Perhaps, you have tried to change yourself and heard so much about life, but life is still not good-you have tried various methods, such as keeping a diary every day, or drawing down all the epigrams in the book, or putting all the chicken soup in your circle of friends in your favorites, but when life comes, you forget everything.
The following suggestions may be trite, but I hope you can listen and implement them.
1, use your head more. Many people are lazy and want to know the answer from others immediately when they encounter problems, even Baidu is saved. Think more. Even if you watch TV programs, you should think with your brain, otherwise your brain will degenerate more and more. When you encounter a problem, first think about the reasons behind it, and then go online to find out how others solved the problem, how your thinking is different from others, and what can be improved. Laziness is to find a convenient and quick way to get rid of repeated useless work. Such laziness is the driving force for progress. ?
2. Keep reading and build your own knowledge system. Fragment reading and obtaining information on WeChat, Zhihu and other platforms are often chaotic, because we read what we are interested in without any purpose, which often leads us to forget after reading it. For the knowledge obtained by this reading method, copy useful information and classify it according to the label. Labels: Emotion, Thinking &; Cognitive, psychological, learning methods, etc. Whenever I see new information, I will summarize it into the corresponding classification and gradually form my own information base. Topic reading is reading the knowledge you are interested in or the questions you have questions about. For example, if you are interested in psychology, you can choose some excellent works in various psychological categories, or study one of them in depth.
Don't compare yourself with others. Compare yourself today with yourself yesterday. People who are better than you, people who are richer than you, people who are more beautiful than you, people who are more interesting than you, people who are better than you, who are rich and have a high education, really don't need too much. No matter how compared, it can't be anyone else. There is no need to waste time and energy doing unnecessary things. Isn't it more useful to make progress every day?
4. Don't believe that it is good to spend enough money. Money, far more important than imagined, makes many problems no longer problems. Money can provide you with a comfortable life and financial support for your parents. It can even change your temperament and make you more confident and outgoing. The economic base determines the superstructure. ?
My time is getting less and less, and I spend less and less time with my parents. We do what we want to do by ourselves. Is it more and more urgent for parents to be filial? Don't waste any time. Seize every day, live every day well, and my future self will not regret wasting my good years. Call your parents regularly, care about their health and give them the greatest financial support.
6. Work hard to make money. We often say that we should work hard to make money, and the subtext is often: "I will work hard to make achievements, and then make money by raising my salary." The essence is to work hard, not to make money. Many people have been doing nothing all their lives. They may never really think about how to make money, but they will only sell their time to others for a little salary. This is lazy and stupid, but we regard it as the only way. The most profitable thing in the world is also the most intelligent thing.
7. focus. I have a wide range of hobbies and have my own opinions on many topics. People who can play SLR P pictures look perfect, but in fact, this is not the case in many cases. People who generally claim to know everything actually know a little, but they are not proficient. People who can really achieve something after the age of 30 spend a lot of energy and time on their own careers. They all have one basic feature: concentration.
8. learn routines. Routine is particularly easy to master, and it can greatly improve your work efficiency. When you come into contact with any new field, you should go to an old driver to learn routines. ? Routine can make you get twice the result with half the effort and stand on the shoulders of giants, which is the requirement of the times and the last word of your own development.
Self-growth is easier said than done, which requires not only courage, but also perseverance and persistence.