Be kind to others and be close as brothers; Evil spirits welcome people and harm soldiers. -Guan Zhong
Politeness is safe, rudeness is dangerous. -"Li Ji"
It is disrespectful not to respect others. -"Old Tang Book"
Be kind to others and be close as brothers; Evil spirits welcome people and harm soldiers. -Guan Zhong's Under the Heart
A word is worth a thousand dollars. -Ge Hong (Jin)
Rich without words, about without losing a word. -Li (Song)
We should be careful not to hurt other comrades with words, but when others hurt ourselves with words, we should also bear it. Liu Shaoqi
A good word warms three winters, and a bad word hurts June. -China folk proverb
Don't do unreasonable things, and don't say unfounded words. -China folk proverb
It doesn't matter how many rivers there are, and it's not surprising to be polite to many people. -China folk proverb
Don't flatter others, don't provoke behind their backs. -China folk proverb
People respect me one foot, and I respect them one foot. -China folk proverb
False pandering is the poison of friendship, while sincere criticism is the gift of friendship. -China folk proverb
Politeness is not necessarily a sign of wisdom, but lack of politeness is bound to make people look stupid. -China folk proverb
Politeness is the first important habit that children and young people should pay special attention to. John Locke
The purpose and function of etiquette is to make the original stubbornness soft, make people's temperament gentle, and make him respect others and get along with others. John Locke
Whether you are a man or a woman, only gentleness and generosity deserve your name. A person's real courage and determination is by no means equal to stopping others from talking with his fist. Sadie
Threatening remarks are not necessarily justified. -Sadie's Rose Garden
Politeness is the golden key of mankind. Juan Antoniode
Young people should not hurt others, should give their personal income to everyone, should avoid hypocrisy and deception, should appear sincere and please others, and learn integrity in this way. -Comenius
Politeness pleases people who are polite and people who are treated politely. -Montesquieu
Politeness can often replace the noblest feelings. -Merimi
Politeness is the easiest thing to do and the most precious. -Gonchard
Grumpy is one of the meaner natures of human beings. If people lose their temper, they will take a step backwards on the ladder of human progress. -Darwin
Bees suck honey from flowers and thank campers when they leave. The grandiose butterfly thinks that flowers should thank him. Tagore
A person's etiquette is a mirror, reflecting his portrait. -Goethe
Discover the advantages of others and discover your own shortcomings. -Franklin (USA)
Politeness is the way to do things happily. -Emerson (USA)
The most important thing in life is politeness, which is more important than the highest wisdom and all knowledge. Aleksandr Herzen
Life is short, and only virtue can pass it on to distant descendants. -Shakespeare
You should listen patiently to other people's opinions and seriously consider whether the person who accuses you is correct. If he is right, you should correct your mistakes. If you are wrong, just ignore it. If he is someone you respect, you can raise his inaccuracies through discussion. -Leonardo da Vinci
Everything about a person should be beautiful, including face, clothes, heart and thoughts. -Chekhov (Russia)
People are cute not because they are beautiful, but because they are cute. Lev tolstoy (Russian Federation)
Rudeness means forgetting your dignity. -Chernyshevski (Russia)
The beauty of a person lies not in appearance, but in talent, temperament and character. -Mayakovski
True courtesy comes from sincerity-samuel smiles (British statesman and philosopher)
An affable attitude is always a letter of introduction. -Bacon (UK)
Smiling, without spending a penny, has created many achievements. -Dale Carnegie (USA)
2. Excerpting etiquette sentences is an intuitive reflection of a person's inner temperament. Different occupations and different occasions have different dress codes. Theater is appreciation.
The art hall of cultural performances is also an important social place. People are relatively concentrated, and whether they know each other or not, they are inevitably close.
Contact. Therefore, instrument dressing is not only a personal behavior, but also has an impact on the surrounding environment.
What should I pay attention to when watching a play? Generally speaking, personal appearance and dress should be related to the environment and atmosphere of the theater as an art palace.
