Infidelity and Playboy: love rat may frequently have an affair with other women and cheat on anyone.
Words differ from deeds: you may make a promise, but you don't actually act on it, and your words differ from deeds.
Negative values: love rat may have a negative and disrespectful attitude and show irresponsible behavior.
Emotional abuse: Use emotional abuse to manipulate, control or threaten you, making you feel confused and uneasy.
Use you: They may only come to you when they need it, regardless of your feelings, needs or happiness.
Disrespect for boundaries: love rat may not respect your personal space, time and privacy and interfere excessively in your life.
Lies and concealment: They may often lie or conceal facts, which makes you feel distrustful and confused.
Irresponsible speech and behavior: love rat may show irresponsible, naive or immature behavior.
Indifference: They may be indifferent to your feelings and needs and unwilling to support you.
Financial problems: love rat may be economically irresponsible and even use your property.
Social vanity: They may pay too much attention to social media and seek recognition from the outside world instead of really caring about you.
Avoid problems: when encountering difficulties or contradictions, you may avoid problems and are unwilling to actively solve them.
The most important thing is to trust your intuition and feelings. If you feel uncomfortable, uneasy or hurt when dealing with this man, this may be a warning signal. Don't ignore these signs and protect your feelings and rights. Communicate with trusted friends, family members or professional consultants for support and advice.