The advantages are as follows: First, it is a useful supplement to school education and makes up for the shortage of school education. Teachers majoring in interest classes are very conducive to cultivating students' hobbies, and the professionalism of teachers is also conducive to improving students' level. The second is to broaden students' horizons, which is conducive to students' diversified development. With the improvement of the level, students' self-confidence is constantly enhanced, which is of great benefit to the all-round development of students. The third is to make time for parents, students can study interest classes, and parents can do their own things. The fourth is to keep children away from mobile phones and computers to protect their eyesight.
Disadvantages: First, it causes unfairness in learning. Due to the tuition problem, some poor families are unable to let their children attend interest classes, which leads to unfairness. Second, it increases the burden on families and children. Some families require their children to enroll in several interest classes, which not only increases the financial burden of families, but also increases the burden on students. If you study too many subjects, your child will feel bored, but it is not good.
In short, there are advantages and disadvantages, and the overall advantages outweigh the disadvantages. Parents and children should treat it correctly and let the interest class serve us.
At present, there should be no policy support for the six-day interest classes in schools and kindergartens, and parents should volunteer.
A: Listen to the children!
Interest classes are not interested, adults don't understand my heart;
We need to play. We like playmates.
Give me back my golden childhood and my childlike innocence;
The vicious circle is harmful to people and consumes a lot of energy and money!
My view of interest classes is this. The so-called interest class must follow the child's inner thoughts.
Children have a strong desire, interest, hobby and interest from the heart and want to participate in a learning project. If they want to learn, don't force them to.
When my son was in the second grade of primary school, he saw many children learning violin, and he was also eager to learn violin.
I said, son, think about it. Do you like the violin? My son said that he likes the shape of the violin very much, likes watching the handsome appearance of playing the violin, and also likes listening to the Changle of the violin.
Since the child gave me three good reasons, and said that learning violin is what he wants most now.
Without saying anything, his father and I agreed to our son's interest and gave him one-on-one private lessons.
The child is really interested in the violin. Even when he started practicing basic music, he was very serious. He keeps practicing every day and never worries us.
Two years later, the child went to the fifth grade, and the learning task became heavier and heavier, and the child's energy seemed to be unable to keep up. His interest in learning violin is not as good as before. Then, he told us: Mom, I don't want to learn the violin now, because it will take up a lot of my time studying culture.
My husband and wife have different opinions from other parents. Other parents think it is bad to buy a violin for two years.
But my point is that children are not interested in learning violin now, so they have no motivation in this respect. He doesn't really want to learn. We can put it aside for a while and play the violin when he wants to learn. If he doesn't want to, he doesn't have to go to this interest class again.
Nowadays, many parents want their children to succeed and see many stars appear on the stage. Sometimes, compared with other children, some parents think that other children are very promising, so they will impose their wishes and unfulfilled dreams on their children and enroll them in many extra-long classes, which is what we call interest classes, such as calligraphy, dance, ballet, singing, chess and so on. Some children like it. Some children are almost uninterested, and they learned it under the kidnapping of their parents.
My classmate, a little girl at home, has never forgotten the pain of learning ballet.
Children are very reluctant to go to ballet and practice basic skills. Leg press's leg hurts and he feels very tired after standing for a long time. However, her mother wanted to learn ballet since she was a child and wanted to be a ballet dancer when she grew up. This dream didn't come true, so she pinned it on her daughter.
The daughter is very clever, and she is more determined that the child can develop beyond ballet. In order to learn ballet, their mother and daughter quarreled fiercely every time, and their children were kidnapped to learn ballet, and they had no interest. Nowadays, children watch ballet, which can be said to be so disgusting that there are some problems in their mental health.
Therefore, children's interest classes and super-long classes must follow their interests and hearts and choose for them. Only in this way can there be motivation when the internal factors work, and parents will be relaxed and happy.
As for interest classes, I don't think they are aimed at the will of adults. It's all about your child's wishes. If your child is really interested in a certain field, I think you can take part in the study, after all, you can get professional exercise opportunities.
If your children are not interested in all fields, there is really no need to force them to participate. After all, interest is the best teacher. If children are not interested, in fact, our parents or teachers can slowly cultivate, discover and develop. When children's interests develop, they can participate in the so-called extra-long class interest class system at this time.
Of course, because some parents are very busy, they don't want their children to do nothing at home alone. They can also sign up for a class according to their own situation, and it is also possible to cultivate children's interest. The most important thing is to decide according to your own situation, and there is no unified answer.
