In education, parents are worried about many problems, but they also vary from person to person. * * * sexual problems are manifested in the following aspects. I'm worried that my children won't study hard, get poor grades, get into school or get into a good school. Worried that teachers don't care about children or pay enough attention to them. Worried that children's daily living standard is low will interfere with their physical and mental health and training. Worried that their children are angry with other children on campus. They are worried that their children will be mixed with underachievers and influenced by those students. Worried about the safety of children on campus and on the way to and from school.

How to solve these problems? Improve the communication between universities and parents, especially the communication between deans and parents, so as to eliminate parents' scruples. Parents' forum will be held to let parents master school management and classroom teaching, master children's school situation, organize parents' day, and let parents master colleges and universities in various ways to prevent misunderstanding. Colleges and universities should strengthen the management of students and ensure lean management and multi-faceted management.

Colleges and universities should strengthen teaching work, strive to improve teaching quality, always face all students, and never let a student leave the team. Colleges and universities should strengthen safety knowledge education for students, carry out emergency drills, and enhance students' safety awareness. Children's rebellious psychology makes parents helpless. Parents' higher training plan is divorced from the reality of children at this stage. Children are keen on mobile phone WeChat, vibrato short videos, mobile games and so on. And parents are unable to supervise. These three problems make parents eat badly and sleep badly at night.

For the three major problems, I think it is better to adjust the educational concept from the perspective of empathy and find educational means suitable for children's psychological characteristics in different links. What are the most acceptable educational means and methods for parents to go to school, then try to educate their children. For example, what children hate most is dry persuasion and education reprimand, so parents try to avoid using it. What children like best is to expect more interaction with their parents. Then parents should leave more time, actively communicate with their children, master the requirements of different links of their children, and help them deal with difficulties in daily life and study. In that way, children can turn their rebellious psychology into positive expectations for their parents' caring culture and education, and want to treat their parents as good friends. As long as children trust and attach importance to their parents, they will follow their parents' supervision, training and education, and the educational effect will be produced and the confusion will be removed.