In the workplace, communication ability is an important ability. Mastering it will be more popular, faster promotion and salary increase, and better popularity. How to improve your communication skills? I believe you have heard many common communication skills, such as "being good at listening and respecting others". I will skip these cliches and introduce some methods that people with strong communication skills are used to but little known to achieve effective communication.

When you hear different opinions, sometimes you will interrupt and state your opinion clearly without waiting for the other person to finish, and list one or two arguments to try to prove that you are right. But no matter how reasonable you say, the other party just won't buy it. The higher you tune, the more the other person objects, because no one wants to admit that he is wrong. How can we make it easier for the other party to accept your point of view? You can try backward communication. ?

First, wait patiently for the other party to finish.

Don't interrupt others when they are talking. Even if you have 10 thousand impulses to refute, you have to wait for the other person to finish. This is the least courtesy.

Second, first affirm each other's bright spots.

After the other person has finished speaking, find out where you agree with the other person's point of view, such as "We all think this PPT is very deep" or praise the other person "I think you are very creative".

Why are you doing this?

Everyone has mysterious self-confidence, thinks he is right, and hopes others will recognize and praise him. There is a "first cause effect" in psychology. The information received first has a great influence on people's cognition, that is, as the saying goes, "preconceptions." If you praise each other first, they will feel more relaxed. But if you object first, the other party will be prepared, and the door of communication will be closed at any time. Therefore, in order to achieve your goal, you must make appropriate concessions and affirm each other before quitting. ?

Third, express your views euphemistically.

Instead of using inflectional words such as "but", "however" and "however", we can try to use euphemisms such as "I also have an immature suggestion" and "I have an immature idea" to draw out our own views and achieve good communication results. ?

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