An age of ignorance
The only child born in 1980s, born in an ordinary working-class family, has few childhood memories and only some vague pictures when thinking hard. Primary school is a middle school student, only good at jumping rubber bands; Middle school students, puppy love to learn hegemony; After failing in the senior high school entrance examination, my parents sent me to the Chinese class in the city at a high price, and my grades were stable at above average. I am a playful and cheating senior, and it is no accident that I failed in the college entrance examination. When I was a teenager, I didn't realize the importance of learning, and my sense of existence in the group was not strong. In the process of growing up, my father's lack of love led to puppy love. There is nothing to be proud of. If so, someone asks, "Is your boyfriend the first in our junior high school group every year?" ! ""Yes, he was my first love. "
18 years old, was sent to a remote and closed college in the provincial capital to take the English self-study exam. English was the only subject that passed the college entrance examination, which was particularly difficult that year. My best friend Xiaoying failed in the top three in the class. Away from my parents, studying abroad and watching my mother leave school, I made up my mind to study hard and seriously. Xiaoying wrote, I will suffer this sooner or later! And I really feel very happy, from the look up of my classmates and the attention of my English teacher, so I planted a doomed love-teacher-student love, which caused a sensation in the whole school. I left school with my teacher.
Self-taught exams are very abusive. Every time you fail a course, you have to wait a year. Before I graduated from junior college, I found a training class and read an undergraduate course. Even my bachelor's degree certificate has to be tested twice more. Others live a relaxed and happy four-year undergraduate life. I refused to repeat, but it took me six years to finish the English language and literature major taught by myself. In the following years, I was a big boy and sat opposite me regularly in the study room of Normal University. He is fair-skinned, tall and strong, and the sun is shining. The air was filled with ambiguous smell, which opened the prelude to a sister-in-law relationship.
I took part in the postgraduate entrance examination twice in six years and applied for the foreign languages of Linda University and Dalian University. I always thought in my bones that the self-taught candidates could not get on the table and had to refresh their academic qualifications through graduate school, but they almost lost both times. Failure and failure have become accustomed to me.
I am glad that 18-year-old self suddenly woke up. During my six years of undergraduate and postgraduate preparation, I have cultivated strong self-study ability, pressure resistance and frustration resistance, and scum turned around with firm will, sowing the seeds that I must go to graduate school. Unfortunately, I failed to focus more on personal growth and skill accumulation, and wasted a lot of precious time on unnecessary complex emotions. Finally, because of the entanglement of doomed love, at the age of 24, I had to set foot on the South Locomotive, hug the big boy who was sent to the station, and bid farewell to that ignorant era.
Struggle era
In March, 2006, I went to my relatives' home in Dongguan, officially entered the society, and worked to support myself. At that time, the law and order in Dongguan was very poor, and factories were all factories. It's not easy to find a professional and decent job. Combined with looks and expressions, I submitted resumes to assistants and secretaries, and finally joined a private real estate advertising company, learning from scratch, with the first month's salary 1200 yuan.
I did my first job for two years, but I didn't have much professional knowledge, didn't master design software, and didn't try to write a copy. It's all my own fault. I failed to seize the opportunity to absorb or invest more in myself. Fortunately, every step I take counts. The boss's guidance, guidance and scolding helped me get rid of my ignorance when I first entered the workplace. The key point is that this job let me know the real estate industry for the first time, let me know my husband now, and let me resolutely quit the developer.
In May 2008, after looking for a job in Dongguan for a month failed, the factory really didn't meet my temperament, so I had no choice but to go to Shenzhen to find a boyfriend (now my husband). The job-seeking direction is general assistant and secretary of foreign real estate developers. It should be easier to achieve the goal. On May 26th, she successfully joined the company as the secretary of the United States Lianguan real estate developer, and now she has been working in the company 13+.
13 years, bought a house, bought a car, got married and had children, and my daughter was 8 years old. In order to have a more stable promotion space in the company, I continue to learn and improve myself on the premise of completing my job. Cantonese, English, MBA, speech, writing, communication skills, leadership; Also try TTT, coach and motivator; Financial investment, time management, jiaosheng, exercise and fitness, makeup matching, swimming, vocal music, accordion and so on.
Over the years, I have gradually developed excellent habits. I will go all out to do anything, but I will do my best within my ability and leave no regrets. If everyone's life length is similar, then I hope to broaden the depth of life and make my life a little different. I like myself very much now, and I want to be beautiful and live more charming; Want to make money and live more confidently.
Reflecting on my efforts for many years, I am sure that I have made achievements through my own efforts. Today, I am full of confidence, energy and vitality, but I also missed many opportunities. The most beautiful 20 17 subway bus building newspaper network has my promotion, but I have never taken the opportunity to build a personal IP, nor have I ever set foot in a valuable circle to increase value, and I lack channels for expansion and practice. The reasons are summarized as follows: satisfying the status quo, stable family and comfortable work; I don't want to take risks, and I don't have the courage to throw the ring over the fence; The willingness to make money on the sideline is not strong enough, and it has not been given meaning and turned into just need.
After the first Horse Summit in 2020, I finally let go of my obsession with the race. I strongly feel that I will have more planning and preparation for my old age, and I can't just entangle myself and spend my time in places where I can't see the output or the output is extremely illusory, so I began to focus on learning financial investment. At present, I hope to increase output while investing, explore the channels of realizing cash, and prepare for officially entering the era of making money.
The era of making money
Starting from 2022, we will start a decade of making money wholeheartedly.
Combing the existing income channels:
Main business: salary and bonus
Sideline: Lecturer, judge, juror.
Investment and financial management: general accounts for rent, new shares, new bonds, reverse repurchase, funds, stocks and insurance.
Consolidate and strengthen the existing income channels:
Main business: positive performance, striving for opportunities.
Sideline: spreading demand and running a circle of friends.
Investment and financial management: repeat the course and practice steadily
Other possibilities: pay attention to new circles and platforms, integrate the existing knowledge system, and determine the direction and method of realization.
Making money is the whole focus of the next decade. I am willing to pay, make myself valuable, realize financial freedom, and start a carefree life from the age of 50.
Xiaoyao age
In 2032, my daughter 18 years old went to college. I will be reborn and only do what I want to do and like.
Healthy image
Go to bed early and get up early every day, keep exercising, invite friends to have tea, swim, play ball, beautify and protect skin, watch fashion shows, learn makeup, and always be an elegant woman.
Hobbies and interests
Please yourself and teach occasionally; Try all kinds of fresh activities to increase life experience; Do some public welfare and accumulate blessings; Accordion band performance or exchange, etc. ; Sexy jazz needs to be learned.
The Vancouver Global Summit walked on the red carpet, and the picture of holding the national flag was printed in my mind. You can consider returning to the first horse, serving members and taking the leadership line. You can travel, you can use English, you can be interested in the speech contest or have fun and stand on the world stage for once.
travel notes
Driving an RV with my husband and parents to travel. The girlfriends travel abroad twice a year, find a place suitable for the elderly, and calm down when they can't run.
As 007, I will continue to write for seven years, hoping to write a book, autobiography or a good topic by then.
Through self-reflection, we can achieve the perfect state of body and mind.
The church communicates with the Lord every week and serves the Lord as much as possible; Writing, cooking and baking are optional.
Financial management at work
Go to the company if necessary, and you can do a good job in the project, not to make money, but to show your value and be happy. Manage the financial account and let the money be used by me.
Today is the eighth day of home isolation. This article has been written for so long that it really needs serious reply and careful planning.
I believe that what I clearly foresee, what I eagerly desire, what I sincerely pursue and what I strive for wholeheartedly will naturally come true!