habits should be corrected with good norms. If you make a good timetable, you should go to bed early and get up early. In addition, stipulate the time for watching TV and the content of the program, and negotiate the time for reading and entertainment. Subscribe to several popular and healthy newspapers and magazines at home and list cultural consumption in the family budget. In fact, more than 200 yuan a year is enough for the average family. Secondly, parents and children should develop good reading habits. As parents, we should set an example first. If you don't read newspapers when you eat, watch TV when you read books, and listen to music when you study. Be quiet when studying and don't interfere with each other. When reading and writing, the indoor light should be soft, not dazzling, and not too dark. Imagine if a child does his homework under the sound of parents scolding, quarreling, playing mahjong, watching TV and listening to music, even if he is sitting at a desk, how can he have the heart to study? How can a family without warmth and reading hobbies cultivate children who like reading! Thirdly, parents should not only help children develop good habits, but also pay attention to cultivating people in the process of training. Don't think that you are good at everything and poor at everything. Some parents give bonuses and buy computers when their children get into the top few, but rarely ask their children how to spend their money and how to use computers. On the contrary, they have developed the bad habit of extravagance and waste and indulging in playing computer games online, which has affected their study. Therefore, parents give their children space, not regardless, and respecting their children is not laissez-faire. When to go home, turn off the TV on time, when to do homework, when to go to bed, when to get up, when to surf the Internet, what games to play, and how long to play, parents should have clear requirements, ask questions at any time, and supervise and limit them when necessary. Children have a bad habit of finding problems from their parents. Children's problems lie with their parents, and many problems are cultivated by their parents through hard work. In short, the cultivation of children's good habits is a long-term and continuous consolidation process. At first, parents' guidance, supervision and necessary constraints are needed, but as long as parents take the lead, set an example and persevere, then good habits will gradually develop.