Speech by parents of the second-grade parent-teacher conference: Dear teachers and parents,
Hello! I am the parent of xxx, a student in Class Two, Grade Two, Senior High School. First of all, I would like to thank the school and teachers for giving me such a good opportunity to stand here and discuss the family education of children with you. I feel very honored. On behalf of all parents of students, please allow me to express my heartfelt thanks to all teachers for their hard work and selfless dedication! I think there must be many parents here who do better than me in educating their children. Although I am also engaged in education, I am ashamed to say that I have not done enough education for my children and there are still many omissions. Let me talk about my views on the immaturity of family education, and welcome your criticism and correction.
1, home-school cooperation to cultivate children's good study habits.
Children's growth is inseparable from the fertile soil of the school. Parents are delighted to see that their knowledge is growing day by day and their study habits are improving and improving day by day. Good study habits are the key for students to get good grades, so parents should always get in touch with schools, communicate closely with teachers and cooperate with teachers to help children gradually develop good study habits. For example, the teacher asked students not to play computer and watch TV at home from Monday to Friday, but the teacher asked. It is difficult for children to control whether to watch or not, which requires the cooperation of parents and teachers. At this time in my home, the TV won't turn on when the children are not sleeping, and the computer will only turn on when looking up information. Of course, on Saturday and Sunday, I will choose a program suitable for children.
At home, parents should consciously strengthen their children's awareness that they can take good care of their own lives, such as getting up and going to bed at 8 o'clock, getting up and going to bed within the specified time, which will not only enable children to have enough sleep and study energetically, but also enable children to establish a concept of time and make their lives orderly.
2. In the usual education, give priority to praise and encouragement.
Self-confidence is the driving force of life and the source of strength for children's continuous progress. Therefore, parents must attach importance to the cultivation of children's self-confidence in the process of educating their children. We know that no matter adults or children, everyone is willing to listen to good words. Seize this. I always give priority to praise and encouragement in my life and study to enhance my children's self-confidence. My child is timid and introverted and meets with difficulties. For example, his writing style has never been very good. Every time I talk about him, he will say, "I am just stupid." In view of this situation, I always encourage him: "I met your teacher on duty (or on the road) today, and the teacher said that your handwriting is much better than before, and you have made rapid progress." It will be better as long as you continue to work hard. " (Actually, I may not have met the teacher. Although this is suspected of lying, I think it is not bad to say a few more white lies than to enhance the self-confidence of children in the lower grades of primary school.
3. Try to create a good family learning atmosphere for children.
Environment is an important acquired factor in cultivating children's character. In this regard, I want to share a short story with you:
One day, a passerby found a pile of soil on the side of the road, which gave off a very fragrant smell. He took this pile of dirt home, and suddenly, his home was full of fragrance.
Passers-by asked this pile of dirt in curiosity and surprise, "Are you a treasure from a big city?" ? Or rare spices? Or expensive materials? "
The dirt replied, "No, I'm just an ordinary dirt."
Passers-by asked again, "Where did that thick fragrance come from?"
The earth said, "I just spent a long time with roses in the rose garden."
This short story shows that a person's growing environment and living environment are very important, especially for a child like a blank sheet of paper.
These are my views on family education for your reference.
Finally, I wish the teachers good health and smooth work;
I wish my parents and friends a harmonious family and a happy life.
Speech by parents of the second-grade parent-teacher conference Part II Dear teachers and parents:
(used when meeting in the afternoon) Good afternoon.
I am xxx's mother. First of all, I am very grateful to the experimental primary school for providing us with such a platform, and I am also very grateful to the teachers and parents for giving us such a precious opportunity to discuss children's education with you here.
Compared with those children with excellent academic performance, my children still have many shortcomings; Compared with other parents, there are still many gaps, so what I want to say is not experience, but feelings. I can't say anything profound. I can only list my daughter's little growth and share it with you.
First, try to provide a good family environment for children.
My daughter is a very ordinary child. Kindergarten teachers and primary school teachers have told me more than once that children are too quiet at school and do not like to communicate with others. They stutter when they are in a hurry and do not like to raise their hands in class. I always feel guilty about her. I have always stubbornly felt that the reason why my daughter is like this is largely because tears almost accompanied me throughout my pregnancy and the second month.
Due to the particularity of my career, my father and I live apart all the year round. During my pregnancy, my husband only saw me twice. Once, when my child was more than six months old, he stayed at home with me for one night and then hurried back to the army. The second time was the day before I gave birth. Less than a week after her daughter was born, her husband returned to the army. So when I was pregnant, I cried alone. After giving birth to my daughter, I cried in my arms. My parents love and hate me. They always say that I made my daughter cry silly.
