1 Our school is a nine-year compulsory school. We pay special attention to the construction of parents' schools, conscientiously implement the "Quality Project for Parents' Education", widely popularize the knowledge of family education, guide the methods of educating children, keep close contact between schools and parents, and earnestly regard parents' schools as an important position for schools to implement quality education.
First, improve organizational construction, close contact between home and school, and do a good job in children's education.
1, set up a parent school leadership parent school committee.
In order to carry out the work of parent school and implement it effectively, the school has established the school affairs Committee of parent school, with the principal as the principal and the vice president of moral education as the vice president of parent school. The leadership has a clear division of labor, and the responsibility lies with people, and strive to achieve a planned, targeted, task-oriented, active and effective work.
2. Improve various rules and regulations.
In our work, we follow the rules and carry them out. We have established and gradually improved various systems of parent school management, including parent school management system, parent school work system, parent Committee charter and so on. In the implementation of the system, there should be organization, leadership, planning, teaching materials, activities and teachers. At the same time, it is included in the school work plan, school development plan and class teacher assessment to further promote and standardize the work of parents' schools.
3. Home and school are closely linked.
In the first week of registration, each class will file all kinds of information about parents, such as telephone number, work unit, address, position, family members, places where parents often go, etc. At the same time, all class teachers are required to announce their personal and academic office telephone numbers to parents, strengthen communication between schools and families, and solve problems at any time.
With the development and smoothness of modern communication, teachers often use telephone contact instead of home visits, but telephone can never replace face-to-face communication, especially among students in our school, whose parents go out to work. This kind of contact does more harm than good to children's education. Therefore, the school requires that each class teacher's home visit rate should reach more than 90% every semester. For example, a fourth-grade student in our school, his parents divorced, his father worked outside, his children lived with grandparents at home, and his children often didn't come to class. Because of their love, his grandparents seldom discipline him. After many visits by teachers and careful explanation and persuasion, I finally got the support of my grandparents and insisted on sending my grandson to school. Our school also requires teachers to conduct home visits in a friendly and polite tone, fill in the registration form of home visits, and collect students' cases after home visits.
Second, carry out various activities in a planned way.
Establish a scientific education concept in the new era, carefully design activities, reasonably arrange activities, fully carry out activities, and enrich the content of family education with colorful modern activities.
1, training activities. First of all, we should establish a high-quality teaching team. To this end, our school selects excellent teachers with rich teaching experience and prestige from the team of head teachers, who are willing to contribute and engage in the work of parents' schools. By the principal and the secretary personally training.
2. We follow three principles when communicating with parents:
(1), respect the principle of parents, teach in a tone of mutual trust, cooperate sincerely, discuss and respect parents sincerely, make parents willing to accept and improve improper education methods, and cooperate and support school work more actively.
(2) Principle of differential treatment: In the content, methods and methods of parents' school education, we should give full consideration to different types of families and children, teach students in accordance with their aptitude, and carry out targeted work, so that every parent can be improved to varying degrees.
(3), the principle of two-way feedback, change the one-way publicity of the school into two-way communication between home and school, not only between home and school.
To publicize children's information on science education, we should also try our best to collect feedback from parents and strengthen the mutual promotion and cooperation between home and school education. To this end, we have specially set up? Principal's mailbox? Collect parents' opinions and suggestions.
3. The interactive channels of our home school are:
(1) Parent-teacher meeting, with class as the unit, at least 1 time per semester. .
(2) Parents' forum, divided into classes and irregular. When problems are found, parents are invited to communicate with one or more schools.
③ Home-school tabloid: Every semester, the school sends a home-school tabloid to every student irregularly, informing the recent work of the school and the focus of the school, and reminding parents of safety and health precautions.
At the end of each semester, a letter to parents will be sent to each student to remind parents of the schedule of children's work and rest during the winter and summer vacations, the potential safety hazards, and the educational ideas that parents should have during the winter and summer vacations.
⑤ Conduct home visits and give specific guidance on family education.
⑥. Distribute forms for soliciting parents' opinions, including the overall work of the school, the work of the class teacher, the teaching situation of teachers, and the performance of students at home.
