What tricks do you need to learn to cultivate parent-child feelings easily without sleeping with your children? After three months of maternity leave, I will return to work, and my daughter Sisi needs grandpa's care. At that time, I thought about working to earn money, and I felt that my daughter was still young, as long as she was healthy.

I will video with my daughter during the period, but I will go home once a month. I don't know why, I always feel alienated from my daughter. I always feel that she is not close to myself. I always look for my grandmother when I hug her. At that moment, I remembered a friend's sentence, "The child will be close to whoever he sleeps with." I really didn't expect this kind of thing to happen to me one day.

After careful consideration, I chose to leave my job and accompany my daughter wholeheartedly. Childhood is very short, I really don't want to miss every moment of my daughter's growth, and I don't want to be so far away from her. It took me a long time to mend my relationship with my daughter. I gradually understand that high-quality companionship not only gains parent-child feelings, but also the quality of children.

First, why do you say, "Who does the child sleep with and who is closer to him?" Simply put, most babies feel insecure after birth. The longer they accompany and take care of him, the more psychologically dependent they become. If mom and dad are busy at work and don't have much time to take care of their children, then he naturally has a stronger connection with his close grandfather. Similarly, if the child is cared for and raised by the mother, the love between the child and the father is not so close.

As the child grows up, his concept is constantly improving. I used to sleep when I was full, but I often slept for a long time. People with me need to tell stories or play with them.

This process hides the value of children's happiness index. It is no exaggeration to say that a good time before going to bed is the best time for family education, and children can easily gain a sense of dependence and trust. The period from 6 months to 18 months is a dependent period for children, and they begin to gradually observe everything outside and get to know the people around them. As long as you accompany him with your heart and meet his psychological needs, you can become their closest person.

Therefore, "who the child sleeps with, who is closer to" is not an expression, and this statement may have some truth. At least many parents have verified the truth of this sentence with their own practical actions.

Of course, the specific situation of each family is different. If you can, who doesn't want to be with your child and watch him grow up day by day? But sometimes reality doesn't allow it. Most parents in a family have to work, and the time spent with their children is numbered.

At this time, we should know how to make full use of time scientifically and reasonably. Compared with these left-behind children, the time spent with them every day is very short, which is really super lucky. What needs to be done is to integrate love into life, into nuances, and let children gradually experience it.

Second, learn three tricks, even if you don't sleep with your child, you can easily cultivate parent-child feelings. 1. Live in peace with children and look at problems from their perspective. In order to make their children become excellent, many parents can say "do whatever it takes", all kinds of coercion and squeezing, and wish they could not spend all their time on learning and training. In the end, not only did the child not become excellent, but the parent-child communication was also more extreme.

If parents can think and look at things from their children's point of view and maintain a United front with their children, they firmly believe that the conclusion will be very different. Every personal hobby is based on love for children, and they will never be forced to pay attention to their feelings. Of course, parent-child communication is also good.

2. High-quality companionship has nothing to do with the length of time. Many parents are biased against "waiting". They always feel that being with children is the true meaning of waiting. But in fact, companionship and the length of time have no direct impact, and quality is more important. Being with children and doing one thing wholeheartedly will meet the needs of high-quality companionship.

Cherish all the spare time, as long as it is between you and your child, every detail is waiting for you. When taking a bath, don't patronize them, but play with the children; When telling a story, don't read it to him. Instead, try role-playing games and story retelling.

3. Respect your child's wishes and trust enough to communicate with others. Recognition and respect are basic. Even if there are age differences in parent-child communication, we should pay attention to these two key points. Parents should give them enough recognition and attention when they clearly put forward their own views. Even if the idea is not perfect, children should be educated to try and practice and prove right and wrong by themselves.

It's simple: as long as the baby needs it, mom and dad will always be behind, providing strong support and maintenance for the baby. The distance between everything and nature is a good distance for children. When there is no danger, parents will give their children a lot of spiritual belonging behind their backs; When there is danger, mom and dad will always protect their children for the first time.

Write at the end: life should go on, children should be taken good care of, and life for adults is not easy. Therefore, grasp the fragmentation time, cherish the days with children, and don't leave regrets.