1. Use "I" less and "you" more when chatting.

When talking to others, don't talk to yourself, but find out what others need.

2. When making comments, you must make suggestions first.

Change I think you are wrong to I think this is better. For example, when you find that the other person has a problem, you can say, "I agree with what I just said, but there is another aspect, I think ... is that ok?"

3. When others praise you, you can also find the advantages of others, and then praise them in turn.

For example, someone praises you: "You are so beautiful today." You can answer: "You have a good eye and you look good!" " "

4. Learn from friends who are eloquent.

Chat with eloquent friends around you, remember your chat content, start analyzing and summarizing when you have time, and learn chat skills from each other.

5. Memory accumulation

It is important to accumulate a lot of content materials that can be used for chatting. Some highly educated men, especially science men, have poor eloquence because they have learned a lot of professional knowledge, but they can't be used for chatting because everyone can't understand them.