First of all, teachers should pay attention to etiquette.
There are countless rules and regulations on the surface of etiquette, but its fundamental purpose is to make the world a place full of fun and approachable. "Teacher's Etiquette" plays an important role in demonstrating and influencing the formation of students' values and aesthetics. Teachers' etiquette is based on teachers' work characteristics and communication needs, and it is to serve education and teaching and improve the overall quality of running schools. In society, we should create a good image of campus teachers, thus bringing positive influence to people around us.
Second, the principle of etiquette.
What are the principles of etiquette? There are seven main aspects, the first is "the law has been", which is the basis and starting point of etiquette. It mainly refers to self-requirement, self-restraint, self-control, self-comparison, self-reflection and self-restraint. The second is "respect for others", which is the focus and core of etiquette and the most important way to treat others. Respect for others will always exist. You can't hurt the dignity of others, let alone insult their personality. If you master this, you will master the soul of etiquette. The third is "tolerance", which requires both being strict with oneself and being lenient with others. Be more tolerant, considerate and understanding of others, not too demanding. The fourth is "equality", which mainly refers to treating all communication objects equally and giving the same degree of courtesy. We can't favor one over the other because of the differences in age, gender, race, culture, identity, wealth and close relationship, but we can adopt different specific methods according to different communication objects. Fifth is "sincerity". Be honest, match words with deeds, and be what you seem. Only in this way, the respect and friendliness shown to the communicative object when using etiquette will be better understood and accepted by the other party. The sixth is the "golden mean", we must pay attention to skills and norms, especially to grasp the sense of proportion and be serious and decent. Seventh, "do as the Romans do." Because of the different national conditions, nationalities and cultural backgrounds, we must do as the Romans do, which is consistent with the customary practice of most people. Don't be arrogant and self-righteous
Third, the composition of the perfect image
A person's perfect image mainly includes talking, perfect makeup, image and manners, going to dinner and taking a bus. People's first impression can be established immediately within the first 30 seconds of meeting people, of which 55% comes from appearance (clothing, makeup and hairstyle), 38% comes from manners (manners, gestures, eyes and expressions) and 7% comes from language (speech content). A dean of University College London (UCL) recalled the recruitment of a female doctor from China: From the moment she entered the door, I felt that she was the one I longed for. She exudes a certain spirit, which is even more charming because of her solemn appearance. Because only people with high literacy, credibility, integrity and diligence have such light. Yes, she is by far the best lecturer in the college. From this story, we can see that the inside and the outside are harmonious and unified, and the perfect image is the high unity of the outside and the inside.
Fourth, the content of specific etiquette.
The content of specific etiquette includes many aspects, and the following points are emphasized here:
The first is dress etiquette.
Men's clothing, when wearing a suit, can not be more than three colors, shoes, belts, briefcases are the same color, black is the first choice; The collar of a shirt is higher than the collar of a suit (two exposed whites) to avoid revealing the hem of the shirt; The chest bag and two side bags are decorative bags with little or no contents, and the two inner bags are practical bags. Dark suit is elegant and solemn, suitable for all occasions, remember to keep it clean and flat. The trousers are in good shape, with the bottom reaching the instep and covering the back edge of the shoes. It is advisable to insert one hand at the waist, and the color and texture are consistent with the coat.
Women's shoes can be worn in the style of front bag and back bag or front bag and back dew. It's best to wear ship-shaped monochrome shoes, which match with clothes and are clean and neat. No more than 3 accessories, which should be in harmony with clothing, body appearance and environment, and should be matched with each other; Nails are clean, not painted with strange colors, and the length is convenient for work; Don't tie your hair, and don't dye it very brightly.
Teachers attending formal parties, male teachers should wear dark tunic suits and suits, and female teachers should wear cheongsam, dresses or suits.
The second is makeup etiquette.
