1. Take any course chosen by others.
Many parents reported the piano to their children's classmates and parents, and immediately reported it to their children. A friend's child reported art and then reported it to his own child. Your child's characteristics and personality are completely ignored in the selection process. Every child is unique and has his own advantages and talents. Parents need to pay more attention to their children's characteristics instead of blindly following the trend.
2. High price means good grade.
A penny for a penny, many parents mistakenly think that the quality of extra-curricular classes with high prices will be higher, but it is not. Whether the interest class is good or not requires parents to do more work to understand, check and evaluate online, experience audition by themselves, observe the teacher's state and so on. These can be used as a measure of the reliability of the class, rather than just considering the price.
The more children learn, the better the future will be.
The younger a child is, the more his body needs to develop, which is the basis of his future emotional development and thinking development. Therefore, it is terrible to fill all the children's time in interest classes. Children have no space to be alone, no slow pace, and they run around between classes after school. They can't digest too much and are prone to spleen and stomach weakness, including difficulty in concentration, decreased attention and decreased willpower. What children learn needs to be gradual, and what they give externally needs to conform to the internal growth law.
What you think is good must be good for children.
Many parents think it is good to learn piano. I must let my children learn it. Dancing is good for children's figure. I must let my daughter study. We often put our interest on children. In the end, what is best for children requires us to observe children, let go of ourselves and trust our intuition. Mom is very enthusiastic. When we calm down, we can truly feel the inner characteristics and needs of children. Give children the most needed nutrition in a way suitable for them.
Parents' choices affect children, but we should deeply believe that children have their own life paths to explore, and they all have their own life goals.
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