Regarding the interest classes offered in kindergartens and primary schools, my opinion is: encourage children to participate more.
Why?
Take my child as an example, tell us about the process from "audition" to final determination of interest.
In the stage of sea election, short-term study and Buddhist training, you can go whichever you like.
When our children were in the middle class of kindergarten, the teacher told parents that different kinds of interest classes would be offered every semester, and the children could choose freely, and the fees per semester were several hundred yuan.
Actually, just look at the charge. This is not a professional interest training class. To put it bluntly, it is a kind of income generation for kindergartens.
However, I will still ask my children that there are fine arts, dancing, Newton's scientific experiments and various interesting classes this semester. If you like, just tell your mother that we can learn.
After the whole kindergarten, we basically change to a different interest class every semester, and always respect the child's own wishes and learn whatever he chooses.
In fact, at this time, we don't expect him to learn anything. Finding out his interests is the greatest gain.
The only way to determine his interest and develop it into a specialty in the future is to let the child keep trying. So I think the interest classes offered by kindergartens and schools provide us with more affordable opportunities to determine our interests, which is actually quite good.
Determine interest, study deeply, get the promotion of parents, and strive to develop into a specialty.
In an instant, I went to primary school. In the first grade, the school played chess.
The children fell in love with it at once. At that time, the school curriculum only taught the basics and only lasted for two semesters. If you want to learn deeper, you have to apply for a training class outside.
The children followed the study with great interest for a semester, strongly demanding to continue their study, and asked us to pay the registration fee for one year at a time.
We have repeatedly confirmed with him. Are you sure you want to learn?
The child said firmly that he must learn chess.
So, from the second grade, we began to study the special national image. Because children are sure that this is their interest, they are very focused on their studies and make rapid progress.
As parents, what we can do is to spend a lot of money to let him participate in various competitions, which not only exercises his psychological quality, but also improves his chess skills.
In two years, we changed from a non-first-class player to a second-class player, during which we won several trophies and our children became more and more confident from each competition.
From my personal experience, I feel that since it is an interest, of course, we should respect the wishes of children and give them the right to choose. In this way, when children encounter difficulties and setbacks in the later learning process, they are less likely to shrink back.
However, how to discover children's real interests requires trying different courses. Compared with going out to report for class, it often costs thousands of dollars. These courses in kindergartens and schools are actually very affordable, and children's interests are easier to find and there is no pressure.
Conclusion: Don't exclude these interest classes in kindergartens and schools, and don't consider whether teachers who don't register will be biased against children. All you have to consider is whether the children in this interest class like it or not, and whether it helps me discover the potential of children.
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In order to enable children to develop in an all-round way, many parents will give their children many interest classes.
Once I went for a walk in the park, I was attracted by a group of children who were playing roller skating, so I stopped. The youngest child looks only over two years old. I'm really surprised that he can study at such a low height. At this time, a parent said, "Now parents can't wait to have everything."
Interest is a child's innate nature.
Interest is people's psychological tendency to know something or engage in certain activities. It is based on the need of understanding and exploring external things, and it is to promote people's understanding of things. An important motive for exploring truth.
In fact, every child will be interested in things outside when he lands, but they are still relatively young in infancy. Parents can only judge whether they like it or not from their eyes and behaviors, so interest is a kind of nature.
Interest should return to the children themselves, not just because of survival needs.
In recent years, many parents pay more and more attention to "interest classes". In the final analysis, it is to let children master more skills and be more competitive after leaving society.
However, parents went into a misunderstanding that a skill was necessary when they were young, so they selfishly enrolled their children in remedial classes regardless of their wishes. As a result, the child didn't want to learn after studying for a few days. I believe that most children have encountered this situation, but many parents are very helpless until the end.
Therefore, no matter what kind of interest class a child signs up for, he should start from the child himself and finally return to the child, so that interest can become something that the child likes from the heart.
Persistence is not because of the effect, but because of persistence.
Faced with the word "interest", many children only have a novel feeling. In other words, they just want to have fun, so in the process of playing, children develop a sense of randomness. Some children can even sign up for more than a dozen different interest classes a year, but they get nothing.
In fact, we all know that what these children lack is persistence, which makes their efforts in vain. There is a girl in my class who has been studying sketch for 9 years. I was surprised to see a dog she painted once, because every hair of the dog in the painting can be seen clearly. No wonder children can sit still! Therefore, every interest needs persistence, and only persistence will have results.