The purpose of makeup is to beautify oneself and express the importance to others. In daily work, we should draw simple makeup, but we should pay attention to the following points: First, it is elegant. It's just an understatement, which makes the other party think that we just use lipstick and can't see any other traces of modification. Do not draw thick eyeliner, do not use perfume cosmetics with strong fragrance, showing a natural, generous and unpretentious effect. The second is simplicity. If the facial skin is rough or the face is unhealthy or flawed, you need to adjust the skin color with foundation to cover up the flaws and make the skin look delicate, moist and healthy. Trim your eyebrows and tidy up your messy eyebrows. If the eyebrows are thin and light, trace them gently with an eyebrow pencil. If it is not complete, you can fill your mouth with eyebrow powder. Moisturize your lips and apply lipstick. The third is solemn. Make-up is fashionable every year, but fashionable things may not be suitable for anyone, so try fashion carefully. If you blindly pursue fashion, regardless of the teacher's identity and surrounding environment, it is easy to leave an indecent or even frivolous impression. A lot of makeup is not suitable for the workplace. The fourth is to avoid shortcomings. Light makeup is generally to foster strengths and avoid weaknesses. For example, don't exaggerate the confident part of your face through makeup, which will give people a very flamboyant feeling. It is a better choice to show your advantages appropriately. Avoiding shortcomings is to make up for the dissatisfied part of your face through makeup, so as to achieve beautification, naturalness and harmony.
The third is manners and etiquette.
Etiquette is body language, which mainly refers to people's actions and manners. The purpose of shaping manners is to create a beautiful and high-quality professional image. It mainly includes body posture, expression, gestures and common related professional etiquette. The following aspects are sorted out:
1. Stand up straight, relax and be natural. The posture that teachers show most in front of students is standing. Good standing posture can set off good bearing and chic demeanor. The basic requirements of standing posture are to raise your head, look straight at your eyes, smile, lengthen the distance between your chest and abdomen, let your arms droop naturally, or put them in front of your abdomen. Legs erect, men naturally line up, and women's knees are close together.
2. Walking posture should be calm, steady, light and confident. Walking posture's basic requirements are that his upper body is upright, his stride is even, his pace is steady and rhythmic, and he can't swagger or sway from side to side. The key to the beauty of women's gait is to step on the catwalk, that is, the footprints form a straight line, graceful and swaying. Male gait focuses on rhythm and stride, which embodies fullness and masculinity.
When walking, keep your upper body straight, keep your shoulders steady, swing your arms naturally, and keep your gait steady. Even pace and smooth rhythm will make people look full of energy and vitality. The size of the stride should be adjusted according to height, dress and occasion. When women wear skirts, cheongsam or high heels, their stride is smaller. On the contrary, when wearing casual pants, the stride can be larger, highlighting the beauty and liveliness of the wearer.
3. Sit upright, elegant and natural. The basic requirements of sitting posture are dignified, steady and natural, and the sitting posture is slightly light and slow. Go to the front of the seat, turn around, step back with your right foot, keep up with your left foot, and then sit down gently, sitting in two-thirds of the stool. The daily sitting posture should be relaxed and civilized, and the sitting posture at the desk should be elegant and correct.
3. Squat posture. The key point of correct squatting posture is that if you hold something with your right hand, you can go to the left of the thing first, and then squat down after your right foot retreats half a step. Keep your back straight, and your hips must be crouched down to avoid bending over your hips. A man's legs can leave a proper gap, and a woman's legs should be tight. Pay more attention when wearing cheongsam or short skirt to avoid embarrassment.
4. Gestures. Gestures are natural, moderate in strength, without exaggeration or affectation; Determine the size of the gesture according to the diagram. If you are petite, you should enlarge your posture. When you don't gesture, your hands can naturally hang down at your sides; Gestures should be varied, but not too frequent, so as not to dazzle students; Teachers should avoid their habitual little moves.
