Grasp the key points of your speech, even in your usual speech, you should clearly know what you want to express.
2. Don't talk when you have no idea, but speak slowly when you have an idea; Say less if you are undecided, and say short if you are undecided.
I always feel a little tongue-tied in my life. I always say what comes to my mind when I speak, but I always say it without thinking.
3、
The most effective way is to follow the news.
Why the news?
First, because the norms of news language expression are in place,
There is no confusing network language;
Second, because the news is general.
It takes three or five sentences to complete one thing.
Clear logic, no procrastination,
Training in the process of expression
Language logic ability is very helpful.
Follow-up reading is a very important link
4、
(1) Speak less.
It means cut the crap and get to the point.
Let the other person feel your heart;
② Learn to use eyes and body language.
Express your emotions and concerns appropriately,
People who know you naturally understand;
③ Try more and practice more.
5、
It is recommended to watch 93, 97 and 99 again and again.
Three international university debates,
It is very useful to improve the expressive ability of logic and language organization.
6、
The golden pagoda principle exercises logical thinking and structural expression,
Observe other people's speaking skills and ways,
Then seize the opportunity to express and practice.
7、
When it doesn't matter, don't force yourself to say it if you don't want to.
When you have to speak, think clearly about your point of view.
What do you want to do, who are you talking to,
Whether the occasion is appropriate or not.
8、
Speak as slowly as possible and don't worry.
Give priority to what you have to say,
Try to state the facts from the beginning,
Add less personal opinions,
When you get better, add your point of view.
At the same time, listen to what others say.
9、
Take notes after reading,
I asked for tens of thousands of words for the first time.
And then decrease in turn,
Finally, shorten a book to hundreds of words or sentences.
It's best to pick famous books.
10、
Learn to imitate,
You can participate in more group expression games,
Like a werewolf killing.
Imitate other people's expressions,
It exercises the ability of thinking and expression.
In fact, I found that since I started studying, not only my knowledge has changed, but also my views and attitudes towards things have changed invisibly. I will think about how to express correctly, and I can know my progress.
Take chestnuts for example. My colleague recognizes my expressive ability and always thinks that it is more appropriate for me to engage in sales or talk to a trainer, because she said that what I said now made her understand the key points of expression, and I can know where I need to correct myself by talking. In fact, before that, I was just like what I said above. I'm speechless and can't say anything nice. People often tell me what you want to express. Can you make it clear that it is difficult to talk to you? I dare not express myself in front of strangers, and I still nag in front of familiar people. If no one talks to me, I will read a book. I am immersed in the book, looking for another world. I was reading with an escape mentality, but now reading has really changed me.
Now there is a better way to learn expression. I will try to make myself better and more expressive. I need to be diligent in all kinds of emotions or key points. I hope everyone can learn to express themselves better and make themselves more brilliant.