No solution! You stood by when I needed help, but when you needed me, I'm sorry I had to stand by and watch the fire from the other side! Don't say that she is an old man, so she can't make way. This is the first fucking time. Why should I let go? If she is an old man, then I can think that I am still young and don't understand many things. You have walked more roads than I have eaten salt, please forgive me! Only when you do it can you be respected! Look at your heart, only if you treat me as a relative from the heart can I treat you as a mother! Otherwise, it's all bullshit. I can only do what I gave birth to. I care about what I gave birth to, and the rest is my business!
For such a mother-in-law, a daughter-in-law with normal thinking will remember her for a lifetime!
I think this kind of revenge really should be unsolvable.
We should not think that time can fill all unpleasant memories.
Daughter-in-law is eight or nine months pregnant, and she is still pregnant with food for the whole family. When your mother-in-law is full, she goes to the square dance, and there are only a handful of times to clean up the dishes.
Daughter-in-law is married far away, and the old mother at home is over 70 years old and in poor health. Your mother-in-law took her sister on a trip the day after her daughter-in-law gave birth on the grounds that she couldn't stand the noise of children.
Daughter-in-law wants a new moon, and you are afraid of spending money. Don't ask for it, let the 70-year-old sick daughter-in-law mother sit in the car for more than ten hours to wait on her daughter's new moon. As a result, my in-laws fell ill the next day.
When your daughter-in-law needed you most in her life, you chose to travel. And accused the daughter-in-law of holding a grudge against you. When you are old and need a daughter-in-law, you kidnap her daughter-in-law to honor you with the morality of "putting all virtues and filial piety first", and you will never remember the revenge of the month.
You are really good at this abacus! You didn't do your duty as a mother-in-law. Why should your daughter-in-law be as filial to you as her mother-in-law? !
What is so beautiful in the world? It's all your fault anyway, okay? Reflect on yourself more.
"See your grandmother in the first ten years, and see your daughter-in-law in the next ten years!" Don't blame your daughter-in-law for not being like her mother-in-law.
Turn it over and compare your heart. If there are good families, there will be Qing Yu, and if there are bad families, there will be more disasters. Others and everyone come here with big hats to ask questions, which is unreasonable consumption! So I want to organize language typing to answer, which consumes time and energy for no reason and is cheap. Don't you feel bad and immoral? ! Don't you think this is annoying in itself? ! Noise! Noise! The meaningless noise of life! ! A heinous crime.
It is heinous, and the daughter-in-law has worked hard to get pregnant, and there may be only one in this life. Are you anxious for next year? Do you have to travel this month? Today's young people (I am also a mother-in-law) cannot be measured by the standards of our time. Giving birth is a woman's journey from the gate of hell. You should know how much she has suffered. Now the child is not her mother's child! Travel when confinement is so important! Unforgettable.
Judging from the fact that the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law almost never tidy up the dishes and chopsticks after dinner, they live under one roof; Since the daughter-in-law started cooking for eight or nine months, her mother-in-law just danced square dance and didn't care much about her daughter-in-law; On the whole, the daughter-in-law is emotional accumulation to her mother-in-law, which leads to anger and disgust.
As far as confinement is concerned, there is nothing wrong with not wanting to take it; Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are difficult to get along with, and mother and daughter can't love each other, so why insist?
Therefore, a qualified daughter-in-law will choose her parents to wait for next month. For the comfort of the parturient, her parents can better understand and understand her life needs and habits; Stumbling in the middle of the month makes everyone unhappy but not beautiful; Even if mother loses her temper, her parents are not very good at accounting.
Looking at the attitude of the daughter-in-law, it seems that there is not much demand for the mother-in-law to serve the month.
However, in China and even in most parts of the world, it is an indisputable fact that pregnant women are weak in the second month and there are still small babies to take care of.
There is no mention of son and husband in the article, which seems to be completely ruled out!
Then things come, the family can consider their own needs, don't wait directly, and always think of a solution.
The daughter-in-law asked for a new moon, but her mother-in-law refused, on the grounds that it was expensive. So all the tours are free? Traveling and asking for a new moon, maybe the cost is similar, maybe traveling is still higher; In her mother-in-law's cognition, spending money on her daughter-in-law is a waste? I want to ask, what if your daughter is confinement? How would you choose?
It is often seen that old people are facing their daughters at their in-laws' homes on the same thing, arguing for various reasons, fearing that their children will suffer losses and be diligent; In front of your daughter-in-law, you will be picky, evasive and indifferent, and even reasonable demands will be allowed.
