There is a limerick about eloquence routines:
There are shortcuts in life, and eloquence routines must be listened to.
Everything has its laws, and every grass and tree is a scene.
What is eloquence routine?
Eloquence routines, like psychology and sociology, belong to social science.
The routine here is a formula, which you can apply directly through study and memory. This is a method, a skill that you can use directly after you learn it. These formulas and methods can improve your communicative eloquence to the greatest extent in the shortest time!
Yes, we are so confident! Because of nearly 20 years' research and establishment, consulting nearly a thousand people's experience is the best endorsement of eloquence routine.
Before the formal explanation, it is necessary to say one of my opinions. I think everything has its own rules. As long as we understand and master these laws and apply them, I firmly believe that we can get twice the result with half the effort, ten times, a hundred times or even more. Charm and eloquence also have their own laws, both of which contain rich philosophy of life. As long as we master and skillfully use these laws, we can not only talk eloquently, but also do everything!
Because some friends read my article for the first time. In order to help these friends better understand the contents of these articles, I share the background of the formation of eloquence routines with you.
First of all, I would like to share with you the formula of eloquence routines, that is, the rules and routines of daily communication+the rules and routines of public speech and impromptu speech+good social etiquette+positive psychological quality and state.
Next, I will briefly explain the general content and formation process of each component, so as to facilitate the later mastery and application.
The first part is the rules and routine skills of daily communication, mainly talking about some practical skills when communicating with people in daily life, such as routine skills of humorous sentences; Conventional skills of euphemism; Conventional skills to deal with others' deliberate difficulties; Correctly criticize others' routine skills; Clever routine skills to comfort others; Conventional skills of asking for help; Euphemistically rejecting other people's routine skills; Clever routine skills to solve embarrassment and routine skills to observe and recognize people. Let's relax, talk to people and cut the crap!
These routine skills mainly come from my experience of consulting hundreds of eloquent people, all of whom are recognized as eloquent people in our lives. These people include ordinary people, of course, provincial and ministerial officials, senior military generals, and successful entrepreneurs with tens of billions of assets.
To be honest, I didn't expect to have the opportunity to consult so many senior officials at first, so how did I get in touch with them? I'll tell you a secret, that is, point to area. For example, at first I learned that President Zhang of Zhejiang Chamber of Commerce is very eloquent. After I have consulted President Zhang, I will inevitably ask, who else have the glib tongue around you? After the recommendation of President Zhang, I will definitely contact these people again. By analogy, there will be several people behind everyone, and finally a huge face will be formed, which must include high-level people.
Many people may also ask: Why will these people introduce you again? There are two main reasons. One is that I will share some routine rules and skills with each other while consulting each other, so that the other party feels that they have gained a lot and are eager to see me. Therefore, I am still a personal eloquence consultant for several provincial and ministerial officials and senior military generals. The second reason is that when I ask others for advice, I always bring a special gift, the price is appropriate (1000 yuan or so) but it has special significance. I will explain the skills in detail later.
In addition to consulting others, I also made a lot of experience notes on the good conversation effect in daily communication for more than ten years, as well as the study and research on linguistics during undergraduate and master's degrees, which are also indispensable.
Ok, let's share it here this time. Share the background and main contents of other parts of the eloquence routine next time. Thank you!
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