From 65438 to 0976, their family moved from Gaozhou, Guangdong to Liuzhou, Guangxi with their father. That is, eight years later, when she returned to her parents from her grandmother's house in the countryside, her father was knocked down in the "movement", leaving many diseases, and the atmosphere at home was more depressing than that of the whole country. She can't do as the Romans do. I don't fit in with my parents and sister. Compared with her small 8-year-old brother, I just do my sister's duty and have no deeper feelings.
1976 ——1981is a pupil in Guangxi Yancun Primary School. Because she didn't listen to things outside the window, she would only study hard, so when she graduated from school, she was admitted to Liuzhou No.1 Middle School in Guangxi with the first place in the school.
198 1 year-1987 attended junior high school and senior high school in Liuzhou No.1 Middle School, Guangxi. In high school, especially after liberal arts chose science, learning began to feel difficult and her grades showed a downward trend ... After that, she failed in the college entrance examination for the first time. At that time, she was in a key class of a key school. Only a few of the more than 60 people in the class failed, and she actually became one of them. This experience is unbearable for her. ...
1987 —— 1988. After studying in Liuzhou No.4 Middle School in Guangxi for one year, she was extremely depressed and her college entrance examination results were still unsatisfactory again. That night she stayed at a classmate's house, and that classmate sat with her until dawn. Her mother saw her daughter didn't come home all night and immediately told the class teacher. The head teacher was worried that she would throw herself into the river if she didn't do well in the exam, and even took several classmates to Liujiang to find her.
1988 —— 1990 graduated from Guangxi University (formerly known as Road and Bridge Major of Forestry Branch of Guangxi Agricultural College).
Although the university is not famous and the university life is not satisfactory, here, she met her husband who will accompany her for the rest of her life, so that she, who has always been self-abased, showed a rare youthful vitality and experienced a short happy time (see Su Jing's work "Hold on a little longer" and "Do you believe marriage can be saved" for details).
1990 to 1997, assigned to Liuzhou Municipal Administration Office, Guangxi, and worked in architecture, design, quality inspection, statistics, cashier, family planning, blackboard newspaper publicity, data management, urban construction archives compilation, etc.
This stage is full of confusion in her life, because a girl is in charge of the construction site, either bullied by the relocated households on the construction site or threatened by the driver of her own unit. I remember once, because she insisted on refusing to accept her bad style, who insisted on inviting the crane driver to the construction site for dinner, and the driver actually used a crane to lift a reinforced concrete pipe weighing more than 10 tons to scare her. ...
After that, Director He, the head of her department, kept telling her superiors that it was really troublesome for female college students to manage the construction site, which made him a headache. He hopes that the leader can transfer her to other departments ... even her husband who loves her deeply begins to regard her as a double burden of family and society. At this time, she once again fell into a low point in her life and didn't know where her life direction was.
1997 —— June 2002, Liuzhou Municipal Administration Office, Guangxi, engaged in pre-settlement work. (Remarks: In 2000, he obtained the qualification certificate of national cost engineer)
At this stage, she began to re-examine herself. Because of the need to educate her children, she began to read a lot of inspirational books, and constantly applied her recognized ideas to practical work and life, with remarkable results (see Su Jing's work "Hold on for a while" and "Do you believe marriage can be saved" for details).
On June 2, 2002, she resigned from public office and came to Beijing. Reason for Resignation: She has always hated exam-oriented education, and she wants to find a way out of education.
The goal of cultivating children should be to cultivate their sound and harmonious personality, their independence, their tenacious adaptability in complex society and their ability to cooperate with others.
Real education should be to let children see the hope of life, feel the sunshine of life and promote the growth of life. The ultimate goal of education should be to make the educated feel happy! But what about reality?
Children fall in love with rebellion, play truant and are tired of learning, internet addiction, lack of emotion, inferiority and autism, running away from home, and so on. Parents killed their children for test scores and certain skills, children killed their parents because they were overwhelmed, and students killed teachers or classmates. Violence continues to occur. ...
School education, social education and even family education are in a confused period, and our education is increasingly deviating from the normal track of pursuing happiness. ...
She is convinced that in modern society, what adults and children lack is not the ability to master certain knowledge and technology, but a passion for creation and a spirit of resisting anxiety, which is rich, noble and quiet. This spirit combines the excellent quality of life such as respect, cooperation, consideration and care.
Without these most precious and beautiful qualities of life in human nature, how can the meaning of education be embodied?
From June 2002 to August 2002, I attended the course of developmental psychology and psychological counseling in Beijing Normal University.
In August, 2002, I came to Beijing Huiyuan Psychological and Educational Research Center, where I was responsible for expert consultation on emotional and family education, and served as the speaker of the potential development course. Here, she experienced the most exciting dream come true. (Please refer to 6 for details. Sort out her most exciting dreams. )
From June 2003 to 2003, 1 1 Beijing Dazhao Quality Training Center served as a teaching assistant for interpersonal communication courses and psychological quality courses for the strong, and went deep into families.
At the end of 2003, it went deep into various hospitals, families, universities, prisons and courts.
In August 2004, the inspirational work "Hold on a little longer-2 1 time self-help of a problem woman" was published, which has been collected by many university libraries.
In May 2005, she registered Beijing Jingjing Male Culture Communication Co., Ltd. as an emotional marriage consultant to promote the concept of mother education.
On June 5438+ 10, 2006, the inspirational work "Do you believe that marriage is still saved?" was collected by many university libraries.
In July 2006, I made my own DVD "Marriage is a University".
20 10 in order to spread the culture of mother's growth, which is seriously lacking in today's society, he specially created the work "Looking for a breakthrough in education" and "A woman's name is mother".
Su Jing wrote the screenplay A Girl's Heart. (Description: This drama is based on a real case, with the theme of mother's aversion to father's cowardice and poverty, the breakdown of parents' marriage and the lack of maternal love leading to children's psychological crisis. It aims to wake up many parents who have brought harm to their children, point out the direction for men and women in difficulty, and hope to improve themselves more effectively. )
20 1 1 April, Su Jing specially planned the cultural and artistic exchange activities of "Mother (female) Growth-Promoting Marriage Harmony and Healthy Growth of Children" according to the needs of readers. The core topics: "Female Growth Art Communication" and "Mother-child Spiritual Art Communication" have not been officially promoted, and many foreign readers have come to Beijing to participate. The effect is obvious. The specific content can be viewed separately.
In 20 13, Su Jing's video "If Let Her Be a Mother Again" passed the CCTV- Capital brand audit according to 1 1 year consulting practice cases (more than 4,000 cases);
Comprehensive analysis of the case of CCTV Capital Brand "If Let Her Be a Mother Again" —— Looking for the educational breakthrough from the mother (female) herself.
In 20 14, Su Jing and the special assistant Zhang Yuxin (one north and one south) only communicated by telephone, and Su Jing awakened her repressed true feelings for many years. They successfully co-produced the video "Su Jing: How Women Inspire Men".