2015 April 14, "The world is so big, I want to see it." Has become a hot spot on the network. This letter of resignation from Gu Shaoqiang, a female teacher in Henan Middle School, unexpectedly became popular, exploding Weibo and her circle of friends with amazing momentum, and attracting many media and V's forwarding and comments. The short cross is called "the most sentimental resignation letter in history". People can't help but sigh, "Life is not just the immediate life, but also poetry and distance."
Now that five years have passed, is Gu Shaoqiang satisfied and has he seen the world?
First of all, a sudden idea
Before Gu Shaoqiang wrote this resignation letter, she had an unusually stable life, with the "iron rice bowl" of middle school teachers. Life was like a pool of brilliant spring water, warm and calm. Her Henan Experimental Middle School introduced her like this: Gu Shaoqiang, a middle school teacher. I graduated from the Department of Education of Henan Normal University in 2004, majoring in psychology, and have been working in our school since July 2004. He is now a backbone teacher at the school level. It can be said that she had been a psychological teacher in this middle school for ten years before this.
In an ordinary psychology class, Gu Shaoqiang asked his classmates about their dreams. Suddenly, like awakening, she buried the idea of "quitting to see the world" in her heart. This idea is as crazy as bamboo shoots. She hopes to follow her heart and pursue complete freedom. Years of psychological education told her that people should please themselves.
Soon, she wrote her resignation letter in the office. "The world is so big, I want to see it." She may not have abundant financial resources, but she has the greatest confidence: endless love for the world.
The school leaders generously approved this "dispensable" resignation letter, and Gu Shaoqiang led the students to visit the Henan Museum for the last time. In this way, she embarked on a journey with disappointment and longing.
Second, unexpected popularity.
However, Gu Shaoqiang didn't expect that popularity came faster than the journey. "The phone has been ringing, one after another, and it is not enough to charge every day." There is no doubt that this has upset her plan. Her walking posture has become walking posture with countless eyes, and her stories have been processed again and again.
At first, she would say humorously, "If I knew it was popular, I would write better." Later, more and more reporters called in, as if to clean up her inner world. This is not the life Gu Shaoqiang wants. She is calm by nature and wants everything to be quiet.
So, when the public opinion's enthusiasm for her decreased, she packed her bags and went to the endless world. She went into battle lightly, with only a 20-inch portable sightseeing box and 1 1000 yuan in cash. First stop: Cangshan Erhai Lake, Yunnan, because she is going to meet a man she has just known for two months. His name is Yu Fu.
They are high-spirited partners. Gu Shaoqiang resigned this time, largely because this man named Yu Fu supported her. They walked hand in hand through Xi and saw the Terracotta Warriors. Then they went to the ancient town at the foot of Qingcheng Mountain ... Their life envied others, as if only joy and lightness were left, away from the noise and pressure. For a time, many people were inspired, learned from them, left their jobs and went to poetry and the distance.
Third, contradictory choices.
After Gu Shaoqiang became popular, many travel companies approached them, hoping that they could advertise, and even a prime minister called her to get publicity. Gu Shaoqiang described it as a bit like being beaten by Aladdin.
A reporter once interviewed her: "Will you accept the sponsorship of tourism?" At that time, Gu Shaoqiang admitted that he would not. She said that no scenery will become good or bad because of her arrival; It makes no sense whether she will go or not. But today, Gu Shaoqiang seems to have been hit by reality, not only trapped in a yard, but also started to get in touch with business activities.
After a trip to Yufu's game room, they settled in Chengdu and ran a small inn, which was endowed with the function of a psychological training institution for teenagers. After experiencing a wonderful storm, their lives have returned to peace. No matter how big the world is, they can still live in this small world.
Soon their daughter was born. In order to let their children live a better life, Gu Shaoqiang and Yufu, who decided not to set foot in commercial tourism at first, accepted their first commercial endorsement and were hired as "free intelligent travel experiencers for life" by a travel company. Some netizens are moved by the wind and have come to ridicule. In fact, there is no need to hurt people, because they just shoulder the burden of life again, just like every ordinary person who is guarded by the radiant light.
Now, the life of the Gu Shaoqiang family is more stable. They bought an old yard in the country and transformed it into an ideal "Peach Blossom Garden". Then the couple took their daughter to grow vegetables and pick fruits in the backyard. Self-sufficiency, so uncomfortable. Gu Shaoqiang said that she hopes her pursuit and love for life can be passed on to her children. I hope my daughter can live according to her own preferences and pursue her dreams boldly in the future.
The couple, who swam across Chunshi, now live in harmony and have no worries about food and clothing. This kind of life can actually be called "fireworks fairy".
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From the willfulness of "the world is so big, I want to see it" to the compromise made to support my family now, it is just a choice made by these two people in their long lives. They have a carefree life that everyone dreams of, and they also shoulder the burden of life that cannot be ignored. So it can lead to countless voices and discussions.
Gu Shaoqiang once advised netizens not to blindly imitate her, but to choose rationally and think twice before you act. Because a reckless trip is likely to bury hidden dangers for later life. A stable job, family expectations and preparation for the future are all secular and realistic. Before Gu Shaoqiang wrote his "most sentimental resignation letter", he had been following the rules for more than ten years, making a living.
What is precious to her is not that she has the courage to take risks, but that she has not lost her love for the world in her life for more than ten years. On the contrary, she walked through this beautiful life with a pure heart.
Therefore, compared with her itinerary, making "contradictory choices" is even more awe-inspiring. Because no one doesn't love the beautiful scenery of mountains and rivers, but it takes amazing courage and extraordinary wisdom to face the boring life day after day.
In a word, happiness is not obtained in the magnificent scenery, but is satisfied in the heart and naturally produced. If you are calm and natural, you can become a happy person by feeding horses, chopping wood and traveling around the world. Even in the desert, it looks like facing the sea, and even in the severe winter of March 9, it looks like spring blossoms.