The above passage was said by Le Jia in the program "If You Are the One". A few years ago, TV blind date was very popular, and many types of TV blind date programs appeared, among which "If You Are the One" program is worth mentioning.
In the program, Murphy and Le Jia, two bald heads, are deeply rooted in people's hearts. They cooperated tacitly and helped the female guests analyze their emotional problems. Once this program was broadcast, the ratings were very good and it was the best of its kind.
It was from this program that Le Jia became popular. At that time, he also said many classic words on the program, such as "people learn best when they are happy and grow up when they are miserable" and so on. What he said can go straight to the depths of people's hearts, and those views on life and love are profound and intriguing.
Because of this program, Le Jia became popular and received many notices, and his career also climbed step by step. But everything that seemed beautiful was destroyed by himself.
After graduating from technical secondary school, I found my eloquence talent by selling cosmetics.
Le Jia/KLOC-graduated at the age of 0/6. He studied in a technical secondary school in Ningbo and began to work after graduation. At first, he tried everything, because his education was not high, he could only sell his house, but his performance was not good either.
Later, Le Jia worked part-time as a cosmetics salesman, and accidentally found himself very eloquent and talented in this respect. He also likes dealing with female customers and can grasp each other's psychology well. Because of his good performance, Le Jia was favored by the boss of the company, so he changed from a salesman to a trainer.
After working here for several years, Le Jia was admitted to the undergraduate course through self-study, and then established the China Personality Color Research Center. Le Jia invented the method of analyzing people's character by color, and used various colors to refer to all kinds of people. At that time, the study of personality colorimetry became popular, and Le Jia also published related books.
Le Jia had a soft spot for speeches, and later became a lecturer, having trained for many large companies. Later, "If You Are the One" found him and wanted to invite him to be a mentor in the program. At first, Le Jia didn't want to, but the program group sincerely invited him to participate in the program many times, and he agreed to the requirements of the program.
After If You Are the One, Le Jia became more famous, and he also participated in Super Speaker. The theme of this program is speech. As a tutor, Le Jia is very popular with students and has a good hand. At that time, Le Jia would comment a lot on the manuscripts of his team members. Before the team members go on stage, Le Jia will cheer for them and applaud them after the speech.
Second, the program was drunk and had an argument with tranquility.
In the third season of Super Speaker, one of his students is disabled, so he has some psychological problems. In order to encourage his students, Le Jia performed "Drinking Courage" for the students on the stage. As a result, he got drunk and said a lot of things he shouldn't have said at the recording scene.
First, he scolded his tutor. At that time, a mentor came to power and tried to dissuade him. As a result, he was scolded by Le Jia and left on the spot. This wine was made by Le Jia himself before he came to power. No one thought that he would do such a thing, because it affected the shooting of the program at that time and had a great influence on the program group and the tutor.
Afterwards, Venus said in an interview that "all the contestants call him a musician and our teacher. Because the master only teaches technology, the teacher teaches people to be human. " Venus is also an outspoken person. It can be seen from this passage that Venus didn't appreciate Le Jia very much.
Since then, Le Jia's reputation is not as good as before. When I participated in Mr. Super before, I had an argument with Quiet. Jing Ning believes that athletes have missed many opportunities to win gold medals and have never given up, saying that this spiritual courage is commendable. But Le Jia didn't agree with this view, so they quarreled.
Later, when I quietly participated in other programs, I talked about the situation at that time and said that I was shocked, unguarded and oppressive.
This is not the first time that Le Jia has made a "crazy" move. Once, he participated in a program with Nana, in which he was so excited that he held Nana in his arms. Nana already has a home. Even if he doesn't have a family, it is disrespectful to treat female guests like this, so Nana's fans have condemned Le Jia.
After Super Speaker, no one dared to ask Le Jia to record the program. Gradually, he faded out of everyone's sight, but some people took photos of him doing Shang Yan in some small cities.
3. What did Le Jia experience from a gold medal tutor to a down-and-out man?
20 18, Le Jia once sent a Weibo, claiming that he had a bad life in the past two years. He didn't go to the venue where 10 thousand people spoke before, but now he sits in the venue where more than 3 thousand people speak.
It can be seen that Lejia is really not as good as before. In the past, the gold medal host in the program was reduced to Shang Yan in the street, but it was not because he was too "affected".
Why does Le Jiahui repeatedly go out of line in the program? This should start with his family.
First of all, his family background is not very good, his education is not high, and he has suffered a lot in society, which will inevitably have an impact on his psychology. Later, Le Jia married a rich daughter-in-law. The wife's family conditions are much better than her own, so the consumption concept is different. This marriage didn't last long.
In his second marriage, Le Jia met a very nice girl, but at that time, at the low point of Le Jia's career, he began to show violent tendencies and beat his wife. The wife filed for divorce because she couldn't stand violence. From then on, Le Jia began to get a little grumpy. Later, because the program became popular, everyone got a little carried away and began to speak unscrupulously.
Now Le Jia began to study Buddhism, trying to find the answer from Buddhism and seek the balance between body and mind. He not only practiced by himself, but also took his daughter and sent her to Shaolin Temple to study for some time.
In fact, a closer look at Le Jia's past reveals that he has been using external things to make up for his inner vacancy. Because I had no money when I was a child, I was not taken seriously after entering the society, so I needed money and face. Later, he became popular on the show, and he was rich. What about face? He used his extreme language and behavior to get everyone's attention, but the final result was fame and fortune.
He also studies people's personalities and uses colors to express them. He said he was yellow-skinned, made things public and loved to show off. He also knows what his weakness is, but he can't overcome it himself. Maybe he studied Buddhism to find the answer, maybe he wanted to change himself, or he wanted to find a relief in Buddhism, hoping that Buddhism would bring him real "peace".