I also saw that the girl was married, and her mother-in-law in her 70 s came and fell ill. Is this the last straw to crush the feelings of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law
It is not easy for a 70-year-old man with poor health to take care of himself; Anyone with a discerning eye should consider long-distance love and old age. Together, these two conditions are suitable for this!
It takes time for pregnant women to eat a high-frequency nutritious moon meal during the day, and they have to take care of pregnant women with mobility difficulties; The baby is too delicate, the gastrointestinal function is not perfect, and accidents such as spitting milk and crying occur from time to time; Peeing and urinating, changing diapers back and forth, washing and drying … I can hardly stop for a day. The key is that the baby should get up three or four times at night to eat milk, change diapers and take care of the baby.
When you are old, you can't rest well if you feel less; Doing things at night, extremely tired; For a 70-year-old man, is it unbearable for the body and you can't say it?
Mother-in-law can choose by herself, but only to save money, forcing her mother-in-law to come and serve, without considering anything else! How selfish it is to interfere in everything without contributing or paying!
Sometimes I feel that when a woman enters another family, she has no mutual understanding, empathy and compassion, but she can think of the woman's mind.
Moreover, the second trimester is a very special period. Affected by the body's higher than normal estrogen level, emotions will become extremely sensitive and fragile, completely out of control.
The more painful people are about their experiences, the more difficult it is to control them. Gray memory, when I think of it, my emotions come up. Nothing strange!
When your daughter-in-law needs your help most, you avoid it, so don't expect her to be good to you.
As the saying goes, what you plant will bear fruit.
Daughter-in-law is pregnant for eight or nine months. She has to cook for her family, clean up the housework and go to the square dance by herself. Daughter-in-law has just given birth to a child, and she doesn't want to listen to the noise of the child, so she went on a trip. Daughter-in-law is far away from home, and no one cares about her family when she is old. She wouldn't let her take the new moon, so she ran on her mother from a distance. Although such a mother-in-law is not afraid of heinous crimes, it is natural not to be stayed by her daughter-in-law. As expected, what can be wronged? Does she still think she is RMB, and no matter where she goes, there will be people around her?
This mother-in-law is very selfish, and always only considers her own feelings, regardless of other people's positions. As a mother-in-law, of course, no one stipulates that a daughter-in-law can't travel during confinement, and no one stipulates that she must nurse her daughter-in-law and wait for confinement. But the trip can be a few days late! Why does the daughter-in-law have to leave right after giving birth? It is actually an excuse to say that you can't listen to your child cry during menopause. If there is no special reason, most newborn babies eat and sleep and seldom cry. I don't want to wait on my daughter-in-law, so why stop my daughter-in-law from hiring Yue Yue? If you don't act yourself, you won't let your daughter-in-law hire Yue Yue. Isn't your daughter-in-law hard? Her behavior is not even as good as that of a neighbor. As a neighbor, I will help you if possible. Even if you can't help, you won't back down. But this mother-in-law not only didn't help, but also set obstacles. Why doesn't her practice make her daughter-in-law feel cold? It's cold, just add a dress. When the heart is cold, it is difficult to warm up.
As the saying goes, leaves fall under the tree. My mother-in-law is not friendly to her daughter-in-law, and her daughter-in-law will not have much affection for her in the future. Although you can ask your daughter-in-law as an elder in the future, even if her daughter-in-law is humanitarian, she doesn't like her now, and she may be careless and not caring.
If I were a daughter-in-law, I wouldn't even look at her, let alone take care of her, my son.
The confinement of a daughter-in-law is of course her own business, and others can ignore it, including her parents and in-laws. But judging from the problems reflected by the subject, this mother-in-law is too selfish. For a daughter-in-law who is married far away, it's a bit unreasonable not to get warmth and care at the critical moment of her husband's family. It's not that I don't know which is more important, traveling or taking care of my mother. My mother-in-law traveled thousands of miles for this and fell ill. It can be seen that the mother and daughter are deeply in love, and the mother-in-law is cold and lonely. In this case, it is false that the daughter-in-law has no grievances.
The clever mother-in-law quickly made up for the shortcomings and filled the gap that was forming between them. As a daughter-in-law, others can see what her mother-in-law has done, so she might as well be generous and open-minded, and not hold grudges, so that her mother-in-law feels wrong and ashamed.