5. expression. Facial expressions convey information mainly through eye contact and smiling. Eyes are the windows of the soul, and the time of eye contact between people usually accounts for 30-60% of the communication time. Within about three seconds at a time. A minute of laughter can produce five minutes of relaxation.
The fourth is the etiquette of Chinese food.
I remember a saying "You are tasting food, and others are tasting you". Therefore, when you go to eat, you should arrive on time, take the initiative to say hello, sit gracefully, eat properly, and leave in turn. We should pay attention to the skill of ordering food. Generally speaking, guests will be invited to choose food first. If the guest is modest, the host need not be too reluctant. The process of ordering food should be fast. Ask the guests if they have any taboos, and ask them if they like key dishes and flavored dishes. Generally, the main course is one or two more than the guests, accompanied by a cold dish or soup. Different types of dishes should be served together, as well as greasy and light dishes. Order one or two high-end and distinctive dishes. It's not necessary for every dish to be expensive. At the same time, we should pay attention to the rules of eating, so that the dishes are not sandwiched and the toast is not advised.
The fifth is reception etiquette.
First introduce the top leaders, and then introduce them in turn; Tour guide, walk in front of the guests, go upstairs and downstairs are walking in front of the guests, the distance is one or two steps. Don't walk too fast; When guests visit, they should take the initiative to stand up from their seats, guide them into the living room or public reception area, and provide them with drinks. If you are talking in your own seat, be careful not to speak too loudly, so as not to affect colleagues around you. Remember, always smile.
The sixth is conversation etiquette.
The attitude of conversation is very important to the effect of conversation. In conversation, teachers' correct attitude should be sincere, simple, enthusiastic and steady, while false arrogance and indifference are bad attitudes. When you speak, you should use the tone of seeking, asking and discussing, which will not only arouse the goodwill of the other party and make them happy to talk with you, but also create a trusting and cordial atmosphere and lay a good foundation for the success of the conversation.
Seventh, class etiquette.
Enter the lecture site in advance, prepare for the lecture, and choose a seat that will not affect the class; Be quiet and attentive in class, take notes carefully, don't whisper, don't comment, don't leave class for no reason, and don't do anything unrelated to class. ,
Eight is assembly etiquette.
Observe the meeting discipline, take a seat at the designated position, be punctual and orderly, and do not leave halfway; Turn off communication tools, listen carefully, take notes carefully, don't read newspapers and magazines, and don't do anything unrelated to the meeting; Respect the speaker and give warm applause; Don't bring an umbrella for outdoor parties. At the same time, we should pay attention to correct sitting posture, infect and educate students with our own standardized etiquette, and avoid some indecent actions such as whispering, cutting nails, yawning, pulling out ears and digging holes.
Nine is telephone etiquette.
Telephone etiquette mainly focuses on the following aspects: 1. Smile at yourself before calling. In the workplace, pay attention to the beginning and end of the phone, answer the phone politely, smile, articulate clearly and speak moderately. 2. Write a memo before calling. List the things and contents to be explained to each other in order in the notebook, and check whether there are any omissions one by one. 3. Prepare the documents and related materials needed during the call, as well as pens and notebooks for recording at any time, and develop good recording habits. 4. If you need to talk to relevant personnel, you should politely ask the other party to page or convey. 5. If the content of informing the other party is complicated, take the initiative to remind the other party to make records. 6. Answer and make personal calls for no more than three minutes, and try to arrange personal affairs after work.
This is the second time that Yao Yao has given us a lesson. For the first time, she was thin, fashionable and beautiful. This time, because she is pregnant for seven months, she gained a lot of weight. Although he is a little fat, Mr. Wang's dress is very decent and his makeup is also very decent. The most important thing is to make people look comfortable. Her dress makeup, manners and manners, and etiquette during lectures gave us a live version of etiquette class. A teacher who pays attention to etiquette in action is the best demonstration in etiquette class.
I hope that from now on, we will all be teachers who study both inside and outside and pursue a good image. Only when you live high can you live elegantly and wonderfully!
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