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Ambitious young people are often frustrated.
Some people say: aspiring young people are often frustrated. I think this is a bit arbitrary. To prove this point, I will tell you a very vivid story.

Huanxin Men was born in the countryside and liked writing and painting since he was a child. His mother disapproves of her son's hobbies. She insisted that her son should study hard. It was his uncle, a primary school teacher, who gave great support to his nephew's hobby. Huanxin Men's uncle is a painting and calligraphy lover, and he has certain attainments. Under the guidance of his uncle, young Huanxin Men's painting and calligraphy level has made great progress.

After entering high school, a very good classmate of Huanxin Men helped him to contact Sun Min, a famous calligrapher and painter in Shangqiu. Sun Min taught Huanxin Men to start with line drawing, copy ancient and modern masterpieces and practice basic skills. From then on, every time after school or on a rest day, he would run to the fields and sketch from flowers and trees. After painting, he will also attach a powerful official word.

Gradually, as long as the scenery contained in Menhuan's new vision, especially the pastoral scenery, was vividly painted by him. Despite his professional level, Huanxin Men is still not satisfied. He wants to improve his painting and calligraphy to a greater extent, so he often skips classes and steals paintings from an art school. At that time, the art school opened a painting and calligraphy class, but the tuition was very expensive, and the knocker could not afford the money, so he had to make the best choice.

However, Huanxin Men's academic performance in culture has been declining. When he took the college entrance examination at 1984, he fell out of Sun Shan. He wants to have a second interview next year, but his mother said to him in tears, son, give up the second interview. The family really can't give it to you.

In this way, this aspiring young man who has been crazy about painting and calligraphy since childhood has to accept his fate.

At the beginning of 1988, Huanxin Men painted a rural pastoral scenery with passion. When his uncle saw it, he encouraged him to send it to Henan Farmers' Newspaper Office. Not long after, the literary edition of Henan Peasant Newspaper was published.

Huanxin Men couldn't believe his eyes, this is his first novel! This is a great encouragement to Huanxin Men. Since then, he has been describing rural pastoral scenery enthusiastically and persistently, and his works have been seen in newspapers and periodicals with great influence throughout the country.

At this time, my uncle reminded him that taking advantage of his youth, going out for a walk and learning more will also help him practice calligraphy and painting.

Huanxin Men accidentally had the idea of going out to work by himself, because his younger brothers and sisters were all at school, and there was no savings at home, so he needed his help to go out to work. After being reminded by his uncle, he immediately jumped out of the farmland and moved to a chemical plant in Kaifeng as a coal hauler.

It is difficult to transport coal. After entering the coal factory during the day, Huanxin Men immediately became black. He had to push heavy coal for a long way. When washing in the evening, he found a thick layer of dust accumulated in his nostrils and throat. After pulling coal all day, he was so painful that he couldn't even lift his arm. How can he have the mind and energy to practice painting and calligraphy?

Gradually, Huanxin Men became confused: Do I have to deal with coal piles forever? What can you learn in the coal pile? Huanxin Men wanted to get rid of this fate, so he made a decision: pulling coal during the day and going to Kaifeng at night to inquire about the famous predecessors in the painting and calligraphy circles. He hopes that his predecessors can show him a bright road.

Soon, Huanxin Men found the address of Wang Baogui, president of Kaifeng Federation of Literary and Art Circles. The famous calligrapher suggested that Huanxin Men go to a professional college for further study and learn professional knowledge systematically.

Huanxin Men doesn't want to study in a professional college, but where did he get the money? But in order to enter the painting and calligraphy art class, he went to work in a factory to earn tuition. After half a year, I barely earned enough tuition. So, Huanxin Men finally got his wish and entered the training class of Henan Calligraphy Correspondence College.

After two years of professional and systematic study, the artistic level of Huanxin Men's calligraphy and painting has risen to a new height. At this time, he is married and has children, and the pressure of life is increasing. Helpless, he embarked on the road of working again.

Since then, Huanxin Men has worked in more than ten cities, including Kaifeng, Anyang, Zhengzhou, Changzhou, Hangzhou and Fuzhou. Every time he goes to a city, he will visit famous local painters and ask for advice modestly. In addition, Huanxin Men also stole paintings from local painting and calligraphy colleges through various channels. In this way, in his work and life in different places, Huanxin Men constantly absorbed all kinds of knowledge and quickly turned it into his creative passion. By the end of 2003, there were as many as ten sacks filled with Huanxin Men's paintings and calligraphy works, and as many as 800 works were published in major newspapers alone. Looking at these heavy works, the knocker smiled happily. He felt that the day to realize his dream was getting closer and closer.

