First, make friends with children. If you often lose your temper with your children, it is probably because you have always regarded yourself as a parent and feel qualified to educate your children. Therefore, the child made a little mistake, so I wanted to educate him and let him meet your majesty. If you want to get rid of this problem, you must first learn to make friends with your children. Only if you change your role into your child's friend, you won't blame him for any trivial matter, but your relationship with your child will be better. Many parents like to vent their anger on their children at home because of years of work depression, but this will deeply hurt their children's psychological growth, so parents should vent all their emotions outside, not at home.
Second, relax and think about losing your temper first. You are always impatient with your child, or it may be because you are too nervous about his growth. When our brain is always in a state of tension, we will become very anxious. If a child makes a little mistake, it will be magnified in our hearts, so we will lose our temper. If you want to correct your mistake, the next time you are angry, stay away from your children and sit alone in a quiet corner. Looking back on the seriousness of this matter, you will find that some things are not worth losing your temper, which can greatly reduce the frequency of your losing your temper with your children.
Parents should also communicate with their children more. Only by knowing the child's real thoughts can we think from his perspective. The age gap between parents and children is still relatively large, so the way of thinking is very different. As parents, we must first understand that children are solving problems.