Coordinate around the stage, which is embodied in the following aspects:
1. No matter what performance the audience watches, they should be clean and tidy without peculiar smell, especially not wearing vests, shorts and slippers.
It is not advisable to drink alcohol before watching the play, and it is best not to drink hard liquor. If you feel drunk, you'd better rest off the field first and then enter the play after you wake up.
Field.
It is best not to eat strong-smelling food such as green onions and garlic before watching the play.
4. For the audience who watch symphonies, ballet and other elegant arts. Instrument dress is more exquisite, in addition to the above requirements, for
express
5, respect artists, generally should wear more formal clothes. For example: men wear suits and ties; Ladies wear elegant clothes.
Fashion and so on.
Generally speaking, the theater begins to receive audiences about 50 minutes in advance, so you'd better enter the theater 20-30 minutes before the performance. For acrobatics, folk art and other plays that do not require high performance environment, the audience will enter the venue and sit nearby in the later stage, and then return to their seats during the intermission. For symphonic concerts, operas and other plays that require high performance environment, the audience can't enter at any time in the later stage. They need to wait for the end of a track, quietly enter and sit nearby according to the guidance of the service staff, and return to their seats at halftime.
Dress articles When watching the performance, you should dress neatly, generously and without peculiar smell, and you should not wear vest, shorts or slippers. It is not advisable to drink alcohol before watching the play, and it is best not to eat strong-smelling foods such as onions and garlic. For the audience who watch symphonies, ballet and other elegant arts, they should generally wear more formal clothes, such as suits and ties for men and elegant fashion for women.
Don't bring food and drinks, plastic bags, etc. Walk into the audience hall. Generally, there is a catering department in the lounge of the theater, and the audience can drink in the lounge before the performance or during the intermission. Don't chew gum while watching the performance, and don't litter everywhere. In order to show respect for artists and not affect other people's normal performances, please don't leave early unless there are special circumstances. If you really need to leave halfway, please leave quietly between the two programs.
Before performing language articles, mobile phones and pagers should be set in vibration position or temporarily turned off. In the process of watching the drama, don't chat with peers, don't comment on actors, and don't hum and dance with them for a while. We should pay tribute to the wonderful performances of the actors with applause, but we should not shout or whistle.
3. Excerpts from good etiquette sentences are untenable without learning etiquette. -"The Analects of Confucius"
See no evil, speak no evil, smell no evil, and listen no evil.
If you don't follow the rules, you can't be Fiona Fang. -"Mencius Li Lou"
Gentle, then a gentleman.
Gfd, a silent but extremely important business card, is the basis of interpersonal communication.
A person's courtesy is a mirror that reflects his portrait. -Goethe
Respect for others is a noble quality, and it is also the most basic criterion for being a man.
Politeness pleases people who are polite and people who are treated politely.
An inner courtesy, which is related to love. It will produce the most pleasant behavior on the appearance of behavior. -Goethe
Politeness is the easiest thing to do and the most precious. -Gonchard
The highest expression of civilization is not art, but people feel it strongly and give each other a high degree of tenderness and consideration. Norman cousins
Goodwill brings happiness, and civilization brings harmony. Hugo
Those who respect others will always respect others, and those who love others will always love others. -Mencius
Politeness is safe, rudeness is dangerous. -Book of Rites
The country is courtesy, the country is prosperous, the family is courtesy, the family is big, the body is courtesy, the body is repaired, the heart is courtesy, and the heart is Thai. —— Yan Yuan
People are rude, things are rude, countries are rude and restless. Xun Qing
Writing should be learned and making appointments should be polite. -Confucius
The most important thing in life is politeness, which is more important than the highest wisdom and all knowledge. -(Russian) herzen
Politeness can often replace the noblest feelings. -Merimi
Politeness is the first important habit that children and young people should pay special attention to. -(UK) Locke
Politeness is like an air cushion. There is nothing in it, but it can wonderfully reduce bumps. -Johnson
Politeness costs nothing, but it is more valuable than anything else. Cervantes
A man's gift is like water with a dam. With dams, water will not overflow, and people with manners will not do evil things.