This may also be the reason why I left my hometown and came to Kunshan in desperation. I must give my daughter a complete family atmosphere. My daughter is over one year old, and she will cry when she sees her father sleeping beside her at night. A little bigger, I know it's dad, but not too close. I don't have a good relationship with my father at present! In my opinion, it is the greatest sureness that children can see their parents' kind smiles when they go home every day.
Second, encourage children to take part in physical exercise and enhance their self-care ability.
My daughter is relatively tall among her peers, and now she should be relatively tall in her class! People often ask me jokingly: Is your family better nourished? This is really wronged my daughter! A large part of my daughter's height is inherited from my husband, and part of it is the result of her exercise. Daughters, like their fathers, prefer to move. When the child was four years old, her father's army was in Shengsi. There are four or five children in the army, big and small. All other mothers have to work, only my mother. We take the children swimming in the sea every week. That's when my daughter began to like swimming. Now every year, my daughter goes swimming in the swimming pool with a card. Daughters go to school harder than ordinary children. She climbs the mountain in Lin Ting Park at least once a day. My wife and I seldom drive to pick her up unless it rains and snows or she is ill.
My daughter is also very ordinary, and her clothes are basically sportswear. It's the kind that you buy for 100 yuan in a general foreign trade store. Her hair is basically ponytail all year round. I am not a very competent mother. On the one hand, I really can't braid her hair beautifully. Secondly, I go to work early. I usually go to work before 6: 20 in the morning and have no time to braid her hair. Speaking of which, I'm not afraid of your jokes. My husband basically does this job in our home. So I am especially grateful to my husband. I have read a book before, which generally means that sons should be poor and daughters should be rich. My husband and I are both ordinary wage earners, and we will try our best to provide her with conditions within our power, but I personally think that the enrichment of girls should be more spiritual. My daughter is more tired of going to the supermarket than I am now. I have to compare everything to see which is cheaper and more cost-effective.
My daughter's self-care ability is still relatively strong, probably because of her life in the military compound. They have many daughters in radar. In Shengsi, there are four or five daughters, and only my mother is in the company. I can't help them bathe one after another. I just put them in line every night, and each of them took a plate and followed me to take a bath. My daughter has been taking a bath by herself ever since! When my husband and I were separated, we visited her father in the army every winter and summer vacation. At that time, she was still very young, but every time she got on and off the bus, she would help me count my bags to see if there was anything left behind. When I left the station, she also worked hard to help me with my bag. Now, after finishing our homework every day, we sharpen our pencils and tidy up our schoolbags. We never help her.
Third, improve children's inner temperament.
My daughter began to practice dancing at the age of four and violin at the age of five. Before learning dance and violin, I took her to various training classes. At that time, she chose both of them. She was very young at that time and didn't understand it, but I told her seriously: if you choose, you can't give up easily. We didn't enroll her in any cultural classes, and I don't think we will. In the process of learning violin, I also experienced some difficulties. I know nothing about music myself. I have been taking violin lessons with her for two or three years, and I don't even understand the staff. But my daughter, including me, is quite persistent. I was particularly touched when I read a sentence! Share it with parents today: Some people will ask, after reading so many books for so long, girls will eventually return to an ordinary city, do an ordinary job, marry a wife, do laundry and cook, and teach children. Why bother? I think, even if we end up in triviality and wash away the lead, our feelings about the same job are different; The same family has different moods; The same offspring have different qualities.
I have never talked about my daughter's study, because we really don't pay much attention to her academic performance. Children take too many exams, sometimes they do well and sometimes they do poorly. Neither I nor her father will comment too much on the score. The best we can do is to help her analyze the reasons for the wrong questions. Experimental primary school is a very good school, which is trained by teachers such as Mr. Hang and Mr. Jin. The children are much more cheerful than when they started school. Going home every day is also very willing to share some things at school with me and her father. Here I want to say sincerely: teachers! Thank you for your hard work! Children's excellent academic performance is inseparable from a good family atmosphere and study habits. The child is very clever. Our parents do what we should do and be themselves. The rest believe that our children can do it themselves!
My father and I really don't have high expectations for our daughter. We just want our children to grow up healthily and happily. In the future, she can have a job to support herself, a happy family and, most importantly, a husband who loves her. That's it, enough!