At the beginning of 2004, Huanxin Men learned from a friend that the National Popular Science Education Base in Fuqing City, Fujian Province was recruiting painting and calligraphy teachers, so he went to the interview with his resume and previously published works. It is conceivable that the person in charge of personnel immediately refused his request to meet him. However, Huanxin Men made a bold decision: he brought his previously published works and asked the person in charge of Fuqing National Science Education Base to recommend himself.

Huanxin Men's boldness surprised the person in charge of the base, and what surprised him even more was the works published by Huanxin Men. He never imagined that these paintings and calligraphy works were actually written by a migrant worker! The person in charge immediately decided to hire Huanxin Men as the teacher of the base painting and calligraphy training class, but there was a one-month probation period!

On the day of the first lecture, although Huanxin Men's speech was a little blunt and Mandarin was not very standard, the students listened carefully. Walking out of the classroom, his head was covered with sweat. When he boarded the platform again, he seemed particularly relaxed and calm. Students are attracted by his exquisite calligraphy and painting skills, and Huanxin Men likes the podium more and more. He prepares lessons carefully and teaches every class.

A week later, the person in charge suddenly announced to him: Your probation period can be over, and we decided to sign a formal contract with you!

Huanxin Men almost jumped for joy, because from this moment on, he really turned and walked into the door of painting and calligraphy.

One day, while giving a lecture, a student suddenly asked: Teacher Meng, I heard that you only have a high school education and are a farmer. Is it true?/You don't say.

Huanxin Men paused a little, then said quietly, that's right. Please don't be surprised first. I'll tell you my experience.

This course became a course for Huanxin Men to tell students about his life experience. He said to them calmly: Destiny and opportunity may be unfair to some people, but as long as you have dreams and are willing to work hard, you can change your destiny. I will never feel that I am three points shorter than you because I am a migrant worker with only a high school education, because everyone has their own specialties. I can be your painting and calligraphy teacher, but in other professional fields, you are my teacher, so we are all equal in class.

Huanxin Men's frankness touched all the students and won their respect, followed by a burst of warm applause.

In the summer of 2004, Huanxin Men's works were compiled into some authoritative classics, and his influence became more and more important. In the second year, he joined Henan Calligraphy and Painting Association and China Calligraphers Association and became a real painter.

In September 2008, Fujian Medical University opened a painting and calligraphy art teaching class and recruited lecturers. Huanxin Men didn't have a good degree, but he was admitted to the university in his own right. The moment he got the letter of appointment, Huanxin Men was so excited that tears welled up in his eyes.

From a migrant worker at the bottom of society to an admirable university lecturer, Huanxin Men really created a miracle. At the beginning of 2009, in an interview, he simply said: I have been obsessed with calligraphy and painting all my life, and there is no reason not to succeed; I have been pursuing the art of calligraphy and painting for decades, and there is no reason not to succeed. As long as you don't abandon your dreams and pursue them, everyone will create such a miracle!

At this point, the story is not over yet. The story of each of us will never end as long as we live. From this respectable Mr. Huanxin Men, we can see a kind of character, and that is persistence. We are all the same. As long as we have dreams and don't give up the pursuit, what kind of miracle won't happen?

A poem written by a frustrated woman.

1, if you want to fly to the sky, it has reached the end.

On this day, Liu Lang bid farewell to the immortal, boarded the banquet and shed tears. The peak of Twelve Nights is vividly in my mind.

3, lamenting that the years have passed, the fame has not been established, the scholar is old, and the opportunity has come.

4, bow down to the mother river beam, tears flow.

5, tears on the pillow, dark heartbroken between flowers.

6. Have you seen the former Prince of Yan? He respects talents, builds high platforms and provides gold to talented people. Bend down and sweep the floor to welcome them? ?

7. I hate Luo Yi's poems. Look up at the top.

8. Looking back everywhere, flowers and plants in Tingzhou are soft in spring.

9, it is tears to do the spring river, endless, sad.

However, why do you think that a forest hermit, seduced by the sweet wind, is content with beauty?

1 1, it's dusk, and it's stormy.

12, the drinking period is full, and my feet are not willing to be idle. There is a branch in the Bird's Nest forest, which can be a big stone model.

13, you should only climb the Kiki tree outside the object, and then wear a dress to the crimson altar.

14, the heroes cried on their coats from now on, and it is hard to ask God.

