Conformity, others have reported, and my family can't fall behind. In today's environment, there are only a handful of students who have not attended extracurricular remedial classes, or even zero. Seeing that all the children around have reported to the counseling institutions, if their children don't report, their academic performance will fall behind. In order to prevent children from leaving the team, parents will choose to help their children make up the newspaper. However, children are unique and have their own advantages and preferences. The same herd mentality should not make children better. It is better to teach students in accordance with their aptitude. It's fun to keep your mental state for a long time and play in your spare time. It is better to learn more professional knowledge. Many parents think that their children will know how to play when they get home. Instead of wasting all your time playing, you might as well go to a consulting agency and learn more professional knowledge to consolidate it. However, playing and learning are not opposites. Play takes away children's innocence and childhood happiness, at the same time, it can improve children's thinking, arouse children's happiness, and enhance children's practical ability and imagination. Play, a way of learning.

Change your mental state, ask a question in a consulting institution, and then your poor academic performance is your business. Some parents think that the money spent on applying for a counseling institution for their children has also been spent, and the teachers who should be invited have also been arranged. If they can't study and train, there is nothing they can do. There is no good future in the future, and my parents have tried their best. However, children's development can only be achieved by teachers and counseling institutions, but also by students' enthusiasm, teachers' educational guidance and parents' supervision and help. Doubt the mental state, the teacher doesn't focus on the lecture, and leave it to the class. Some parents are worried that some teachers don't give lectures seriously, but keep important contents and guide students to attend classes in the counseling institutions of his colleagues and friends. Children's study and training will be affected if they don't attend classes. In view of this collusion between teachers in public schools and even schools and training schools, students are induced to attend extracurricular remedial classes. The Ministry of Education has long prohibited public schools and teachers from participating in private training institutions in any form. Once involved, teachers must get rid of the real identity of the public, and colleges and universities should seriously investigate and deal with it.

Idealized mental state, there was no standard at home before, and now you can't lose your child. Many parents dreamed of learning piano and dancing when they were young, but they didn't realize their dreams because they didn't have the ability at home. Nowadays, children have standards and pin their ideals on them. However, children are independent and have their own thoughts and hobbies. Parents impose what you like or think children like on their children, so that children can shoulder their parents' idealism. Children have a heavy burden, and learning and training have become a painful thing. Only by attaching importance to children's enthusiasm and guiding them correctly can children fall in love with learning.

With luck, getting a certificate is conducive to the entrance examination, and professional knowledge can be greatly increased. Why not take a chance? Some parents think that it is of great significance for their children to participate in the qualification certificates of some prestigious institutions in the entrance examination. In case they happen to get the key certificate, it will have a favorable impact on the entrance examination. For this matter, the Ministry of Education has clearly put forward the moral bottom line of "ten prohibitions", and the test scores of competitions with off-campus training institutions are no longer "necessities" for further studies.