We have a class meeting once a week to discuss things in the class. What I bring below is an enterprising theme class meeting, which I hope will help you.
Note: The two classes are divided into two classes, and teachers can conduct speech training.
First of all, I must succeed (I must do it)
1, why can't many people succeed?
An American businessman traveled to the coast of Mexico. At the dock of a small fishing village, he saw a Mexican fisherman rowing a boat ashore. There were several big fish on the boat, so he asked the fisherman how long it would take him to catch so many fish. Mexican fishermen say it only takes a while to catch so many. The American businessman asked again, then why don't you catch more fish? The Mexican fisherman was very disapproving and said, These fish are enough for my family. The American businessman asked again, then what do you do with so much time left in a day? Mexican fisherman said: I wake up naturally every day and go out to sea to catch some fish. When I come back, I will play with the children, take a nap, drink some wine in the village at dusk and play guitar with my buddies. My life is very happy. Hearing this, the American businessman did not agree. He said I can give you an idea: I am an MBA from Harvard University, and I suggest you spend more time catching fish, so that you can have money to buy bigger boats, catch more fish and buy more fishing boats, and then you can have your own fishing fleet. At that time, you don't have to sell fish to fishmongers, but directly to processing plants. Then you can open your own cannery, so that you can control the whole production, processing and marketing. Then you can leave this small fishing village and move to Mexico City, then to Los Angeles and finally to new york, where you can run your expanding business. Mexican fisherman asked: How long will it take? The American businessman replied: It will take about fifteen to twenty years. The Mexican fisherman asked again, and then? The American businessman said with a smile, then you can retire! You can move to a small fishing village by the sea. I wake up naturally every day, catch some fish at sea, bask in the sun by the sea, play with children, take a nap, wander around the village at dusk, drink a little wine with my buddies and play the guitar. The Mexican fisherman said, isn't that what I am now? Students can think about it, can a Mexican fisherman succeed in life? Why? If such a person can succeed, it is naive and the world is unfair. The person who cares about you the most in this world is yourself, and the person who can bring you success is yourself. If you don't have any desires and pursuits yourself, no external force will help. Success begins with self-change, and success begins with "I want to be excellent", "I want to be excellent" and "I want to succeed".
The main reason why many people can't succeed is that they lack a strong desire to pursue success, are content with the status quo and don't want to change. This passive concept and self-awareness is the enemy of pursuing success. Neither good nor bad is the biggest trap in life. No matter in study or career, dissatisfaction is the first condition for progress. Content = stop = stagnation = backwardness = elimination = extinction. This formula applies to everyone and all organizations. To succeed, we must first be strongly dissatisfied with the status quo; If you want to study well, you must first be dissatisfied with your existing achievements. It is difficult for people who are content with the status quo to be motivated.
To climb the tower of success, you must first squeeze out the crowd and come to the foot of the ladder of success before you are ready to climb. You will never succeed if you don't crowd out. In other words, you should have a strong desire to pursue success and become an excellent student. Students, please always remember that success begins with self-change. If you don't want to change any external force, it won't help.
Dissatisfaction with the status quo is an upward wheel.
When Bobby Chen was working with his workmates, he once said to them during a break: "Don't forget each other if you have money!" That is to say, if I get rich one day, I won't forget everyone. The workmates are laughing at him, thinking that he is talking big and boasting. Hearing this, Bobby Chen responded. "Swallows know the ambition of swans!"
Not long after he said this, he threw away his hoe and quit, saying, "What kind of emperor would you rather have?" After shouting all his life, he woke up. As a result, Qiang Qin died.
Are excellent students born? Are excellent students born? Don't! God is never partial. They are also made of clay. When they were born, they were also a little boy or girl. Some of them are even malnourished. They are not as white, fat, tall and strong as you. It's just that they keep learning and growing, struggling and struggling, and they create themselves.
Students, please remember: if you are not a dusty person, then you must be a dusty person. Because as social people, we can only choose between the sweat on our eyebrows and the tears under our eyebrows.
2. Have the desire to succeed-the conscious characteristics of successful people.
Interactive question: Think about it. What do students with average or poor grades lack most? What do the poor lack most?