15, full of poetry books, full of ancient and modern, frequent years of wandering is easy to be sad.

16, I couldn't bear to reply and cried a few lines in the breeze.

17, and you love the red and lean on the green, have an affair and have a smooth life. Youth is a soldier. Endure the superficial name and sing shallowly!

18, the spring thoughts of joining the army are like clouds, and the white-haired poems are sad to send spring.

19, poor midnight, Mo Wen people ask ghosts and gods.

20, drunk watching the sword, dreaming back to blow the horn.

2 1, the most hastily resigned temple fair day, the teaching workshop still played a farewell song and cried for Gong E.

22, fight for a righteous blood, go straight to the sky to be heroic.

23. The sober people and sages in ancient times have been forgotten, and only great drinkers can be immortalized.

24. The Great Wall is empty and the mirror has faded.

25. Silkworms will weave until they die in spring, and candles will drain the wick every night.

26. I think I lost my way in Sichuan. I saw Jin Shu hiding in the boat.

27, try to go to Tongtai dance hall, only the autumn wind kills people.

28. I want to cross the Yellow River, but the ice choked the ferry. I want to climb the snowy Taihang Mountain.

29. Mochow has no confidant in the road ahead, and no one in the world knows you.

30. I have no intention of competing for spring, but I am jealous of a group of people. Even after autumn, when it is ground into dirt and turned into dust, plum blossoms still emit fragrance as usual.

3 1, yellow flowers are heartless things, and they smell sweet at dusk.

32, my emissary is scattered by the vortex of rain and sand, and it is difficult to go.

33. How much trouble can you have? Like a river flowing eastward.

34. But since the water is still flowing, even though we cut it with a sword, sadness will come back, even though we drown them with wine.

35, empty negative lingyun full of talent, I have not opened my life. Birds crow and flowers fall, bamboo withers and tung withers and phoenix doesn't come.

36. The evening breeze fades away, the youth fades away, and the dream stays sad for many years.

Since the world can't satisfy our desire, I will let go of my hair and get on a fishing boat tomorrow.

38. I woke up after eating cold rice and drinking wine. Don't miss the old country for the sake of old friends, try new fire, new tea and poetry wine while you are young.

39, whisper, speechless with the saddle, the past is a thousand tails.

40, no way out, thorns in the middle. If you don't accept this plan, it will be like a dead fish.

4 1, three glasses and two glasses of wine, how can you beat him for coming late and rushing! Guo Yan is very sad, but this is an old acquaintance.

42. Where is Wang Xi Tang Lei? The fragrant soul makes people worry, and the faint smoke and vanilla confuse the old building.

43. Waste smoke and cool rain help others worry, but tears stain their skirts.

44, Qu Gang jumped into the fish, and the lotus flower was diarrhea, and no one looked lonely.

45. Without a landing plan, it is advisable to abandon Jichuan materials.

46. Since yesterday, I have to leave Bolt and me behind. It hurts my heart even more today.

47. I hate Changsha alone, and the spring grass grows on the river beach.

48, the world wants to kill, I only sympathize.

49. But where is the end of the world for this institution to serve the country?

50, the cold wind is clear to the dew, no one is there, and the cold is leaking.

5 1, where is the fallen fairy? No one is with me.

52. The whole life is breathless. Gaby talks about loneliness and anger.

53. I think of heaven and earth, there is no limit, there is no end, I am alone, tears fall down.

54. If you are single-minded, why should you be ambitious?

55. Don't say anything when you are sad. I remember the flag pavilion that day, the water was exhausted, and Chinese wine sheltered from the wind.

56. In the infinitely sad sunset, the old country is desolate, leaving only pink and red.

57. Old people describe that although they have changed, they are still in high spirits when they are drunk. What does the Taihang Wangs do? It's like laughing at the foolish old man's overreaching.

58. By the side of Wang Yue Temple, the willow smoke locks the sorrow of ancient and modern times.

59. Looking back at Zhaoyang leaving dusk, the sad copper finch welcomes the autumn moon.

60. I'm tired of being frustrated by your official tour, and I feel sorry for Qiu Si.

6 1, who says that there is no spring scenery in three winters, and the glow of Wan Li is high on the iceberg?

62. Three roads are self-sufficient, and one money is not poor. For yellow flowers, I often stay without reciting poems, and poetry has become a hobby.

63. Flowers, as high as my window, hurt the heart of a vagrant, because I see from this height that sadness is everywhere.

64, silent tears in spring, clouds have shadows and moons have shame.