In terms of interest, we must guide children to learn to choose and persist. I believe that in the future study, every child will definitely experience the value it brings.
My daughter is in a large class in a private kindergarten. Originally, she didn't open interest classes. She only lets her children choose their own interests at the beginning of each semester. Usually, I am very focused in class and don't charge. However, two months ago, the kindergarten informed parents that in order to take care of the parents who could not pick up their children at 5 pm, the school contacted the interest classes outside the school and gave them interest classes after school. This is not free, because it has not been reported to children, so I don't know the specific price. I think it's 800 yuan every semester.
I didn't register my children, and I didn't find the teacher treating them differently. But as you said, in my opinion, at least public primary schools and public kindergartens dare not be so blatant.
My neighbor downstairs is studying in a public primary school. Every Friday afternoon, he has special time to give his children interesting lessons, such as music, painting, calligraphy and so on. , but it is also free.
In this case, there is no need to worry about whether the teacher will treat his children differently in class. Just communicate fully with the teacher. Teachers also know that many parents have enrolled their children in outside interest classes. I don't think students will be treated differently because of this. Just yesterday, the Ministry of Education and other seven departments issued the Opinions on Strengthening and Improving the Construction of Teachers' Morality and Style in the New Period. Some black sheep in those teachers' groups will be severely punished, and no one should commit crimes against the wind.
"During the epidemic, there is a particularly strange phenomenon: the more time children have to develop their hobbies, the more parents send their children to cram schools to fill the time." -"The world is our classroom"
In fact, cultivating interest and going to interest classes are absolutely two opposing concepts. Baidu Encyclopedia explains it like this: "Interest refers to the feeling of interest, liking or paying attention to things. Psychologists believe that people try to know something and engage in an activity. It is manifested in people's selective attitude and positive emotional response to something or an activity. Interest is of great significance in people's practical activities. It can make people concentrate and produce a happy and tense psychological state. " It is an interest, a happy mood.
Interest should be the cheapest but the most precious. He is cheap because he doesn't need to spend money when we are interested in one thing or one thing; It is said that he is really expensive because it is useless to spend more money to cultivate a person's interest unless he is interested.
However, in reality, tens of thousands of dollars for a newspaper is the interest class fee for half a year. Completely changed the original intention of cultivating interest. No one's money falls from the sky, and parents certainly want to hear about the money they spend.
However, it just ignores the characteristics of children, that is, universality, immediacy and intermittence. Extensive. Children are interested in everything from birth, which is why they are so interested. They want to see everything, touch everything, listen to everything and try everything.
Instantaneity I want to do it immediately when I think of it, but once I get in touch with it, I can't concentrate for a long time. Because the younger the child, the less time he has to concentrate. But the course is often 45 minutes to 90 minutes, so many intensive training courses are used.
Off and on. Whether it is children's mental development or ability development, it is a spiral, not a straight line. Therefore, parents should accept the fact that their children take two steps forward and one step back. We adults can't stay interested in one thing for a long time. However, I can't accept that children at that time were interested in art, and children at that time were interested in sports. Either blame the children for not doing things for a long time, or sign up for more than n interest classes in one breath for a period of time.
First of all, as parents, we should understand developmental psychology. The characteristics of each stage of a child's growth. This is the nature of human development.
The second is to know the characteristics of your child. Confucius said, "Teach students in accordance with their aptitude". Never compare children, because no two people in the world are exactly the same.
I have something special to say about interest classes in kindergartens. When my baby was in a small class, the teacher recommended the interest class and didn't sign up. I feel that the child is too young and she doesn't like it. The teacher of the middle class (that is, this semester) recommended the interest class. I'm more interested in art and dance. But they were all taught by their own kindergarten teachers. I feel unprofessional and don't want to sign up my child. However, the teacher repeatedly urged the students to sign up for the dance symbolically in order not to let the teacher treat them differently. However, ten students in the small classroom are sitting on the ground, unable to open their legs. I used the blanket when I walked the red carpet on the ground. I had so many classes and there was no video. In that case, I won't sign up next semester.
Want to attend kindergarten interest classes, look at these points: see teachers, see textbooks, and see the environment. If these three points are not good, in order not to let the teacher wear small shoes, just sign up for a subject. But it also depends on the quality and ideas of teachers. The teacher's quality is ok, but if these three points are not good, don't apply, otherwise it will harm the children.