There are contradictions in love.
Sometimes I am immersed in love, and sometimes I have conflicts with each other because of various impulses or misunderstandings. Sometimes the difference in thinking between men and women often makes the psychological feelings of both sides different. One side feels fine, but the other side is under pressure and wronged. If there is a contradiction with the object in love, how to solve it?
Know each other.
Understand each other in love. Include your partner's personality, hobbies, advantages and disadvantages. When there is friction in life, because we understand each other, we will make concessions and the contradiction will naturally be reduced by half.
Know how to apologize
When there is conflict, don't have a cold war. If both sides think they are right and don't give in to each other, they will not only fail to resolve the contradiction, but even lead to the breakdown of the relationship. If you want to try your best to make them happy, it is important to know how to apologize to each other. If one side gives in and apologizes, the problem will be solved.
Understanding tolerance and understanding
When contradictions appear, don't blame each other blindly, so that contradictions will not be solved, but will intensify the deepening of contradictions. We should consider problems from each other's perspective and learn to be tolerant and considerate. This kind of love will last.
Give your partner some privacy.
Love does not possess each other, but complements each other. I've always been afraid of loneliness. Let my partner accompany me. Over time, the other person will feel that love is a burden and there is no freedom. Giving your partner some private space properly can make your partner more relaxed and comfortable.
Say what you really think
If you want him to spend more time with you and go out to play, you can just say so. Two people have different ideas. If the other party has no travel plans or anything, we can discuss it together. Deliberately saying irony will only make you more depressed if the other person doesn't recognize it. Only by using the simplest way to achieve the goal can we reduce unnecessary troubles.
Solve the problem in time.
Don't be preconceived and paranoid about what you see and hear. Tell him/her not to feel sorry for yourself. The truth is often not what you think. It's normal to be jealous, and it's normal to make demands on each other. As long as we have a good grasp and respect each other, there won't be so many misunderstandings.
Be romantic once in a while and express your thoughts.
Romance is not how much money and effort you spend, but how romantic you are with your heart. In a word, a short message, a bunch of flowers, a small gift, what the other person likes, what he will see, do you feel that she/she is by your side at this time, and you will make the same choice as her?