July 14? On June 6th, 65438, I had the honor to attend the 17th National Experimental Seminar on New Education. What is the theme of this seminar? Meet Qixia and talk about home-school cooperation? At the meeting, I saw many successful cases of home-school cooperation and learned excellent practices from all over the country to promote home-school cooperation. In particular, Professor Zhu Yongxin made the theme report of the annual meeting "Home-school cooperation activates the educational magnetic field". He pointed out that it is really exciting and thought-provoking to let education help children see hope and make schools their spiritual homes, not just places to impart knowledge!
First, family education is indispensable.
A famous educator once said: Whoever gives up family education will almost ruin the child's future; Whoever wins the family education will win the brilliant future of the children. ? Family is the cell of society, and the formation of a person's moral quality, ideal sentiment, value pursuit, hobbies, personality cultivation, behavior habits and will can not be separated from family. Family education plays an inestimable role in a person's enlightenment, growth and success, and parents' outlook on life, morality and values will have a far-reaching impact on their children's growth. Family is a child's first class, and parents are a child's first teacher. How well family education is carried out is related to the lifelong development of children, the vital interests of thousands of families and the future of the country and the nation. However, many parents have problems such as low education level and lack of relevant resources, which leads to the phenomenon that some families value wisdom over morality, value knowledge over ability, overindulge and demand too much, which seriously affects the healthy growth and all-round development of children. Therefore, parents should comprehensively study the knowledge of family education, systematically master the scientific concepts and methods of family education, enhance their family education skills, and guide their children with correct thoughts, methods and actions. Constantly update the concept of family education, adhere to the guidance of moral education, and guide children to gradually form a correct world outlook, outlook on life and values with correct views on parenting, success and adulthood.
Second, parents should actively participate in home-school education.
Some people say that third-rate parents are nannies, second-rate parents are coaches and first-rate parents are role models. Parents should keep abreast of the performance and growth characteristics of their children at different ages, truly teach students in accordance with their aptitude, and constantly improve the pertinence of family education; We should always adhere to the principle of children, respect children's reasonable needs and personalities, create necessary conditions and living situations suitable for children's growth, and strive to grasp the regularity of family education; Constantly improve their own quality, attach importance to setting an example by example, set an example for children at all times, and influence and help children develop good thoughts, good characters and good habits with their healthy thoughts and good conduct; Efforts should be made to expand the space of family education, constantly create opportunities for family education, actively communicate with schools about children's situation, support children to participate in appropriate social practice, promote the organic integration of family education, school education and social education, form an educational synergy with schools and society, avoid lack of educational care and improper teaching, and effectively enhance the effectiveness of family education. Family education should strictly follow the law of children's growth. Parents of preschool children should provide their children with a healthy and rich living and activity environment, cultivate their children's healthy physique, good living habits and moral behaviors, and let them get experiences beneficial to their physical and mental development in a happy childhood. Parents of primary school students should urge their children to persist in physical exercise, increase self-protection knowledge and basic self-help skills, encourage them to take part in labor, develop good self-care habits and study habits, and guide their children to learn to be grateful to their parents, be honest and do things honestly. Parents of middle school students should carry out gender education and media literacy education for their children and cultivate their positive academic attitude.
Thirdly, schools should play a leading role in family education.
Schools should hold parent training lectures and consulting services to guide advanced educational concepts and scientific educational knowledge; Hold an experience exchange meeting, and give play to the exemplary role of excellent families through excellent parents' statements and case teaching. Organize social practice activities, and regularly carry out visit experiences, special surveys, voluntary services and social welfare activities with the participation of parents and students. Take major anniversaries and national traditional festivals as an opportunity to enhance parent-child communication through colorful and lively cultural and sports activities.
1. Hold a parent-teacher conference and build a communication platform between home and school.
Parents' meeting provides opportunities and platforms for families and schools to meet and talk, and the two sides form a cooperative body, with the goal of adopting many strategies to improve children's academic performance and life skills. Parents should first celebrate students' recent progress and form a warm and positive atmosphere. Then, each parent shares with the teacher the difficulties their children face and the strategies they have been using to support their children's learning. In the meeting, the teacher needs to introduce the knowledge and skills that students need to master at this stage. Teachers should demonstrate to parents how to help their children study at home, and help parents set goals for their children's future development according to their actual situation.
2. Innovate the home-school education model by using WeChat platform.
Some schools have many children of migrant workers, while rural schools have many left-behind children. It is difficult to visit these families at home, and parents are also very hard. It is difficult to get the cooperation of parents in these schools by traditional home-school cooperation. Therefore, connecting parents and schools through WeChat has become a new mode of home-school cooperation. For example, can the school WeChat official account be set? Family education window parent forum school dynamic parent-child activities? Several modules. ? Mentor's window? Regularly push some expert opinions, valuable family education books and reprint some good family education subscription numbers to help parents change their concepts, broaden their horizons and improve their family education ability; ? Parent forum? Introduce the effective experience of parents in our school regularly, parents' confusion about children's education, and the suggestions of senior class teachers to build a platform for parents to exchange and learn; ? School dynamics? Mainly push the school's main work introduction, school development trends, school news and so on. Expand parents' awareness of school work, and then stimulate parents and students to actively participate in school construction and development; ? The parent-child activity platform regularly launches parent-child practice activities suitable for students of different grades, effectively improving the problems of less companionship, less communication and poor parent-child relationship between parents and children.
? Mother-in-law tattoo 、? Meng Mu moved three times? Stories spread through the ages, tracing back to the history of China, and family education once shone brilliantly. However, with the progress of society, family education is weakening, and family education and school education do not communicate with each other, but run counter to each other. Nowadays, many parents think that educating their children is a school matter, and families are only responsible for their children's life problems; Schools pay more attention to academic performance, and participating in family education is meddling. There is a baby between home and school, whether it is home or school, parents or teachers. Only by squatting down can we enter the children's world, know their height, know what we can see and know what we are thinking, can we communicate effectively with our children, educate our children at home and in school, and build a bright future for them!
Author | Huaxian Education and Sports Bureau
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