First, act like you want to be. Many people always wait until they have a positive feeling before putting it into practice. These people put the cart before the horse. Keep your mind on the move. If a person starts with a negative attitude and then waits for feelings to take him to action, he will never become the positive person he wants to be.

Second, we must have a positive idea of winning. Whoever wants to reap a successful life must be a good farmer. Never sow a few positive and optimistic seeds and expect to get something for nothing. We must constantly water these seeds and fertilize the seedlings. If we ignore these, weeds with negative mentality will grow wildly, take away nutrients in the soil and even kill crops.

Third, influence others with good feelings, confidence and goals. As your actions and mentality become more positive, you will gradually gain a feeling of a happy life, with stronger confidence and a stronger sense of purpose in life. Then, others will be attracted to you, because people always like to be with positive and optimistic people.

Fourth, make everyone you meet feel important and needed. Everyone is eager to feel their own importance and the needs and gratitude of others. This is the core of our ordinary people's self-awareness. If you can satisfy this desire in others' hearts, they will have a positive attitude towards themselves and you, and a situation of hello, I am good and everyone is good will be formed.

5. Be grateful. If you often shed tears, you can't see the starlight. If we are grateful to nature for all the good things in life, life will become better.

Sixth, learn to praise others. In interpersonal communication, properly praising each other will increase harmony, warmth and beautiful feelings. The value of your existence will also be affirmed, giving you a sense of accomplishment.

Seven, learn to smile. Facing a smiling person, you will feel his confidence and friendliness, and at the same time, this confidence and friendliness will also infect you, make you feel confident and friendly, and make you warm with each other.

Eight, look for the best new ideas everywhere. Some people think that only a genius can have a good idea. In fact, finding good ideas depends on attitude, not ability. An open-minded and creative person will go wherever he has a good idea.

Nine, give up trivial things. People with a positive attitude will not spend their time and energy on small things, because small things distract them from their main goals and important matters.

Ten, cultivate dedication. Harry Bliss, the former chairman of General Flour Company, once advised his salespeople: "Whoever tries his best to help others live a happier and more chic life will reach the highest level of sales promotion."

Eleven, self-confidence can do what you want to do. Never think negatively that anything is impossible. First, you should think you can, and then try. Try again, and in the end you will find that you can.