Li Li, who lives in Qinhuangdao, has lived like a year these days, because she just gave birth to a child and is still in confinement. She was shut up at home all day, and there were many uncomfortable places, which was very difficult.
What is even more embarrassing for Lili is that her mother-in-law came to serve the next month. Because she doesn't live together at ordinary times, it is inevitable that there are differences on many things, and her mother-in-law's cooking is completely unaccustomed. Although she pays great attention to nutrition in the next month, it is difficult for Lili to swallow broth and eggs. She just wants to feel full.
Because of her proximity, Lili's mother often takes care of her. Whenever this time, I feel that Li is a little comfortable and has a good meal.
On the tenth day of confinement, Lili and her mother-in-law were a little unhappy, so Lili called her mother and asked her brother to take her home, but her mother refused. Li Li suddenly felt more sad and depressed.
Last night, my mother-in-law came home to have something to do, so Lili's mother came to take care of it. Seeing her sad appearance, mother and Lili chatted. Mom said it was not that she didn't want Lili to go home, but that she lived with Lili's sister-in-law, who also had children. Lili went back to live, and her mother was afraid that her sister-in-law would be reluctant. After all, her aunt and sister-in-law have many contradictions, and it will be very uncomfortable for her mother to be caught in the middle.
After listening to her mother's words, Li Li suddenly felt a little impulsive at first. Looking at her mother's embarrassment, Li Li and her mother repeatedly apologized. Her mother also said that she would come and take care of her every day and let her spend the rest of the month happily.
In fact, there is a saying that going back to your mother's house for confinement will affect your fortune. In fact, these are all feudal ideas. I really don't recommend going back to my mother's house for confinement. The main reasons are as follows.
For those who have married brothers at home and live with their parents, it is better not to go home for confinement. Because although it is a maiden's family but also a sister-in-law's family, there is no blood relationship between aunts, and many things are easy to disagree. Going back to my mother's house for confinement is equivalent to disturbing people's lives, and many things will be very inconvenient. Moreover, going back to my mother's house for confinement will inevitably lead my mother to take care of herself more, cause her sister-in-law's dissatisfaction, and make her situation more difficult, so try not to go home and give her trouble.
Secondly, the maternal body is still in a very fragile stage just after giving birth to a child, which is not suitable for tossing back and forth. Besides, everything for children is at home. Going to my parents' house is like moving, but something is inevitably missing. If they didn't use it at that time, they would be more anxious. It's best to be comfortable in your own home, and it's not too late to go to your parents' home when your child is better and more stable.
Finally, during the second month, Bao Dad should get involved, take care of his wife and children, and don't let him stand by and let him feel his wife's difficulties intuitively, which will help stimulate his sense of responsibility and better participate in the activities of taking care of the baby and helping with housework in the future. If you go back to your mother's house to have a confinement, it will be inconvenient for Baoda to live and can't take good care of it, so you should rest at home and have a confinement and enjoy the careful care from Baoda!
Whether she is locked in her mother's house or grandma's house, the most important thing is that her mother should have a sunny heart. How to keep her mood comfortable during confinement?
If possible, you can ask for a new moon. After all, I have received professional training and know how to care for pregnant women and newborns scientifically, so that pregnant women can live more comfortably in the second month and avoid many contradictions.
Of course, mothers at home are not always depressed and manic. They should go to the fields properly, listen to more music, read some interesting books, and learn more about the nursing knowledge of newborns, so as not to be in a hurry and keep a good mood.
The understanding of family members in this period is also the key to keep the parturient cheerful, which requires Bao Da to pay more patience to take care of and understand his wife. The care of family members is the most critical factor to keep pregnant women happy.
Confinement is a woman's second life, and whether it can be maintained is related to her future health. No matter where you are locked up, you should put your own physical safety first. Only by taking good care of her body can she take better care of her children and live a better life in the future!