Courtesy is reciprocated. It is indecent not to come; It is also impolite to come and not go. -Book of Rites
A gentleman's self-cultivation means that his heart is right inside and his appearance is right outside. —— Ouyang Xiu
A gentleman never loses his foot, face or mouth. -Book of Rites
Politeness is extremely humane. -Xunzi
A gentleman is respectful without loss, respectful to others, and brothers all over the world. -(Spring and Autumn) Midsummer
You were my teacher twenty years ago, you are still my teacher now, and you will be my teacher in the future. -Mao
Etiquette, justice, honesty and shame, the four dimensions of the country, the four dimensions are not open, the country will perish. -Guan Zhong
Food and clothing are good for people's livelihood, and courtesy is good for people's hearts. -(Yuan) Xu Heng
4. The famous American sentence about etiquette is "If you don't learn etiquette, it won't hold water."
-The Analects of Confucius. Jishi "
The meaning of a gentleman is benevolence, and its meaning is ceremony: the benevolent loves others, and the courtesy respects others. Those who love others will always love others, and those who respect others will always respect others.
-Mencius: "Mencius Li Lou"
Courtesy is reciprocated. It is indecent not to come; It is also impolite to come and not go.
-The Book of Rites. On Quli
Manner is a mirror, reflecting everyone's own image.
-Goethe: Affinity
One of the most important tasks of civilization is to make people dominated by form in pure material life and become aesthetic people in the realm of beauty.
-Schiller: Letters about Aesthetic Education
Politeness is the art of making choices in one's true thoughts.
Stevens: Mrs de Steele.
Politeness pleases people who are polite and people who are treated politely.
-Montesquieu: On the Spirit of Law
Politeness has nothing to lose, but everything to gain.
-Marvo montague: Letters.
Etiquette is the smallest but most stable of all norms.
Laroche Foucault: The Book of Moral Proverbs
Politeness is the flower of friendship. People who have no manners can't talk about fraternity.
-Jubail: Collection of Famous Sentences
What makes a person great is not wealth and family, but valuable behavior and noble character.
-Ovi: A list of famous sentences.
There are two kinds of impoliteness: the first is coy and shy; The second is misconduct and neglect; To avoid these two situations, we must abide by the following rules, that is, don't look down on yourself or others.
5. Good sentences about manners: Politeness is safe, rudeness is dangerous. -(Pre-Qin) Confucius
Everyone knows the benefits and is loyal to them. -(Pre-Qin) Zuo Zhuan
Don't drink spring water when you are thirsty, and you can't stop evil when you are hot. -(Gold) Railway Machine
People are expensive because they have faith, and the country is strong because there is only faith. —— (Zhang Jiuling)
The purpose and function of etiquette is to make the original stubbornness soft, make people's temperament gentle, and make him respect others and get along with others. -(UK) Locke
The virtue of prosperity is temperance, and the virtue of adversity is tenacity, which is a great virtue. -(British) Bacon
The creator gave you beauty and virtue; Beauty without virtue is fleeting. -(British) Shakespeare
A person's virtue can never be measured by his special efforts, but by his daily behavior. -(France) Pascal
Goodwill brings happiness, and civilization brings harmony. -(France) Hugo
There are two forces that bring stability: law and courtesy. -(Germany) Goethe
A good society ultimately depends on the quality of its citizens. -(British) Spencer
6. Polite sentences often use fourteen-character polite expressions.
You, hello, please, thank you, I'm sorry, it's okay, bye.
Use reply?
When guests express compliments and compliments, employees should politely reply "Thank you", "You flatter me", "I'm glad you like our hotel" and "Thank you, it's my pleasure to serve you".
Common negotiation language?
what can I do for you?
2. Excuse me, could you speak more slowly?
3. If you don't mind, may I ...?
4. Do you like ...?
5. Do you prefer ... or ...?
May I ...?
