Title: What are the steps of desensitization? Try to use it to correct a prominent psychological problem of middle school students. 1. What is system desensitization? System desensitization is an important method in behavior correction technology. It is a way to let students get close to what they are afraid of, or gradually increase the intensity of stimulation to what they are afraid of, so that students' sensitivity to what they are afraid of gradually decreases until it disappears completely. System desensitization method is based on the principle of mutual inhibition. Its basic therapeutic principles are: a person's behavior can only have one kind of nerve activity and tendency at the same time and space, that is, when he is excited, he can't be calm; In calm, there can be no excitement. Calm and excitement are often mutually exclusive and cannot happen at the same time. System desensitization is mainly used to correct various fears. (See the training textbook "Mental Health and Psychological Counseling for Middle School Students") II. Steps of the system desensitization method Generally speaking, the system desensitization method includes three steps: first, sort out the anxiety classification table, that is, first find out the events that make students feel anxious, and express the subjective anxiety degree of each event with a score between 0 and 100, where 0 means calm, 25 means mild anxiety and 50 means moderate anxiety. 75 is high anxiety, 100 is extreme anxiety, or between these scores, and then the marked anxiety events are arranged in order from weak to strong; The second is to carry out relaxation training, so that the whole body muscles can quickly enter a relaxed state as qualified. Generally, you need to practice from 6 to 10, 30 minutes each time, 1 2 times a day; The third is to enter the desensitization process of the system and carry out joint training of anxiety response and muscle relaxation techniques. System desensitization methods can be divided into imaginary system desensitization and real system desensitization. The process of desensitization of imagination system is to let students relax their muscles, and the teacher makes an oral description to let students imagine, starting from the lowest anxiety level and imagining for 30 minutes. When they stop imagining, they will report their subjective anxiety level scores until they are not nervous or afraid, and then continue to enter the next anxiety level, thus gradually passing the last anxiety level. (See the training textbook "Mental Health and Psychological Counseling for Middle School Students") III. Case study 1. Case description Lu Mou: Male, a junior one student, with a very introverted personality and good grades. At school, I never dare to answer questions and associate with my classmates. I am as shy as a little girl and often stay in my seat alone. I once revealed my feelings in my composition, saying that I really wanted to play with my classmates and stand up and answer the teacher's questions loudly, but there was always a voice in my heart to stop him. Therefore, he always chose to escape and dared not do it, so that he didn't take the initiative to do anything later. 2, the correction method To be honest, before attending the training, I mainly did his ideological work by talking to him and told him some truth not to be afraid. He nodded, but the effect was not obvious, or he dared not take the initiative to answer the question. Since I participated in the junior high school psychological training of the national training program, I found that my previous method was ineffective because I didn't find the reason. So, referring to the theory of the above two textbooks, I made a systematic desensitization correction. Specific steps: (1) sorting out the classification table of anxiety According to the exercises in the training textbook, the classification table of communication fear is first formulated. Through comparative tests, it is found that Lu is highly extreme and anxious. The form is as follows: serial number, incident degree 1 at home, alone. On the way to school, I began to worry and think. 15 3 sitting in my seat, always worried about what others will say to me. What should I say? A classmate asked me to borrow something and I blushed. My classmates asked me to play, and I became very nervous and dared not go. After class, I sat in my seat and didn't dare to look at the teacher for fear that the teacher would ask me questions. The teacher asked me to answer this question. I was extremely nervous, sweating on my head, rubbing my hands unnaturally after class, thinking about my performance, hating myself more and blaming myself constantly. 95 9 was called out to speak by the class teacher, but he dared not speak. He was willing to die100 (2) to find out the reason, so he took the second step and did relaxation training. I called Lu to the office and told him that all his behaviors were caused by excessive tension, and I would constantly relax my emotions and teach him how to relax myself. Teach him according to the method in the training materials. The specific method is as follows: 1. Make a fist in your right hand and feel nervous; Relax and then feel relaxed. Say it again. 2. left hand clenched fist, experience; Relax and experience again. Say it again. 3. Bend the right forearm and contract the biceps; Relax and feel. Say it again. 4. Bend the left forearm and contract the biceps; Relax and feel. Say it again. 5. Lock your eyebrows, contract your forehead muscles and relax. Say it again. Close your eyes and relax. Say it again. Grit your teeth and relax. Say it again. The upper and lower palates are tense and relaxed; Press your tongue on the palate and relax. Say it again. Close your lips and relax. Say it again. 6. Try to tilt your head back, tighten your neck and relax. Try to put your chin against your chest, experience the tension in your throat and nape, and relax. Say it again. 7. Shrug your shoulders, try to keep your head down and relax. Say it again. Take a deep breath, arch your back at the same time, and hold your breath to keep nervous; Relax your chest and exhale slowly. Say it again. 8. contract the abdominal muscles, tighten them, and tighten them like a strong impact. Relax, repeat. 9. Tighten and relax the muscles of the right hip and right thigh. Say it again. 10. Right calf: Pull the right foot plate to the body and tighten the muscles of the right calf. Just relax。 Say it again. 1 1. Right foot: Bend the right toe and footboard as much as possible. Just relax。 Say it again. 12. Tighten and relax the muscles of the left hip and left thigh. Say it again. 13. Left calf: Pull the left foot board towards the body and tighten the muscles of the left calf. 14. Left foot: Bend the left toe and pedal as much as possible. Just relax。 Say it again. 15. After finishing, take three deep breaths and focus on the whole breathing process (that is, "intentional defense"). Let the feeling of deepening relaxation spread throughout the body and enjoy the feeling of relaxation and comfort. In the process of breathing relaxation, you can use some tips. For example, I am relaxed and calm, feel comfortable and relaxed, and my muscles are relaxed and soft, so that the tension will melt away and leave! 16. Pay attention to the muscles of all parts of the body to see if there are any nerve parts; If there is, then lead the sense of relaxation to the nerve part through intentional breathing. 17. resume normal breathing, open your eyes, and end. After that, he said thank you to me. I saw the effect from here, so I told him to do 1-2 times a day for 20 minutes each time. (3) Enter the desensitization process of the system. Now system desensitization is not suitable here. I mainly use the imagination system desensitization method. Let the students close their eyes. According to the anxiety level listed in the above table, let the students listen carefully to my description and imagine. Imagine one layer at a time. When they feel anxious, relax immediately, and so on. Imagine, relax, imagine again, and then relax. Experience that anxiety in imagination and deal with it in imagination at the same time. Over time, you will get used to this anxiety and find a way to deal with it. Until the anxiety stops. Summary: After a period of training (nearly three months), Lu's condition has obviously improved. First, there was a smile on his face, which I think should be a sign of confidence. Later, I interacted with my classmates on a small scale, and with several classmates who could talk to him, my study was more stable. Of course, there is still one problem that has not been solved, that is, having a heart-to-heart talk with the class teacher. I am still a little embarrassed. But I believe that with the progress of training, this problem should be overcome soon. 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