After the course ended on August 8, my heart flew home, because I knew that in the process of our growth, it was often the family members who silently supported us who were most easily overlooked and indifferent. Without this powerful support system, how can we talk about blooming in the crowd and glory on the stage? Without deep gratitude, trust and love, I can't take root like duckweed.
So, from August 9 to 15, I chose to devote myself to the next part of my life and stay with my dear family, and started a week-long travel mode.
The meaning of travel may initially be the attraction and call of the destination;
When we really start a journey, the people we meet, the roads we have traveled, the scenery we have seen, the waves and calmness we have experienced, and the emotions we have experienced all become the greatest significance of the journey itself!
This reminds me of this NLP teacher public welfare course in Shanghai. Isn't this a wonderful trip?
This journey lasts for one year, starting from the origin/heart.
In my heart, I have a deep commitment to teachers, which comes from my family.
My parents are both workers in the education industry. My father worked in the training department of waterway system, and my childhood memory is that my father compiled teaching materials and went on a business trip for training. My mother worked as a middle school teacher in a children's school of a shipping company. I was in primary school at that time. After school, I often visit students' homes with my mother, or wait for my mother in the teacher's office to make up lessons for students for free. As far as I can remember, my parents' work was tense and busy, and they devoted themselves wholeheartedly to their students and their beloved career. Although they are all teachers, they have little time to manage my study.
In my childhood, my love for my parents was expressed through my conscious study and excellent grades. Besides, I don't know what better way. In my opinion, they worry too much about their students and work too hard.
The original environment given to me by my family provides me with the environment and possibility to support my teachers in the future.
With the birth and growth of my son, I came into contact with more and more teachers and parents. With the exposure of "child abuse incident", "parents' accountability school" and "student suicide phenomenon" in society ..... As a mother, I am not angry or complaining, but heartbroken.
My heart is aching.
Parents and teachers who were originally guardians of children's growth, parents and teachers who were leaders of love and wisdom, and parents and teachers who were supporters of children's life voyage.
The original alliance,
With the development of society, it has evolved into a hostile relationship!
As teachers' children, they felt the tear and pain. In the same world, can people remember what they really look like? Can people remember their original appearance? Can people recall the conscience possessed by * *?
Yes, there must be better ways to deal with it than complaining, anger, venting emotions and violence. As a group, I choose and support teachers. Because,
People who give love to others must first have love in their hearts;
Those who awaken the wisdom of life need to be awakened first;
Only in this way can education return to its true colors, shake another cloud with one cloud and influence another life with one life!
Forward:
A promise from the bottom of my heart was awakened and emerged in the 37th year of my life.
Pilot:
Three years ago, I met my parent-child tutor Ying Tong, and learned that a little girl who has no family background and is not extremely rich in material wealth, but lives an ordinary life like you and me, has gone through 12 years on the road of practicing public welfare. From the summer vacation of 20 15, when she completed the certification training of NLP instructors and made great changes in her personal life and career, she made up her mind to carry out NLP teachers' public welfare courses.
She said: There are dozens and hundreds of families behind a teacher. Supporting one teacher means supporting hundreds of families.
Na Wei, the earliest physical and mental worker/therapist in Chinese mainland, the founder of the earliest physical and mental publication in China, and a professional gestalt therapist (one of schools of psychology), has devoted herself to non-profit organizations in Chinese mainland and Taiwan Province for many years, influencing everyone who meets her by chance with her free and creative soul.
In this way, the pilot of the ship is ready.
Organizer:
In the three years of self-growth, I have met a group of like-minded partners who are attracted to each other. As mothers, they have been baptized by psychology, followed their teachers for many years, and broke the limitations of their brains with actions and commitments. Naturally, the love of this group of people has surpassed the "small family" and integrated into "everyone".
* * * have the same will and initial intention, let us become allies in this journey. Jinling, Grace, Minghong and me.
From 20 17, Jinling took over the NLP banner from Luoyang to the successful conclusion of the NLP course in Shanghai this year. During the 365 days and nights of the journey, sometimes it was calm and everything was under control. The smooth launch of the class announcement, the personal charm and influence of the tutor, and the strong learning motivation of the students make us walk in the bustling life and live in the state I wish.
Sometimes, when the journey encounters stormy waves, the quiet life is disrupted and becomes exciting, challenging your fragile nerves!
At the end of 20 17, Jin Ling and I went to see the venue. In Shanghai, a wealthy city with amazing housing prices, the venue fee is several times that of other cities, and it is better than that of first-tier cities such as Beijing/Guangzhou. No wonder many master physical and mental courses are rare in Shanghai.
Four beginners (novices) who have no experience in organizing physical and mental courses have the courage to hold courses in a 5-star hotel in Nanxiang, Shanghai without any resources in the field of education!
Because the worst result is to lose money, and we can afford this result.
The reason why I choose to hold courses in such a five-star hotel is to give every teacher a positive mental model (belief system), such as "I am worthy", "I am worthy of respect, recognition and affirmation", "I am valuable to students and parents" and "I influence my life and work with my rising consciousness".
Think about it, this is also the natural presentation of NLP knowledge in our hearts!
Sometimes, Lu Yu is dangerous. We walk into deep self-doubt and denial, and fall into the quagmire of "I can't, I can't do it" and can't climb out.
With the approach of the course, the number of applicants is not ideal, and some students refund their fees for various reasons, which is far from the ideal number. I began to have anxiety, but I soon realized that this anxiety reminded me that "at this moment, you need to look inside yourself."
What the hell do I want? What do I want to achieve? Is this an ideal number?
If so, what results have been achieved? What happens if you can't reach it?
If not, what effect do I want?
Obviously, the number of goals is just a setting of the mind. We need to see this goal to clarify the cost, and we don't need to be limited and bound by this figure.
Through this experience, I released my inner anxiety and control and lived into a brand-new picture-creation and commitment!
We still regularly carry out the sharing of NLP knowledge among teaching assistants among students, to stimulate the curiosity of freshmen and maintain high enthusiasm for learning, and to mobilize all resources around us for promotion.
Do it-be banned-be discredited-sincerely regret it-accept it-expand it-bear it.
When the result is as I wish, I gladly accept it and appreciate every support behind it.
When the result is not what I want, I still embrace and accept, and I still work hard. I have enough commitment to any result!
Practice has proved that you can also choose to do and undertake something you think is impossible. It's that simple!
The more afraid you are, do it, because once you do it, you will grow up and gain your own ability, recognition and appreciation!
As one of the undertakers of this course, I appreciate my courage and responsibility;
I appreciate that I did the last job I wanted to do-finding a venue;
I am grateful that I have done the worst in purchasing and bargaining;
I am grateful that I have experienced a blank venue layout;
I thank me for taking the trouble to connect the accommodation information with every student.
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I get far more than I pay!
Now, I dare to take the responsibility of the meeting, I am willing to coordinate the relationship between all parties, I can bargain, I can keep up with my emotions, I can let go of my control, and I can tolerate changes. ......
Now, I dare to explore my unknown aspects, get out of my comfort zone and touch my true and complete self.
I know, my ship has set sail, following the wind of my heart and facing the wind and waves, and will definitely reach her home!
I am convinced of this!