65. Good dreams are easy to go with the flowing water, but people are still worried about Xiaoyun, and pedestrians don't go to wangjinglou.

66, hangover sorrow slow bun, six baht thin clothes provoke light cold, unintentional red blunt green cover qingluan.

Although it may serve your distinguished guests, you leave it here, far below the mountains and rivers. ..

68. You can't see the clouds and pines, even if the autumn wind is helpless.

69, Hu did not extinguish, in the first autumn, tears flowed. In this life, who knows, my heart is in Tianshan, and I am always in Cangzhou!

70. The world is infinite and the labor force is limited. It seems that this area is long and fresh.

7 1, Yunshan is interested, but there is no plan on the porch. The tears of fame and fortune are blown down by the west wind.

72. Looking sadly at a thousand autumn days, a drop of tears, melancholy in different times, not at the same time.

73, through the ages, why Niu Shan alone with clothes.

74. The cold pool is sad, and the autumn wind sighs half a pool of tears.

75. It is hard to see the mountains in spring, and the past is thrilling and makes people cry.

76. Please be my father's old song: Hard and affectionate! After singing, I sighed and cried.

77. My white hair has accelerated my aging, just like a pale light beam ending the old year.

78. Fishermen don't ask each other when they meet.

79. Who will be moved by the sincerity of my futile prayer day and night? ?

80. We are all lofty distant thoughts, longing for the sky and the bright moon.

8 1, heartless is the most city willow, still smoke cage ten miles dike.

82. What can I do if I don't die? I'm afraid I'm afraid I can't do anything!

83. Du Fu worships tears again, and Jingwei fills the sea endlessly.

84. Yanhua Lane is a stranger and a barrier to Yi Danqing. Fortunately, there are people in the right place, I can look for them.

85, Jiangnan Jiangbei sorrow, pay wine snail red.

Men are often fickle with women.

1. After seeing me, you will suddenly find that handsome can be so single-minded!

We have all grown up, but Xiaoming in the math problem has always been so big.

3. Give yourself an English name, called Pressure Mountain.

The portrait is not a portrait, but a gray head.

5. People who love me are terrible. The person I love has a bad life

6. There may be several women who don't eat, and none who are not jealous.

7. I went blind just because I looked at you one more time in the crowd.

8. I drank everyone around me just to have a whisper with you.

9. Never hang yourself from a tree. You can try it several times in the surrounding trees.

10 Every midnight, it is a tangled problem to wake people up and go to the toilet.

1 1. Failure is success. Her stepmother didn't help her when she saw her child fail!

12. If you want to pick the moon, please look at your height first.

13, it's not that we men have low will, it's that you women wear too little.

14, I can't sleep every night. If I fall asleep one night, it must be abnormal or I am dead.

15, poor Nike, Fuadi, rogue Armani.

16, you have to believe, believe that we will be like in fairy tales, frogs and dinosaurs are endings.

17, give me a bed, I can sleep all day.

18, you don't have a doctor's qualification certificate. Why do you say I'm crazy?

19, don't give me the glad eye, your power is harmless!

20. Get up in the morning and go to bed early at night.

2 1, you are my Youlemei. I can throw you away after drinking.

22. If you are angry with me, I am not afraid of you. What I'm afraid of is that you are afraid of me after I get angry.

23. Marriage is a cage, so everyone is overjoyed and overjoyed after marriage.

24.who are you flirting with? I owe you an overdue loan or something.

25, don't look back, my brother loves only your back.

26. Raising fish is very troublesome. I often forget to change water once a week. Then I have to change the fish once a week.

27. Most beautiful women are similar, but ugly women are different.

I'm too busy to know what to do.

29. A woman's wardrobe is like a harem. There are countless beautiful women, only a few of whom like it.

30. Love is so expensive that I can't afford luxury and consumption.

3 1, that's enough. Take your luggage and leave my world. There is a charge for living here.

32. Mature people don't ask about the past, smart people don't ask about the present, and open-minded people don't ask about the future.

33. Women often miss men so much; Men are often fickle with women.

34. Women are made of water. Don't be too cold to her. Once it freezes above zero, it will only frostbite you in the end.

Classic Quotations: People who secretly love are often very sad.

1, don't rely on someone easily, it will become your habit. When parting comes, what you lose is not someone, but your spiritual pillar. No matter when and where, learning to walk independently will make you walk more calmly.

Facing life, we should learn to cherish it. Cherish the people who love you and the people you love when they are still there, and don't think of their goodness when they leave; When you are young, you should cherish time, because it can make you "successful before and after your death". In a word, we should cherish what we have now, so that we can enrich and make sense.

