But after laughing, think about it carefully, and think that this seemingly joke is also very reasonable.
This male colleague is about my age, but one or two years older than me. He and I are "old partners" who have worked in the same office for more than ten years. At work, he is conscientious, practical and willing to work hard and strive for the upper reaches. In life, he is simple and optimistic, considerate and has a wide range of hobbies, such as swimming, calligraphy, music and writing.
People who come into contact with him for the first time will soon be infected by his approachable and gentle smile. Chatting with him is relaxing and enjoyable, and there is no need for excuses at all. But everyone who knows him knows that his life is not smooth sailing. The parents' marriage was a "change of relatives" marriage decades ago, and the father was more than 20 years older than the mother. His deepest impression of home since childhood is the endless quarrels and fights between his parents; I was admitted to the university through my own efforts and was assigned to teach in a high school after graduation. Because of his bad temper, he offended the leader honestly and frankly, and then resigned from public office angrily; After that, I went to our unit as a temporary worker, with different pay for equal work. The work is earnest and down-to-earth, and the work in charge ranks in the top five in the assessment of the Municipal Bureau every year, which has been unanimously affirmed by the superior leaders. But as a temporary worker, promotion is not his job. Many people think he is too honest and often take the blame for him: "Why are you so stupid?" ? I do my own work, but the honors and rewards belong to others! But he always laughs: "No matter what I face, since I am in this position, I must do this job well. "Only in this way can I feel practical!" After leaving our unit, he worked as a teacher in an education and training institution. After work, I actively participated in various public welfare activities and donated a poor student for many years until I graduated from college; Become the vice president of the county winter tour association and often win prizes in swimming competitions in nearby counties (districts); Free tutoring for colleagues and neighbors' children ... Although he doesn't flatter others in life and hates welcoming others, his attitude is always peaceful and optimistic, and he has made many intimate friends, some of whom are "forgetting to make friends". Now, everyone especially envies his simple and happy lifestyle and regards him as an example of a happy life.
Think of a line from a very popular movie "Goodbye, Mr. Loser" a few years ago. This sentence is a sentence that Charlotte, who has been frustrated, said to her old classmate Silly Spring. Charlotte said, "Da Chun, I really envy you! You can live like a fool! "
I also remembered a famous movie Forrest Gump. Forrest Gump, as a mentally retarded with an IQ of only 75, is honest, trustworthy, earnest and brave. He only knows how to give without expecting anything in return, and never cares about others' rejection. He just faces life with an open mind, an open mind, and keeps running on the road by intuition. He ran through the discrimination of his childhood classmates, the football field of the university, the quagmire of the Vietnam War, the battlefield of ping-pong diplomacy and all parts of the United States. With a body with congenital defects, he finally reached the highest point of his life, reaching a height that many people with sound intelligence may not reach in their whole lives.
Forrest Gump's success, in a sense, benefits from his mild mental retardation and ignorance of winning or losing. He has experienced a lot in his life, but he always believes that "only fools do stupid things." With this feeling, no matter when and where, no matter who he is with, he remains the same, simple and kind, simple and persistent.
Forrest Gump's story tells us that what fools do is often more right than what smart people do. The so-called smart people have been doing stupid things. Many times, the fools we think ourselves are often more pure and interesting than us. Their lives are full of kind and beautiful seeds, and once they meet the right soil and nutrients, they will bloom unparalleled flowers.
At present, we might as well think about the lifestyle of fools, and then look at our lifestyle as a smart person. Or we can try to live like children, be as simple as fools, and be as persistent and relieved as Forrest Gump. Perhaps, Forrest Gump's miracle will happen in our life, and our life will become more and more beautiful!