4. In order to set a typical example, actively promote the successful home-school education experience and learn from each other. Every semester, our school will hold two exchange meetings.
One is the class teacher's work experience exchange meeting, and the other is the class education experience exchange meeting with the parent-teacher meeting as the unit. Every experience exchange meeting has benefited the home school a lot, especially when parents who have successfully taught their children tell their own secret recipes, which can arouse parents' * * * voices and set off a heated discussion, thus achieving their children's * * * knowledge.
In the future work, it is necessary to strengthen the guidance of parents, improve their ability to educate their children, and improve their understanding of family education and work support.
I am the parent of Class Five XXX, and I am very happy to communicate with you. My child has been a monitor for several years. At school, she is the teacher's right-hand man. At home, she is a good girl, sensible, diligent, independent and helpful. Now, I will talk to you about how I educate my children at home. Family is children's first school, parents are children's first teachers, and they are also role models for children to learn during their growth, so good family education plays a vital role in children's life. When children were born, I attached great importance to their family education. Of course, I don't just teach children to recite a few Tang poems, read a few children's songs and know a few Chinese characters, but teach them the truth and skills of being a man, starting from bit by bit in life.
(A) The first is to create a good family environment.
Family harmony is very important for children's growth. Love between family members will help children learn tolerance, understanding, love, love others and love themselves. Without the care of family, children will become more and more indifferent and selfish. I have seen many cases, such as children's depravity, numbness and so on, all because the family lacks love. Imagine a child who doesn't even love his parents and family, will he still care about strangers? Therefore, we must create a warm and harmonious family life for our children and let them live a happy and worry-free life.
(2) Parents should set an example.
In family education, parents are role models for children, and their words and deeds will have a great influence on children inadvertently. Therefore, when parents ask their children to be polite and respect others, can they think about whether they have done so? I remember once, when the child made a mistake, I severely reprimanded her and said some harsh words, saying that I would hit you if you did that again. I didn't think there was a problem at first, but later she actually learned this sentence and kept saying that I hit you. This makes me regret and feel sad. I regret that I shouldn't have said this to my children before. Sadly, my child said this to his mother. Therefore, when children can still correct, we parents must be cautious and think twice about our every move. No matter how angry you are, think about what effect I will have on the children.
(3) Appropriate rewards and punishments, seeking truth from facts, children losing their temper, cold treatment.
If the child is right, we should praise him positively. If the child is wrong, we should correct him in time. Reward and punishment should be measured, and enough is enough. Although education experts now advocate praising children more, I think this is another matter because I have personal experience. It is wrong for children to play with building blocks when they are young, but I think she praised and encouraged her the first time she played, hoping to promote her.
Progress, the result is just the opposite, but it makes her make mistakes every time and becomes particularly stubborn. No matter what I said, she still wouldn't listen or accept it, which made me feel that if I corrected her the first time, maybe this wouldn't happen. Therefore, I insist that parents should seek truth from facts when praising their children, and should not praise them blindly. Of course, the criticism is more moderate. If you criticize too much, or even hit your child, your child will gradually become rebellious. The child did something wrong, but still insisted on using reason to persuade him that he could not turn over the old account. The most important thing is that what you say can make children understand and listen. In the past, when the child did something wrong, I would tell her a lot of truth. As a result, she still went her own way. Later, I listened to the expert's advice to make what you said more acceptable to children, and don't say some vague truth. And when the child loses his temper willfully, she doesn't listen to anything you say, so my approach is to treat it coldly and let the child make trouble by himself. Parents can look on coldly. When the child feels that crying is meaningless, we will talk to her when she calms down, which will make her more acceptable. If she keeps telling her this and that when she loses her temper, it will only aggravate the situation.
Let children learn to respect others.
Let children learn to respect others. First of all, parents should learn to respect their children. This is my consistent insistence. Some people may say what such a young child can think, but it is not. Although the child is young, she is still an individual, and she has thoughts, so we should respect her more.
(5) Let children learn their own things as soon as possible, do it themselves, and cultivate their labor habits.