Baron, a famous French media tycoon, died of cancer in the hospital on 1998. After his death, a French newspaper published a will. In this will, he said, "I used to be a poor man. Before I entered the threshold of heaven as a rich man, I left the secret of becoming a rich man. If anyone can guess the secret of my becoming rich by answering' what the poor lack most', he will get my congratulations. The 6,543,800 francs I left in the private safe of the bank will be used as a bonus to reward those who wisely uncover the mystery of poverty. "
After the will was published, 4856 1 person sent his own answer. These answers are varied and varied. Most people think that what the poor lack most is money. Some people think it's a lack of opportunities, others think it's skills or something. Of all the answers, only one 9-year-old girl guessed right. Her answer is: ambition. This is consistent with the secret of the rich to get rich-what the poor lack is the ambition to get rich.
On the day of receiving the 65,438+0,000 francs prize, the girl said a funny thing in an interview, "Every time my sister brings her 65,438+065,438+0-year-old boyfriend home, she always warns me not to be ambitious! Don't be ambitious! So I thought, maybe ambition can make people get what they want. " France is so romantic! 1 1 years old can have a boyfriend. But this is impossible in China!
The "ambition" here is actually a strong desire for success, that is, if I want to succeed, I must succeed.
There are "kinds" of success, which are "desire", "consciousness" and "thinking about change". The root of ideals and ambitions is the desire to pursue success. A strong desire for success breeds ideals and ambitions.
The internal power and motive force of success is "I want to succeed, I must succeed." Success comes from dreams. If you don't even think about it, then your road to success must be very slim. The first step to success requires a bold dream and a strong desire to pursue success. Mankind is great because of dreams and breaks through because of dissatisfaction. "I want to succeed" is the starting point of success. The reason why countless people are mediocre, down and out, and wretched is because this starting point does not exist. A reporter once asked Yang Lan, a famous program host, "Excuse me, as a woman, what do you think is the most important reliance for your success?" Yang Lan replied without hesitation: "Strong desire for success."
The conscious characteristics of successful people and outstanding talents: they have a strong desire to pursue success and a strong enterprising spirit.
Students, whether you want to succeed in getting good grades or you must succeed in getting good grades is very different. Only when you have to, can you show the will of your life, and you can mobilize all your talents, will, emotions and behaviors to serve your goals until they are realized.
If you want to succeed, you must have a strong desire to succeed. Just thinking is not enough. There is a formula for success: 100- 1 = 0. For example, shooting an arrow at a target requires at least 500 newtons of force. As a result, you only gave it a force of 499 Newton, but it still missed the target, only more than 500 Newton.
Newton will do. If you just want to succeed, but you don't necessarily succeed, you are likely to fail. You can only think about it.
A real winner must have the mentality of "I want to succeed, I must succeed". When you make up your mind, "I must", the world will make way for you. There is a formula of success in success science, that is, 100% success = 100% desire × 100% method × 100% action. If your desire for success is 50%, the method of success is 50%, and the action of success is 50%, the product of three is only 12.5%, that is, if you approach ten, you will fail. If your desire for success is 100%, then your success coefficient is likely to be 100%, because a strong desire for success leads you to take action and work hard 100%, and in this process, you will find 100% through continuous learning and continuous trying. But if your desire for success is zero, then your success coefficient must be zero, because you don't want to act or try at all.
Success and excellent grades are not a question of wanting, but a question of wanting. If you want, you can; If necessary, you can (students please remember this sentence, it will give you passion and confidence). It is not ability that determines your success, but "you must succeed" that determines "you must prepare the corresponding ability"; It is not the existing methods that determine your success, but "you must succeed" that determines "you must find a successful method" In other words, determination determines success. Most people "want" rather than "must". What you don't want, but what you want is not strong enough, which is an important reason why people can't succeed. The "must" mentality, which is determined to win, has overwhelming power and can overcome all difficulties.
Successful people not only have the desire to succeed, but also have a strong desire. Because the desire is very strong, only by reaching faith can there be a key breakthrough, a powerful energy be generated, a person's potential be detonated, and a change from spirit to material be made. Faith can generate strength.
"Children are determined to go to the countryside, and they won't come back until they become famous. The bones don't need to be buried, and they are endless. " This is the great wish of young grandpa Mao. Driven by this great wish, Grandpa Mao walked out of the isolated Shaoshan Mountain at the age of 16.