7. Do you want to … or …?
8. Sorry to bother you, but can you tell me ...?
9. Look, this is ... OK?
10, anything else?
When apologizing to the guests?
1. When you make mistakes, slips of the tongue or thoughtlessness in your work, you should sincerely apologize, instead of cheating and shirking.
2. Apologize moderately and let the other person understand your guilt and your desire to continue to do a good job. Don't nag endlessly, it will cause the other person's disgust.
Don't be too modest and condescending to apologize, just say "I'm sorry" and be sincere, otherwise it will make people feel hypocritical and damage their image and personality.
4. Apologize should be based on facts. Admitting mistakes should not be exaggerated, but should be realistic and appropriate, especially if the guests are also responsible, otherwise it will bring unnecessary losses to the hotel.
Use farewell words?
Farewell is a polite language used when parting from others, in order to further deepen the impression and friendship left to the other party, so there are many words such as retention, farewell and wish in the language.
1. When a guest leaves your service place temporarily, you can say "Goodbye", "Walk slowly", "See you later", "See you tomorrow" and "Welcome anytime".
2. When guests leave the store, they can say: "I hope you will come often", "Have a nice trip", "Have a safe trip" and "Welcome to visit again!" Wait a minute.
When you leave the guest room or service place, you can say "Good night, Miss (Sir)", "Please have a good rest, goodbye", "I have to go ... Thank you, goodbye" and so on.
Conduct service etiquette training-in service, we should serve our guests with the best etiquette.
It is required to maintain a good posture when talking with guests, including standing posture, sitting posture and walking posture, modest attitude, concentration, and pay attention to each other as much as possible; Easy expression and many smiles; When talking with guests while walking, you should pay attention to being polite to them everywhere. Its basic requirements are: solemn, generous, humble and friendly.
7. Old sayings, famous sayings and epigrams about politeness. Politeness is not always a sign of wisdom, but impoliteness always makes people doubt its stupidity.
-Randall, English writer
Politeness is the first important thing for children and teenagers to form habits, so we should pay special attention to it.
British philosopher John Locke
The most important thing in life is politeness, which is more important than the highest wisdom and all knowledge.
-herzen, Russian philosopher and writer
Politeness is the most beautiful flower in noble character.
-Winter, English painter
Punctuality is the greatest courtesy.
-Louis XIV, the return of the French king
Politeness is the desire to regain courtesy and respect.
-La Rochefoucauld, French writer
There is an innate courtesy, which is related to love. It will produce the most pleasant behavior on the appearance of behavior.
-Gold
Politeness is more powerful than law.
-Carlisle
Politeness can often replace the noblest feelings.
-Merimi
Politeness is to human nature what heat is to wax.
-arthur schopenhauer
A person's courtesy is a mirror that reflects his portrait.
-Gold
Respect for others means respect for yourself.
John Galsworthy
Never bow to power, but take off your hat as a gift.
-Jim Fibiger, Nana
There are two kinds of impoliteness: the first is shyness; The second is imprudence and carelessness. In order to avoid these two situations, we must abide by the following rules: don't look down on ourselves and others.
John Locke
People's manners should be like clothes, not too tight or too particular, but a little loose to facilitate work and exercise.
bacon
Politeness costs nothing to win everything.
-Montaigne
Cowardice is the surest guarantee against temptation.
-Mark Twain
True courtesy is self-denial, that is, doing everything possible to make people around you as calm as themselves (Pop)
Good manners include small sacrifices (love of life)
Politeness is the flower of fraternity (Joubert)
Etiquette and politeness are good deeds in small things (William Pitt)
Politeness is to human nature what heat is to candles (Schopenhauer)
Politeness can often replace the noblest feelings (Merrimi)
Politeness is based on a double foundation: respect others and don't impose your own views on others (Hofmannsthal)
Patience with rude people is a test of politeness. (Solomon Ibn Gabilov)
Politeness is the most important thing in living habits (America)
There are two powerful forces for peace, namely law and courtesy (Germany)
Politeness is smart, rudeness is stupid (Germany)
A polite person can travel around the world (Germany)
The reason of social communication lies in the monotony and emptiness of people's lives. The need of social interaction drives them to come together, but their own disgusting behavior drives them apart. Finally, they found an appropriate distance to tolerate each other, which is politeness-(Schopenhauer)
When you see that friends need unnatural behavior, you can know that their feelings have declined (Shakespeare)
● The more affection, the less courtesy.
