However, many people in China, especially China people who became rich after the reform and opening up, attach great importance to giving children physical nutrition, but neglect psychological nutrition, which makes many children seriously lack psychological nutrition.
The so-called emotional instability does not mean anger, jealousy, crying and so on. Normal people also have anger, jealousy, crying and other phenomena, while emotional instability lacking psychological nutrition refers to overreaction.
For example:
A leader put forward some specific work requirements at the meeting, assuming that one of them is that colleagues should unite and cooperate, do not engage in cliques, and do not say anything that is not conducive to work unity. Most employees may feel normal. If they lack psychological nutrition, they may think repeatedly and sit in the right position with themselves. Is it personal? Is it because something I did one day caused dissatisfaction among the leaders that I made this request? Wait, and then you will be very angry and wronged.
In fact, this request is not directed at him at all, but his sense of value is not strong and he lacks psychological nutrition, so he overreacts. So do jealousy and crying. Overreaction belongs to mental nutritional deficiency.
In fact, interpersonal relationships are not good. In the final analysis, it is still insecure. I don't trust anyone, always insecure, insecure. These are all manifestations of lack of psychological nutrition. This kind of child is manifested in complaining, which is what everyone usually calls "gossiping." This phenomenon can often be seen in kindergartens, and children often go to the teacher to say goodbye. If our parents and teachers can understand the children's performance, they will not blame them, but will find more reasons in parents and try to help them make up for the lack of psychological nutrition, and the problem will be solved.
Love is the most lacking psychological nutrition for children with deviant behavior. Because you don't get the love you deserve, you won't love yourself or others. When it develops to a serious degree, it will hurt itself and even others. The injuries here include both verbal injuries and physical injuries. This phenomenon is common among adults. No matter what you say or do, you are always hurting others. Most of these people are seriously short of psychological nutrition in infancy. To solve these problems, they must supplement their psychological nutrition, and there is no other shortcut.
A child with sufficient psychological nutrition has a strong sense of connection and can quickly find bosom friends in a strange environment. Let's give a simple example. For example, in some short-term training courses attended by people, students with a strong sense of connection will soon make intimate friends among many students. Not only do they not feel lonely after a few days' study and life, but they can also keep in touch with each other and exchange needed items after separation, which proves that this person has a strong sense of connection and his psychological nutrition is sufficient.
Connection includes human connection and spatial connection. For example, from one city to another, I gradually like that city, which shows that I have contact with that city for some reason. Therefore, the connection should be the connection between heart and heart, not limited to the superficial form.
A child with adequate psychological nutrition not only has a strong sense of independence, but also has independent ability. This kind of people usually think independently and practice independently when they encounter problems, with strong emotional control and rational analysis and judgment.
For example, some children, when their exam results are not ideal, will secretly work hard by themselves and try their best to study hard and strive for excellent results. Because he knows very well that his academic performance is not ideal, not to mention that he can't meet the requirements of the school and his parents, and he won't have a good future for himself. He has to work hard and make progress. He has to change his situation and he doesn't have to worry about his parents. This is an independent consciousness and ability, a lofty sense of responsibility, purposefulness and planning when things happen, and the ability to handle and solve their own affairs independently. This is a kind of enrichment.
Children with insufficient psychological nutrition have no sense of value, and when they grow up, they have no interest, enthusiasm and motivation, let alone dreams in study, life and even work. Most of these adults lack psychological nutrition in infancy and have not formed themselves. On the contrary, children must have a strong sense of value.
People with adequate psychological nutrition not only love themselves, but also love others and can accept the love of others. In real life, there are many leftover men and women. Mainly because they won't love themselves at first, and they won't love others at the same time. Of course, when others love him, he doesn't know how to accept others' love. Basically speaking, it is to give up the right to love, or to say that there is no ability to love. What needs to be emphasized here is that whether you love or not depends largely on whether the psychological nutrition supply of infants and young children is sufficient.
Firmly establishing a baby's sense of security is very important for a child's life. If he has sufficient psychological nutrition, he will have a strong sense of security, so he will be confident, valuable and have good interpersonal relationships, and he will be very successful and happy. It can also be said that enough psychological nutrition gives children enough sense of security, and when children have enough sense of security, they have everything.