In modern history, there was a little saint named Zeng Guofan who suppressed the Taiping Rebellion. He managed the family, ruled the country, leveled the world, and learned everything well. He went to Changsha from his hometown (Xiangxiang county, now Loudi city) to study, which increased his knowledge and broadened his horizons, so he made an oath of "not being a saint, but being an animal". Since then, he has been very aggressive in taxation. At the age of 30, he was already a second-class official in the imperial court, equivalent to the current provincial and ministerial cadres. In other words, at the age of 30, he became a senior official equivalent to the current governor and minister. The reason why he achieved so much at a very young age is that he has a strong desire to make progress. From the oath he made, "If you are not a saint, you will be an animal", which shows his great determination.
A real winner must have the mentality of "I must succeed". When you make up your mind to "I must", the world will make way for you. You are full of energy. Difficulties and setbacks often appear weak under the impact of life energy, and your will to life will show amazing power in an unobstructed view.
"I want, I must" is the internal motivation of life, and it is also the motivation to achieve success and excellent results.
If you don't, you must, and when you have to, you can. Because you have to, it will stimulate your potential and make you go all out, not all out.
Second, I will succeed-believe in myself and establish the belief that I can win (I can do it)
Desire and ambition are not enough to succeed and achieve excellent results. You must have one, too
Faith means "I will succeed" and "I will get excellent grades". It is a leap from "I must succeed and get excellent grades" to "I must succeed and get excellent grades".
The internal dynamic system has to solve two problems, the first is "I want to do something" and "I want to learn something", and the second is "I can do it" and "I will definitely learn it well". We should believe in ourselves, establish a strong belief in success, break the trap of self, establish a successful self-image, and believe that we will certainly achieve excellent results.
The whole secret of being a genius is to believe in yourself. Self-mockery is to "reduce the price" to deal with yourself. As long as students believe that they are better than others, you will eventually become better than others.
Self-confidence is the cornerstone of all success. A man can do it because he believes.
Professor Bloom of the University of Chicago studied 65,438,000 outstanding young people. The results show that these outstanding people believe that "I will get ahead" because they were teenagers.
If a person wants to succeed, there are two prerequisites, one is to pursue success, and the other is to believe that he can succeed. Students must establish a belief in success, establish a positive self-concept, believe that they can succeed, believe that they can learn their grades well, and believe that they are successful.
The quickest way for students to cultivate self-confidence is positive self-suggestion. It is best to shout confident words in front of the mirror several times every morning and evening, and at the same time act confident, such as I am the best. I am the best, I am unique. At the same time, pat your chest with your hand. When you take it away, make a fist and give a thumbs up. Smile when you speak, your eyes should shine and your gestures should be strong. After this training, you will become calm and confident.
If you want to achieve great things, you must have strong strength as the spiritual pillar, which is a person's self-confidence. The philosopher Emerson said, "Self-confidence is the essence of heroism." Only those who believe that they can succeed can succeed, and only those who believe that they can achieve great things can achieve great things. Self-confidence is the foundation and source of ambition. Without self-confidence, there can be no ambition. Without ambition, there is no ambition. Without ambition, there will be no achievement. Students, we must remember that confidence is more important than knowledge and wisdom. Winning confidence and firm belief is a person's most precious wealth and the source of all success.
1, as long as you are diligent, you can succeed.
The success of life is not determined by fate, nor by environment, but by positive attitude and persistent efforts.
When Rice was a child, racial discrimination in the United States was still very serious. Especially in Birmingham, the city where she lives, the status of blacks is very low, and they are discriminated and oppressed by whites everywhere. When Rice/Kloc-0 was 0/0 years old, the whole family came to Washington for sightseeing. Just because they are black, their whole family is blocked from the White House and can't walk in and visit like others! Xiaomi dared to be humiliated, gritted his teeth and stared at the white house, then turned around and slowly told his father, "One day, I will be the owner of that house!" " "
Rice's parents appreciate her daughter's ambition very much and often tell her: "The best way to change our black situation is to make extraordinary achievements. If you go forward with double energy, you may get half the position of white people, and if you are willing to work four times, you can keep pace with white people; If you can work eight times harder, you will definitely surpass the whites. "
Since then, in order to achieve the goal of "surpassing whites", Les has worked eight times harder than others for decades, studying hard, accumulating knowledge and cultivating abilities. She has mastered not only English, but also Russian, French and Spanish. He was admitted to the famous University of Denver in the United States and received his doctorate. At the age of 26, she became the youngest female professor at Stanford University and later became the provost of this university. In addition, Rice also studied tennis, figure skating, ballet and etiquette training, and won the first prize in the American Youth Piano Competition. She will try her best to do what white people can do; What white people can't do,
She should also try to do it. She finally succeeded and walked into the White House with her head held high, becoming the first black female secretary of state in American history.