● Familiar with informality.
Politeness has nothing to lose, but everything to gain (Marvo montague)
Politeness is harmless to people (Italy)
Politeness is a counterfeit currency, and it is unwilling to spend it to show the lack of intelligence (Schopenhauer)
Politeness costs nothing (Europe)
Politeness costs nothing (Latin America)
Politeness costs nothing, but it is more valuable than anything else (Spain)
Elegance ... is a false act of kindness (Seth Johnson)
A man may disappear without a trace (Thoreau)
Thoughtful behavior is used to people you don't like, and it is never more sincere than the last sentence of the challenge book, "your humble servant." Of course, this is a situation that people generally agree and understand (chesterfield)
Politeness, such as kissing through a veil (France)
● Politeness is not difficult, but decency is difficult; It is not difficult to be kind to the poor, but it is difficult to be polite (history)
8. Confucius said at the beginning of the Book of Rites: "Disrespect, thoughtfulness, peace and security." It means, at any time, don't be rude, look good and be careful what you say. Only in this way can we stabilize people all over the world. "The Book of Filial Piety" also said: "Courtesy is respectful." The core of all gifts is to express your inner respect.
But this kind of "respect" for people needs to be felt and expressed through specific etiquette. In order to remind the mourners of their inner respect, almost all ceremonies have arranged "worship" etiquette, including bowing, kowtowing, bowing and so on. Although the degree is different, there is only one purpose, that is, to show inner respect.
Confucianism integrates the preservation of "respect" with self-cultivation, keeping the family in order, governing the country and leveling the world. In short, disheveled clothes, vulgar language, unchanged appearance, sloppy laziness and cynicism are all direct manifestations of inner disrespect. Generally speaking, respect should be carried out in the infinite pursuit of the cause and the infinite loyalty to the motherland.
9. The famous etiquette sentence in Chinese studies is 1. A gentleman will never lose his reputation. The Book of Rites
If you don't outdo others, you will attach importance to your self-cultivation and always maintain a leisurely and carefree attitude. No matter how you look at it, how you respond, you are solemn and generous, well-behaved and not rash. Don't slip of the tongue, which means be careful, don't find fault with others, don't hurt people's pain, and don't be sarcastic.
2, people are polite and safe, and rude and dangerous. The Book of Rites
People are polite, pay attention to etiquette when interacting with others, and speak respectfully and courteously, so they will get along well with others under any circumstances, and will not hurt others or be hurt by others; Otherwise, being rude to others and speaking rudely, no matter how big or small, no matter how long or short, will inevitably lead to contradictions, quarrels and even fists and feet.
3. People who love others will always love others; People who respect others will always respect others. Mencius
"Constant" means "permanent and lasting". People who love others will always be loved by others; People who respect others will always be respected by others. This is the old saying, "If you want to respect yourself, you must respect yourself first." .
4. People are rude, but they are not born; Things are rough, but they are not successful; This country is rude and restless. xunzi
People have no manners and cannot survive in society; If you don't pay attention to etiquette, you can't do things successfully; Without etiquette, the country will be in turmoil.
5, be kind to each other, comfortable and warm; Bad words hurt people, make enemies and invite trouble. (proverb)
A pleasant speaking attitude and polite language will make people feel comfortable and warm; A rude attitude and rude remarks will make people resentful and bring disaster.
6, a good word warms three winters, and a bad word hurts in June. (proverb)
A touching word makes people feel a warm current surging in their hearts even in the cold winter; A hurtful word, even in hot summer, will make people feel cold.