The first kind of psychological abuse restricts social interaction. They will belittle and interfere with your contacts with your friends, and they will deny your friends from the perspective of personality. For example, I think your friend's style is not good, I think your friend looks like green tea and so on. At the same time, he also suspects that there is something wrong with your lifestyle. He will closely monitor you and criticize you morally, not only for your communication with the opposite sex, but also for your communication with classmates and even for his communication with your relatives.

Secondly, there is no psychological abuse, he controls your economy. Maybe the other person's income is relatively higher than yours. Then he immediately asked you to give up your job and even hindered your career development. For example, your company has some training and takes some exams. He doesn't allow you to leave the society, concentrate on serving him and taking care of him. But you really become a full-time person, and he controls your money very strictly. And stingy, if the other person's income is not as good as yours, he specifically asks you to keep all the accounts for him, because you want to belittle you, just because you don't have the ability to manage money, you won't manage money, and if you don't give it to him, you will be embarrassed.

Third, it will limit your freedom of movement. He seems worried about you. He thinks that as soon as you leave him, you will run amok or have an affair. You should report to him where you have been, where you have been, who you are with, how long you will be together and when you will come back. He will contact you from time to time. You should clarify, verify and compare such details with him repeatedly to prove that you are not lying. You are not out of his control, he is safe at this time. Since when does he not call you often to check posts? It's when he has a multi-faceted relationship, when he is busy.

The fourth is to control him emotionally. He will train you to form a conditioned reflex. Do what he asks you to do strictly according to his standards, or he will get angry and then attack you violently. You just quarrel with you, or ignore you and have a hard time with you. I'm afraid what you have done is not up to his standards. You know he will be angry then. After a long time, you will talk to him.