Two: make good use of all kinds of resources around you. We should know that we are not independent individuals in this world, and there will be various relationships around us, such as relatives, friends and classmates. And these people who have this relationship with us will have more or less resources in their hands that we don't have. For example, some people have relatives who start a company, or friends who do projects, and they are short of manpower. At this time, can you pull your face down and be a hand? Lick the dog? With the help of friends and relatives, you will get a job that is relatively suitable for you. What you have to do in the future is to work hard, live up to their efforts and repay them at an appropriate time. After all, there is an old saying in China? Call it the grace of dripping water, and enjoy a spring? I can't repay my kindness, but I can't forget my kindness.
Three: don't look for a job yet, settle down first and learn a skill. As the saying goes? Learn physics well and travel around the world? I'm not afraid. The same is true of technology. Even in my opinion, mastering a good skill is more useful than having a so-called undergraduate degree. Therefore, if you don't have a skill, you might as well calm down and plan your life well, and then choose a technology that suits you with your parents' advice and your own choice. It will take 65,438+0 ~ 2 years to completely turn this technology into your own skill. Once you come back from school in the future, you will never lose a bowl of rice in this field again. But now many people don't see this, and they think it's a waste of their time and energy, and they can't see any benefits at all in the short term. This is not in line with their own values and choices, and they can't wait, which eventually leads them to go further and further on the road of muddling along and doing nothing, and they will regret it when they get old, so we must never take this old road and seize this opportunity while we are young and useless in learning.