Calm is a vision, but also an experience.

I still remember taking the bus at home when I first came out to work. The first time I went out of town, I started to get thirsty and nervous as soon as I got on the bus. What I can control now is much easier than just stepping into society.

When I got my salary for the first time, I was very excited. I wanted to buy a gift for every member of my family and spent all my money. Now the income from labor has become normal!

Compared with the excitement of starting a business for the first time, I am thinking more about how to survive. We should always deal with problems and solve them. We should not make any decisions when our minds are hot, but calm down and make the most perfect judgment.

So go over it and tell yourself not to worry during the experience. All the experiences are to prepare for a more calm you in the future!

In more than ten years, I have witnessed my father's impatience when he was young and become a calm and calm person.

As the saying goes, if the sky is going to be a great task for the Sri Lankan people, they must first suffer their minds, their bones and muscles, starve their bodies, empty their bodies and mess up their actions. Therefore, their persistence has benefited them a lot.

The wisdom summed up by the ancients was verified by his father. People really need to experience something if they want to be calm. Now facing this problem, I really have to feel that time is really a cruel role. It has patience, sets a whetstone for those impetuous and radical people, and then slowly grinds him.

When my father was young, he was stubborn and impatient. When I was a child, several people from the municipal government came to talk to my father about business, but they all seemed to run away in the end. I saw my father coax those public officials out of the house. My father is not an unreasonable person, so he must have been angered by these people, but the measures he finally took were really a bit radical.

When I was a child, every time my father helped me with my homework, he once explained twice what I didn't understand, and he lost patience. He often takes all my books in a rage and throws them a few meters away. I was too scared to cry. I wiped my tears, picked them up and continued to listen to his counseling.

Later, because my mother was in poor health, the doctor told her not to be angry or excited, and to keep a harmonious atmosphere at home at all times. For a young and energetic father, it is difficult to get rid of his personality at once, and there will always be times when he can't control his impatience in the process of trying to correct it, but every time the atmosphere at home is destroyed by him, it will also cause his mother's discomfort.

Later, the mother's illness worsened, the children were studying again, and the economic burden at home became heavier and heavier. Father has to take care of his mother and earn money to support his family. The whole person has changed in just one year. He has lost his former impetuousness and radicalism, and all that remains is calmness and calmness.

This is the change brought by the baptism of time. Only when people have experienced great storms will they look down on some things and will not easily affect their emotions for some trivial things.

Therefore, people will become calm after experiencing the storms of life.

No one can collapse in front of Mount Tai without changing color. A person becomes calm and calm because of much experience, which is unconsciously revealed.

Everyone is young and frivolous, and no one can become leisurely without experiencing a little thing. I remember when I first left school, I was full of enthusiasm. I always panic and don't pay attention to anything. Later, I experienced a lot, so I didn't panic before when I faced some things, and I was much calmer.

If a person is not afraid of death, what is there to be afraid of? What kind of person is the most terrible? People who have experienced life and death and see through life are calm and don't panic in the face of things. Nothing can scare them.

Calm, calm, reflects a person's calm, calm, calm mentality when encountering unexpected events.

This mentality needs to be tempered in daily life and tested by special experiences.

Speaking of calmness, it reminds me of something more than ten years ago.

That was when our family had just moved from downtown to the outside of the Fourth Ring Road. The community is still under construction, and the traffic is very inconvenient. The bus runs every 20 minutes.

One night after work, I was waiting for the bus at the station, and I accidentally saw a young man in his twenties looking at me. I didn't care, so I turned elsewhere. After a while, I found that he was still looking at me and was not close to me from time to time.

Then I became alert. Looking around, I found two women and three men standing beside me. Few people are waiting at the station. I started to get scared and thought I had been robbed. I accidentally touched my neck and touched the necklace. I see, they are trying to grab the necklace.

When I saw them near me, my first reaction was not to panic and not to let them near. So I started to move and keep my distance from them. They moved, I moved, they walked behind me, so I turned to look at them and kept facing each other.

After a stalemate for a while, two of the men saw that I was alert and got on the overpass. The other three people continued to stand there.

Finally, the bus arrived. I looked at my side and got on the bus quickly. After getting on the bus, I sat on the ground with weak legs. The conductor asked me what was wrong, and I said nothing, I was tired.

With this experience, I have deepened my understanding of calmness and calmness. I thought that if I had shown a little fear and panic, I would have let the suspicious elements succeed. It's a small matter to take the necklace. If you get hurt, you'll be in trouble.

From then on, I never dared to wear a necklace when I went out. ……

In order to make a person calm and calm, in addition to strengthening self-cultivation and making himself strong, he must also have an "all-inclusive" mind. Improve your ideological quality, be proactive, and face real life calmly and rationally.