When the child just learned to sit, we had put her on the stool to have dinner with her family. Although she couldn't eat by herself at that time, we insisted that she see how adults eat, so the child slowly learned to eat by himself and learned to eat with chopsticks very early. As long as she can do anything at home, she insists on doing it herself, such as sweeping the floor, washing vegetables, taking chopsticks, moving stools and so on. Many parents think that children can do something at such a young age, and the more they help, the more busy they are. In fact, it is certain that they can't do well, but as long as she participates, if you always stop her from working, over time she will feel that my mother doesn't need me and is no longer willing to do it. Moreover, the cultivation of work habits will make her cherish the fruits of other people's labor more, such as not putting toys around or littering.
(6) Create a learning environment for children and cultivate their study habits.
At one time, the family watched more TV and the children watched more TV. Then I thought I couldn't do this anymore. So now my family has learned to read, and even if they don't read, children have learned to read. As the saying goes, it is better to go to Wan Li Road than to study in thousands of books, so I will take my children out for a walk whenever I have time. Learning knowledge in nature is more acceptable to my children.
7) Cultivate children's independent personality and don't spoil them.
In life, I always cultivate my child's independence intentionally or unintentionally, but I don't spoil her too much. For example, if a child falls, I never help her up. I always encourage her to fall down and get up, and then pat off the dirty things on her body. Even if it is broken, it will not show its love. Just don't say anything to her. So now, no matter what difficulties children encounter, they can always face them bravely.
The above is my family education experience. Again, every child is an independent individual, so every child has his own unique personality. There is no universal education, only every parent keeps exploring and practicing in family education. Some people say that children are the second life of parents, and parents grow up in the process of children's growth. Let's grow up with them!
Typical experience materials of family education Article 3 Every child will have his strong points. My child, Li xx, has excellent academic performance in school education and has made great progress in all aspects. Thanks to the hard work of the teachers and the help and good influence of the students. In children's family education, we believe that the following aspects should be done well:
1. Encourage children and guide their interest in learning.
Learning is a hard work, but also an interesting thing. My child's intelligence is very average, and sometimes he will listen to some negative language, such as: it's so difficult, I can't learn, I won't participate, I can't do well, and others will laugh at me. We told her many stories about the growth of celebrities and asked her what she wanted to be when she grew up. He said: To be a doctor and go to Disneyland in America, we told her that it requires a lot of knowledge. Chinese and mathematics are the foundation. What should we do if we can't speak a foreign language? So she felt that she had to study to realize her wish. At the same time, in the process of learning, we tried to apply the content of learning to life and games, which made her feel a lot of fun. Every time she makes a little progress, we will praise her: good performance! Great progress! What a great idea! Great imagination! You can be a teacher for your parents! Wait, make her happy and have a sense of accomplishment. If you don't do well enough, I will encourage her to say: I believe I will do better next time. ?
2. Actively cooperate with schools to cultivate children's good study habits.
According to the relevant requirements of the school and the arrangement of the school, we should also do a good job in children's moral, intellectual and physical education. We will strictly supervise and assist the child to finish her homework, carefully check the child's completion, help her check for leaks and fill gaps, explain what she doesn't understand, and let her strengthen the correction of mistakes. Share the teacher's praise with your child and tell her to make persistent efforts; Analyze the reasons for poor grades with your child and tell her why it is not good and what to do in the future. Playfulness is a child's nature, which requires supervision and guidance, so that children can develop good study habits such as strictly observing school rules and regulations, paying attention to lectures in class, reviewing carefully after class, finishing homework seriously, thinking independently, asking questions diligently and mastering what they have learned firmly.
3. Try every means to stimulate pupils' interest in learning and change passive learning into active learning.
As we all know, children are active and playful by nature. As education experts say, as long as you are interested in one thing, you will really study hard, do it seriously and do it consciously. Otherwise, they won't do things that they are not interested in, and it won't work to drive ducks on children. Only by being good at guiding children and stimulating their interest in learning can children learn more. Usually we use our knowledge and imagination to make up some interesting stories or games to stimulate their interest in learning.