1, think before you speak.

When we communicate with people, we should try to think about whether it is appropriate to say this before speaking, and don't think about it without thinking. What we say often gives people a bad feeling. Run through your mind quickly every time you speak, which will not only help you express what you want to express better, but also allow you to examine whether your words are appropriate and will hurt others' self-esteem.

2. Keep silent appropriately.

When we encounter questions that we don't understand, don't pretend to understand and talk endlessly, but learn to keep silent and let the other side talk more. In order to avoid being in an awkward position because of saying the wrong thing.

3. Talk more about each other and less about yourself.

When communicating with others, everyone likes to talk about things they are interested in, and everyone likes to talk about their own things. So we must first learn to understand each other, not ourselves.

4. Learn to compliment each other's questions.

Praise is a virtue and a sign of recognition. When communicating with others, if we can all praise their opinions, it will undoubtedly give each other a sense of respect and honor. The other party will definitely like this feeling, and at the same time, the other party will have a new understanding of you, which will further promote your friendship.

5. Learn to empathize.

People should learn to put themselves in each other's shoes and think from each other's standpoint, so as to understand each other more. When we all know how to put ourselves in each other's shoes, our tolerance will be improved, and there will be no unpleasant chat scenes because of some trivial things.

6. Respect the privacy of others.

Everyone has their own privacy and doesn't want others to know. When talking with others, try to avoid asking others about their privacy. Don't ask what others don't want to say. Learn to respect the privacy of others.

7. Learn to listen.

Recognize a sentence, "the listening ear is pious, and the listening heart is sensitive." With a listening ear and a willing heart, you will have loyal friends. "

8. Don't blame others.

You should never blame others, because it is useless to blame, just as it is useless to complain. Blaming others will only lead your relationship to a dead end, and the more you make trouble, the more rigid it will be. So when things happen, let yourself have a good attitude and face them positively instead of blaming others.