Song: I like you to sing slowly: Jia Simin and Zhao Xin don't choose new ones.
In your life, have you ever encountered such a situation:
Entering the fatigue period of love, I don't know how to flirt, and I have nothing to say with him more and more, but push him further and further;
In marriage, there will always be endless quarrels over trivial matters. ...
In fact, the root of these problems comes down to one sentence: you really can't talk!
"Talking" here means not only making sounds, but also paying attention to the art of language. If you want to be an elegant, high emotional intelligence, attractive and happy woman, you must learn these three communication arts between the sexes.
one
Don't communicate ineffectively
Learn to fall in love correctly
When people communicate with each other, the most important thing is that the speaker is comfortable and the person who listens to you is comfortable. This is especially true in love.
In the process of getting along with love, there will inevitably be friction. At this time, women with high emotional intelligence often calm down for three seconds and will not say angry words.
Because she knew she was impulsive, saying angry words would only make things worse, and what she said at this time would hurt more. This kind of communication is ineffective. She must calm herself down before solving the problem.
In feelings, women with high emotional intelligence will control their emotions and know how to speak properly, so that the relationship will develop healthily and for a long time, and there will be no invalid communication and rejection of harmful communication.
two
Don't make unnecessary complaints
Hold a man's heart firmly
Meeting the right person is like winning the lottery. If you win the grand prize, you don't plan, you don't squander, and it's still empty in the end. Similarly, in love, only by learning the "language of love" can we firmly grasp a man's heart.
There was once a couple. A woman came home from work and found her shoes thrown aside. She said angrily, "Look at you, I don't know how to put your shoes away. Too hasty. This little thing can't be done well. Are you still a man? "
Hearing this, the man immediately became unhappy and said, "You are not so good either. Your clothes are lying around, your pants are littered, you are looking for socks all over the bed, and you are talking about me! " "Two people argue with each other.
And attractive women with high emotional intelligence will do this:
When I came home from work, I put my arm around my husband's waist and said, "Honey, I'm home. Thank you! It's my fault that I didn't put my shoes away. Don't be angry. I am so angry with my hard-working and excellent husband, so uncomfortable! "
Then take my husband, sit down immediately, make him a cup of tea and massage him. Men will be in a good mood when they see this, and they may even share things at work with you.
A smart woman will not make unnecessary complaints or embellish them, but will give her a spoiled soil, a lover's support, care and praise.
three
Don't be a woman who hates herself.
Charming and popular
In life, many women always give everything for men, but men are indifferent; And those smart women, as long as they talk, men are willing to bow down for her.
No matter in love or in the workplace, she must be a talking woman, lovable and cared for!
A woman full of charm and wisdom should not only show her appearance, but also cultivate her heart. Only by practicing both inside and outside can she get a happy life.
In order to help more sisters solve the problem of communication between the two sexes, Jing Ya has found Zhou Simin, an internationally recognized beauty and wisdom, an expert in fashion etiquette education and a star tutor.
Teach you how to grasp a man's heart, how to make love happier, and how to become a truly popular, charming, intelligent woman who can control her own happiness from three sections.
If you want to ...
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Hold a man's heart firmly
Be a charming, popular and emotionally intelligent woman.
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Who's Zhou Simin?
Simin Zhou
International experts in fashion etiquette education
President of China (Hongkong) International Etiquette Research Institute.
Gender expert
Teacher's occupation, star of boss group of Tianjin Satellite TV's "All You Are"
Proficient in interpersonal communication and social etiquette, with 15 years etiquette training experience, recording more than 300 TV programs every year, he is an expert lecturer sought after by major TV variety shows, media, enterprises and audiences.
Zhou Simin used to be a teacher, just an ordinary receptionist in a foreign company. Because of paying attention to etiquette image and good communication skills, she gained a good popularity, which made Zhou Simin embark on the road of etiquette training.
In 2006, Zhou Simin and Wang Han cooperated in the program "The more you plan, the happier you are", which became the champion of that year. Wang Hanzhi praised Zhou Simin as "the most considerate woman". At the same time, major domestic media have invited her. Zhou Simin began to cooperate with more than 30 domestic TV stations, and served as the guest and judge of more than 70 TV programs.
Invited by Hunan Satellite TV, Shanxi Satellite TV, Tianjin Satellite TV, Henan Satellite TV, Beijing Satellite TV and china national radio, he created a very high audience rating, and served as an expert and scholar in the "Cultural Viewpoint" column of CCTV3 to explain communication etiquette to the national audience.
She will pay more attention to its audibility in class, convince everyone with many cases, and let everyone draw inferences. She also developed many skills. Her course was launched for 2 hours, and its sales exceeded 30,000+,making it an explosive course in Jing Ya!
This time, Zhou Simin brought a brand-new course "Deciphering Gender Communication: Women who are spoiled by men are all talking women"! 》,
Teacher Zhou Simin hopes that through this course, more women can become attractive women who study both inside and outside, so that men can spoil, love and live without you!
3 modules+15 excellent courses
15+ scene, 30+ gender communication
& Taste the cultivation cheats and solve them in all directions.
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