The elders in my hometown, including my mother, said I could hold my breath. In my mother's words, you can really hold your breath, and I look at it impatiently! I don't know whether just hold your horses and calm down are the same meaning, so I'll tell you two true stories:

The first thing: in 2000, I worked in the east of our city, and I had a cousin who worked in the west of our city. One east and one west are not close, and it takes an hour by bike. There is an early shift in the world, so I borrowed a bike to find her. The street I walked was underdeveloped and a bit remote. Halfway through a bridge, I passed two boys riding bicycles. I didn't expect them to catch up with me. They chased me and asked me where my family lived, and they insisted on taking me home! I said my family lives in the front, so you don't have to send it. Follow me all the time and go forward for a while. There happened to be a factory, and a security guard stood at the door, so I rode directly to the factory door. Unexpectedly, one of the boys followed me. I'm angry. What did I say? The boy said: I just want to take you home! Then I left. I waited for a while, then got on my bike and left. Not far away, another boy on a motorcycle caught up with a boy. Do you know that man just now? I said I didn't know him. Then they turned and left for no reason.

The second thing: I also saw my colleague sign up for a computer training class a few years ago, and I also signed up. As a result, I went to study for a while, but I didn't want to study, so I left first. When I passed the traffic lights at the intersection, a middle-aged cyclist hung a black plastic bag on the handlebar. When I passed by, (I have forgotten whether I touched his handlebar at that time) anyway, I passed by, and he turned around and dragged me, refusing to let me go, saying that the plastic bag was the money he had just taken. What if I help him quit? I have to get in his car and go home with him, and then explain something to his wife. Who knows what's in his bag! I won't go because it makes no sense. He asked me which school I went to. Looking for my teacher or something. I said it was from the previous school. Then I turned and left, and I was relieved to see that he didn't catch up.

I was scared when these two things happened, but I think I should calm down!

I should have experienced some things and seen the world. It doesn't mean that people have to succeed to be calm.

Life cannot be smooth sailing. Maybe when you meet the first hurdle in life, you will fidget and think. But when you experience more and more things, people will become careless, and their personality will become more and more calm, experienced and productive. Inadvertently, people become mature and calm.

When my father was young, he was a person with poor emotional intelligence. He suffered a lot and was appreciated when I was in junior high school, so his life was not bad during that time. Then gradually, maybe everyone has ups and downs. Probably graduated from college. My father obviously had a bad few years and met the villain, but I can clearly feel that he is more indifferent than before. Maybe he was relieved. Who hasn't had bad luck yet? At that time,

More experience is not a bad thing at all. I think people should be mature, adjust their mentality and be calm!

The subject probably means to be yourself. People who can do this are not necessarily well-informed, but they must have experienced many things. When we meet happy things, we will be happy for half a day. However, a calm person will feel happy because he has experienced too many similar things, because he has already experienced it, and he has lost his novelty for the first time, so it may be a normal thing in his view, or it should be like that in his view.

When we encounter something sad, we feel very sad, and it will show up immediately. However, a calm person may have had things that made him more sad, maybe not once or twice, but many times, so maybe it's nothing serious to him, just a very ordinary thing.

So, as the subject said, how can we make a person calm and calm; It must have been tempered by many things, some sad and some happy, and we are still trying to control our emotions. Over time, a person will become calm. If a person does not control his emotions, it is difficult to be calm even if he experiences more things.

How can I make a person calm and calm?

To be honest, it's really not easy.

Only with more experience will you become calm and calm. From ignorance to weather-beaten, this is a process, and this process is also very uncomfortable. Why do you say that? Because this process is full of ups and downs, everything is my own experience, and only I can feel it.

Tell me about myself. I came out to work early. I used to work in a big factory for more than ten hours every day. This is an assembly line for producing mobile phones. I can't choose between day shift and night shift. According to the arrangement of the factory, I am very tired every day. I stayed there for two years. In the end, I chose to leave because of the heavy physical load. Then I chose real estate. I think being an intermediary can help me learn more. Of course, I ate it myself. It is up to you to eat or drink. There are also struggles in the workplace and many things in the process of buying and selling. Never understand anything, and become calm and calm.

No matter what you ask, this is your valuable experience. Find out your own problems, sum up your experience, don't make mistakes repeatedly, don't follow the old path, and don't look down on anyone. Learn to be modest, learn more from the advantages of others, and know your own shortcomings, so as to change your own shortcomings. You can listen to other people's advice, but you should also have your own ideas, because what others say may not be all right.

Calm down and talk about life experience and mentality. I was born in the 1980s in rural areas, and I had polio sequelae and left leg disability since I was a child. Walking to school, who limped from childhood to college, was a joke of his classmates. Every time I walk on the road after school, my classmates will shout, lame … At that time, I was still very young. Hearing their shouts, I had no choice but to cry! Grow up slowly, and pay more attention to other people's eyes and expressions when you go out and walk on the road.