When someone asked her the secret of success, she said, "Because I worked eight times!" " "In the twelfth month of 825 AD, a family in Changsha, Hunan Province, still had lights on in the middle of the night, and a 14-year-old child in the room was reciting. Lighting an oil lamp in the middle of the night means that it is not a poor family. The light caught the attention of a thief. Thieves lurk quietly on the beams of this house, hoping to steal things by turning off the lights when the children finish reciting books. I didn't know that the thief had a thousand calculations, but I didn't realize that the child was so stupid that he didn't recite an article after tossing all night. It's hard for thieves. Pity the thief and wait for him to wake up on the beam. In the cold winter, the weather is very cold. It's dawn, and thieves can't bear it. He jumped off the beam and pointed at the child and cursed: "What are you reading so stupid? "I recited an article casually, and then I left. I was so angry that I didn't even steal anything. Guess who this silly child is? He is Zeng Guofan, the first minister of ZTE in the late Qing Dynasty I mentioned above. Although the talent is not very smart (memory is average, I can't recite it very well), but with diligence, sureness, hard work and diligence, I finally got into the Jinshi, which is equivalent to a graduate student now and became a little saint.
It can be seen that diligence is more important than talent, as long as diligence can succeed. Therefore, there are thousands of learning methods, and hard work is the first one. If you want to get good grades, hard work is indispensable.
Zhang Liyong was born in a rural family in Jiangxi. He dropped out of high school and worked. Later, he was introduced as a chef in the canteen of Tsinghua University, responsible for steaming steamed buns. He studies hard by himself while working. He gets up at four o'clock every morning and teaches himself for seven or eight hours every day. Eight years later, he obtained a bachelor's degree in international trade from Peking University Institute of Adult Education, passed CET-6 and scored 630 in TOEFL. Later, he was awarded the China Youth Learning Award by the Central Committee of the Communist Youth League. When I taught myself Band 6, I didn't understand it after listening for a long time. I can't understand it in any case. After listening to it for ten times, fifteen times and twenty times, he still didn't understand it, but he persisted, didn't give up and kept listening. At that time, whenever he saw tapes and tape recorders, he felt sick. But he still stubbornly put earplugs in his ears, and in just two weeks, everything was understood.
Anything is possible as long as you work hard.
Learning is a process of seeking pleasure from suffering, suffering first and then sweet. Students, once they enter the state of learning and forget themselves, they will enter a virtuous circle. You will experience the happiness of seeking knowledge and diligence, and you will regard learning as enjoyment.
If you want to achieve great things, you must have strong strength as the spiritual pillar, which is a person's self-confidence. The philosopher Emerson said, "Self-confidence is the essence of heroism." Only those who believe that they can succeed can succeed, and only those who believe that they can achieve great things can achieve great things. Self-confidence is the foundation and source of ambition. Without self-confidence, there can be no ambition. Without ambition, there is no ambition. Without ambition, there will be no achievement. In the final analysis, confidence and belief are the core and key of everything. Confidence is more important than knowledge and wisdom. Winning confidence and firm belief is a person's most precious wealth and the source of all success.
As long as you keep changing, you can succeed.
Why do you say that you can succeed as long as you change? This is also an inspiration from nature. Because the environment is hard to change, so is others, so we'd better change ourselves to conquer the environment. In fact, the environment can't change people, but it can reveal the essence of people.
Many people have traveled through famous mountains and rivers, and there is a saying that "Taihang Mountain has not been seen for a thousand years." To say strange pine, the first tree is Huangshan pine, which is beautiful in various ways. The strange pines born by turning left and right in the cracks in the rocks turned out to be wonders of the world-these strange pines are the biggest reason why they can't grow. There is a lack of soil, water and sunlight in the cracks of rocks, and even the minimum photosynthesis is not good at birth. I finally grew a bud and hit a stone. This young life had to bend down to change itself and find its own living space. As a result, I don't know how many turns I took to see the sun grow sturdily. ;