For all parents, they all have good expectations for their children, hoping that they can be healthy, happy, happy and successful. With the increasingly fierce social competition and higher expectations, parents and children are no longer relaxed. When children were very young, they took part in various extracurricular tutoring classes, and they were overwhelmed with English, piano and abacus. After school, their schoolwork becomes more and more heavy. Under the great pressure of entrance examination, children and parents feel exhausted, family conflicts increase and parent-child relationship becomes tense.
Meet in a narrow way, and the person with high emotional intelligence wins.
In fact, learning is the main job of every child's growth, but how children cope with learning and the results they cope with play a decisive role in their lives. More and more educators and psychologists believe that 80% of children's achievements (academic and life) depend on their emotional intellectual skills, while intellectual factors only account for 20%. These EQ skills include self-confidence, willpower, stress coping, self-management, emotional control, anti-frustration and problem-solving ability. Specifically, children should be able to define their own values, establish good learning motivation, link today's study with tomorrow's ideal of entering a higher school and choosing a job, know how to set goals and master goal-oriented time management methods in the face of heavy learning tasks; Coping with test pressure, able to control anxiety and self-motivation At the same time, good and harmonious interpersonal relationships also have a positive impact on their studies.
Emotional intelligence is acquired skills and methods.
Experts also stressed that, unlike IQ, EQ is some methods and skills that need to be learned the day after tomorrow. Many times, adults complain that children have no goals, love to lose their temper, are afraid of difficulties, are inattentive, and drag their homework. In fact, children lack target management, emotional control skills, stress coping skills and time management methods. Many times, children are more and more tired and overwhelmed on the way to study because they can't get good methods and successful experience. They even have emotions such as avoiding learning, and some have behavioral problems such as infatuation with the internet and joining small groups. Therefore, experts appeal that when helping children cope with their studies, they should not simply think that children are "not smart" or "not working hard". In fact, the methods and skills to improve emotional intelligence can make children more relaxed and successful!
Yaya Rabbit Children's EQ Paradise is the first authoritative training institution for children's EQ in China, and the China implementation base of SEL social emotional development plan in the United States. In 2009, there were 47 training centers in China, with more than 400 professional certified EQ trainers and more than 65,438+10,000 students aged 3- 15. Committed to passing on children's skills in socialization, self-confidence, independence, willpower, competitiveness, optimism and frustration.
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