For children, children with low emotional intelligence are usually manifested as: the level is in the nest, the words are inconsistent, they lose their cool, they only pay attention to their own feelings, they like to provoke others' pain, they don't listen to others' suggestions, they care too much about others' evaluation of themselves, and so on. For parents, the most direct manifestation of EQ lower than EQ is that the way of speaking is simple, direct and rude, and the relationship between father and son is poor.

The other is too inclined to children. No matter what mistakes children make, they don't educate and correct them. They think children are very young and ignorant. In this way, children will have an illusion that everything they do is right. They will also form the habit of being selfish and indifferent, and they will never consider the influence of their actions on others. This kind of performance is also a manifestation of low emotional intelligence. Parents will be the first teachers for children to grow up. To cultivate children's emotional intelligence, we should not only teach children, but also cultivate parent-child relationship with them, so as to communicate with them better.

Read with children, such as Arthur Boy, the first set of children's growth stories from a psychological point of view. If you search for a list of books on Dangdang, similar EQ books will appear. The research on EQ abroad started very early. You can buy some systematically. Take part in EQ training or buy videos, such as Buck EQ training, and then come to study Chinese studies. The famous books they read can train their memory and lay a good foundation for high schools in China. But their after-sales practice is very suitable for cultivating emotional intelligence.

In order to get children's approval, they don't always like driving and teaching children. There is an education called "Enough". Don't always interrupt your child's behavior, even criticize and scold. Be fair and teach children something that is obviously understandable. Teach them to find the right answer and give you the greatest imagination.