First, you can do whatever you want in small things, but you must be cautious in big things.
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Many post-90s parents always seem so unreliable when taking care of their children, but in fact, as parents, they are often timid and cautious. They will make fun of their children, but when they encounter many principled problems, they will also show their due caution and responsibility as parents. They like to make fun of their children, all within the safe and controllable range.
We often say that children should be rough, so that they can grow sturdily, and these wonderful and different ways of parents taking care of their children after 90 are also rough patterns in the new era. When we look at things, we should not only see what others show, but also explore the truth behind them. Perhaps what is unreliable is reliable preparation and proper protection.
Second, a relaxed environment can cultivate children's independence.
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Many people find that post-90s parents are often "indifferent" when taking care of their children. They always let their children play by themselves, and as parents, they do their own things, whether the children are bored or not. But in fact, this is also a kind of wisdom to let go. Many parents love their children, but they just don't know how to let go.
In fact, when children can play by themselves and don't cry, parents can let them play by themselves and don't interrupt their personal world at will. This will help to cultivate children's concentration and personal independence, let children learn to play by themselves, and let children grow up without relying solely on their parents.
Third, equality can make children grow up healthily.
The relationship between parents and children in China has always been hierarchical. Children are like parents' possessions and accessories, and they are required to obey. Parents naturally assume the responsibility of raising, educating and doting on their children when they are young, but the relationship between them is more unequal.
Therefore, in the process of children's growth, in order to make their lives healthier and their personality thoughts more developed, it is necessary to establish an equal parent-child relationship. Children don't have to submit to their parents, and parents don't have to look down on them, so that children can grow up healthier.