She is a trainee like me. She is very busy on Saturday and Sunday. When she has time, we will make an appointment together. Two years younger than me, with a boyfriend but not married.
In fact, it is really hard to find such friends in life.
After all, at my age, most of them are married, and my husband and children are too busy. Coupled with the nature of my work, there are fewer and fewer friends who can get together.
Friendship between friends is actually the same as love, and only the same smell can really be in tune. If you don't even have the desire to communicate together, it's actually very painful.
I used to have a friend who was very talkative. Once in a while, we will meet and talk. Once, we met in a restaurant. I waited for her for about an hour and she came in a hurry.
While we were eating, she kept answering messages.
This feeling makes me very uncomfortable. So, from that time on, I seldom keep appointments again.
The breakdown of friendship is actually silent. You don't contact me, I don't contact you, so we slowly separated.
My life is simple. In recent years, I have gradually learned to live in harmony with myself. Because I am used to a person, I can be self-consistent most of the time.
I don't insist on fate. Friends or lovers, most of them can only walk with us for a while.
You can shine on each other when you get along, and you don't have to care about eternity.
When we were young, we always thought that friendship and love would last a lifetime as soon as we met, but now we feel that life is too long and many things are uncertain.
I don't even remember what the people I loved before looked like. Friends who have been together before, I don't know where to start when we meet again.
When there is no intersection between each other's lives, it is strange to have more greetings.
A vigorous memory is just your own memory. People and things in those days really belonged to the past.
Some people say that once a person begins to remember, it means that she is old. But people are old after all.
When I stood in front of the mirror and looked at myself, those changes were real. There are no wrinkles on the face, but the body is going downhill.
We always want to compete with time, but we can't compete with time after all.
So, what can we have? Maybe you won't get anything.
I want to catch something, but I will find that I can't catch anything. Love will gradually lose its luster as time goes by. Friendship will drift away in the torrent of time. Family ties will also break.
Never leave, only yourself.
Deadly loneliness is actually the main theme of life.
With my friends, I seldom talk. Most of the time, I listen to others. I'm used to this kind of dialogue and constant silence.
I would rather write all my feelings in words than pour them out in front of others.
I don't force myself to make friends with people I don't like, so I feel depressed. A really comfortable relationship is that you can be yourself freely in front of another person.
In this life, we will meet all kinds of people. Some people will sincerely walk into each other's lives, while others will get along very lightly and do not interfere with each other.
If one day, you don't want to bother each other again and dare not open that dialog box easily, it proves that your relationship is far away.
Worried that her recklessness would disturb her life; Worried about her information will interfere with her work; I'm worried that my unintentional meeting will be rejected.
Under all kinds of worries, I slowly lost my original feeling.
Therefore, the breakdown of many relationships begins with being embarrassed to disturb. We no longer greet, miss and yearn for each other. The beautiful moment that once existed can only stay in the past.
In this life, who we will meet and what kind of stories will happen are actually unknown. Friends who have crossed paths before are often difficult to maintain a lifelong relationship. Distance and time defeat not only love, but also friendship.
Fortunately, we left memories for each other, but they were just memories.
In this life, who we will meet and who we will meet, I think it is destiny takes a hand. They have the same temper, and they have a good chat. Maybe they can get along for a while.
But I don't think you can give such a relationship a shelf life. No matter who you are with, life is too far away. Whether it's a husband, a lover or a friend, it's a great fate to be able to accompany you for a period of time. If you want him to protect you for life, it's really hard.
At a certain age, we will not stick to it all our lives, but it is an honor for you to come to my world and leave long or short memories.
Find a few comfortable companions, meet slowly, say goodbye slowly, and leave a beautiful arc in each other's lives. This life is enough.