The older you grow up, the more you know that it is not easy to do things. The more you know that everyone has difficulties, the less you will comment or look down on anyone. This is not hypocrisy, but understanding and getting along with the world gently.

4, some things, gently put down, not necessarily not easy. Some people, with deep memories, are not necessarily unhappy. Some pain, take it easy, not necessarily experience. Rough road, give a warm and stormy life around you and give yourself a smile. Life is understanding, keeping happiness in your heart and smiling on your face.

5. Life is so cruel. When true love is around us, we know nothing. It's too late to regret that the west wind withered the green trees. As a good friend of mine said to me: life is really just a one-way ticket, and we can't buy a return ticket. No matter whether it is wrong or right, there is no way to make up for it. There really is no way.

6. Some people are destined to stay in your heart and disappear into your life. You know from the bottom of your heart that you love her, although you can't remember her face now. Because this love is so deep that you thought you would never forget it.

7. People who have a secret crush are often very sad. They are always full of illusions, hoping to wait for a miracle, but until their death, they still haven't waited for that day. They like sad music. Maybe only in that kind of music can they find themselves and get some comfort. After a long time, people who secretly love her may hope that she can forget her, but she loves her more deeply, more mellow and more desolate.

8. There are so many disappointments in life that they eventually become forgetful. Shaoguang is a fallen flower that falls all over the floor; There is always balance in life, good and bad, love and hate. Happiness and sadness, enthusiasm and loneliness cannot be changed. We don't have to be afraid. If we suffer, it will have nothing.

9. Believe in yourself even if the whole world denies you. Don't mourn when others neglect you. Everyone has his own day, and no one can always accompany you. When you see others laughing, don't think that as long as you are alone in this world, others will only hide better than you. When you feel inferior to others everywhere, remember that you are just an ordinary person.

10, life time is short for decades, year after year; When you are satisfied with the spring breeze, leave some room for thinking, and don't let satisfaction get to your head; When you are in pain, leave some blanks for comfort, and don't let the pain suffocate your heart; Life is like a pancake, you have to turn it over enough to become exquisite.

1 1. You can't get everything you want in life, but in the end, God will give you everything you need. There is an encounter that lasts forever at a glance; There is a kind of heart, once in a lifetime, only for one person; The first time I met you, I was full of tenderness and counted the falling flowers season after season; Spring blossoms, pick up a touch of homesickness to send you. Looking back on the past, I hope that the first touch of flowers will fragrance all your fleeting years.

12, the most important value in life is the beauty of the soul. Living in the present is an understanding after recalling the past and looking forward to the future; Living in the present is the feeling after years of baptism; Living in the present is the first step to realize the value of life.

13, until now, I gradually realized that most people I thought were good or bad were just passers-by in my short and long life. No matter how deep the image is, the friendship is iron. In the end, maybe it's just a quick glance, and it's hard to meet again after separation, that's all.

14. Life is like a cup of tea. Only by savoring it carefully can we enjoy the real taste. There is no hurdle, so let your posture be beautiful. Time is like water in a sponge. As long as you are willing to squeeze, there is always something. Our fault is that we always want to get involved with irrelevant people, indulge in our own human relations, and only let our sighs and sighs pale the years and wait.

15, I can't tell the reason why I really love someone. You only know that whenever and wherever you are in a good mood, you want this person to accompany you. The real feeling is that two people can stay together in the most difficult time. After all, feelings are to be paid, not just to be obtained.

16, everything is open, in fact, it is to win opportunities for yourself, take a deep breath, recall past gains and losses, don't worry about what you didn't have before, cherish the present and realize your life. As long as you have a good attitude, everyone can find their own satisfactory answer.

17, no matter how you sobbed last night, you wake up in the morning and the city is still busy. Happy or unhappy, the city has no time to wait, you can only remember or forget.

18. When you have six apples, don't eat them all, because if you eat all six apples, you only get six apples, and you only get one taste, which is the taste of apples. If you take out five of the six apples for others to eat, it seems that you have lost five apples, but in fact you have gained the friendship and goodwill of the other five people.

19 I once loved you. In those years, you were a light in my dark world. Where you stand, there is a direction. I once blamed you. On the day of separation, I lost not only my lover, but also my only dream in that long time.

20. There are only two kinds of emotions in the world that can be called romance: one is to feel sorry for each other, and the other is to forget about the rivers and lakes; What we have to do is to strive for friendship with the people we love most and forget the people we love for the second time.