As the saying goes, "Zhu Jin is red, but Mo Xi is black". Parents hope that their children can make friends with good children and learn more in a good circle of friends. But parents can't control what kind of friends their children make, but many children don't.
Parents like to make friends with "bad children", which gives them a headache.
1. Guide children to make friends correctly.
In theory, keeping children's freedom of making friends is respect for children; Experience,
It is not good to interfere with children's friendship by force, sometimes it is counterproductive, but it encourages children.
Rebellious psychology, however, the so-called freedom is a relative thing, respect children.
Freedom to make friends cannot be turned into laissez-faire. Freedom is never what dad should do.
Mom saves time. It is the responsibility of parents to guide their children to make friends. We should learn how to guide them, not intervene by force.
2. The correct standard for children to make friends.
To guide children to make friends, parents must recognize themselves.
What kind of friends does a child need and what kind of friends will have a negative impact on him?
A correct standard. Of course, standards are not based on your hobbies, such as
For example, "I really can't stand children making friends with children with poor grades" and "I don't want children."
The idea of "making friends with children who are too outgoing" is disrespectful to children.
The mistake of making friends.
So, how to judge Mengbao's domestic partners? This is not a nanny problem.
Obedience does not depend on which child gets the best grades. The standard should be "children"
Do your friends have any influence on the positive development of your child's personality? ".
3. Influential friends and partners: correct each other's personality.