How to talk with each other? Many boys are shy, insecure and want to flirt with girls. In fact, the way boys and girls communicate is very important. Learning how to chat with girls can increase the success rate of pursuit! So how do you chat with each other?

How to talk to the other person's heart 1 1 is to his liking.

Many boys mistakenly think that girls like shopping and watching movies, flowers and sweet words. In fact, sometimes women are independent individuals and like different things, so we must do what we like, catch what the other person is interested in, and then take some initiative to attract girls.

2. Show your personality charm.

How to make girls take the initiative and be willing to approach you, boys must learn to tease each other. In particular, we should fully display our personality charm, take care of girls' emotions in daily life, and then be a meticulous warm man. For example, when shopping, we will leave girls in our arms. This small move will leave a good impression on girls.

3. Observe and analyze my sister's circle of friends

For the girl you just met, if you add the other person's WeChat, then you must pay more attention to the other person's circle of friends, and then analyze the other person's personality and preferences from the content of the circle of friends. Then if you want to have an intersection with each other at this time, there will be some shortcuts.

Give your sister a nice nickname.

Every girl likes to be sought after by men, so when appropriate, boys can also give girls a nice nickname, which is just a secret between two people, so that girls will feel different.

Step 5 be humorous

If you are a girl you just met, you must show your humor when communicating with each other. Sometimes you can make fun of each other's heads, but you must learn to praise girls and affirm each other.

How to talk to the other person's heart 2 1, the chat frequency is appropriate, and never harass.

Don't start chatting frequently with girls you like as soon as you meet, knowing that you can't find a topic and often pestering girls. Isn't this suicide? Even though many chatting boys don't choose to chat with girls often, they will know how to control the frequency of chatting with girls, and they will never give girls the idea of harassment, such as chatting with girls in the evening when everyone is relatively free.

After all, if you want a girl to be attracted to you, you can't achieve the effect by saying a few words, but you need to impress her step by step and get along with her slowly. Therefore, straight men should remember not to harass girls often, or you will be blacked out if you make girls unhappy, that is, there is no chance to contact her.

2. Girls like to chat and never talk.

Awkward chatting is something that many straight men often encounter in chatting. Why do they talk awkwardly? Only by solving this problem can we really learn to chat with girls. In fact, the reason for chatting with girls is that your topic does not attract all girls, which shows that girls are not interested in what you say at all.

Smart boys will know how to choose topics that girls are interested in, which can not only easily meet girls, but also give them a sense of deja vu, and upgrade you from a stranger to a friend in one sentence. So as long as you work hard, it is not difficult for her to have a heart-warming feeling for you.

3, the appropriate invitation, never empty chat.

I hope that straight men will always remember that chatting with a girl they like is not as simple as enhancing feelings or getting to know each other. Asking her out is your real purpose, so in chatting,

As long as the girl begins to have a good impression on you, we will prepare to ask her out, use appropriate language to explore and see what the girl thinks about going out alone with you. If she didn't refuse and accepted it readily, then she must be looking forward to further development with you. This time shows that you can start to act.

Many brothers think it is a complicated process to pursue a girl they like, but it is not. It's only our hearts that are complicated, especially chatting with the girl we like. As long as you master the method, you can happily upgrade your relationship with her and win her successfully.

How to talk about each other's hearts 3 sister chat routines Step 1:

I remember one evening, the summer heat finally ushered in a hint of coolness in the evening. I am walking in the community, ready to buy some fruit to go home. At this moment, a charming girl with a ponytail appeared in my sight.

She wore shorts and a pair of white canvas shoes, which showed her figure to the fullest. At this time, my hormones suddenly broke out. I fell in love with her at first sight and thought I must not miss it.

At this time, I used my skilled chat routine to go up and chat with her: "Do you often run in the community?" Why haven't I seen you? "

She glanced at me and stopped at the same time. I smiled and said to her, "No, I used to run in the community, and I didn't have time when I was busy."

The girl smiled and said, "Actually, I just started today. I want to lose weight."

"You have such a good figure that you still need to lose weight. Isn't this hatred? "

"Isn't summer coming soon?"

……

I talked sentence by sentence all the way, and finally I said, "You are really an interesting girl. I want to go to the fruit shop to buy some fruit. You can run together when you have time. "

The girl didn't refuse, so we added WeChat to each other.

At this time, my heart is very happy. The first step of the routine is to leave a particularly good impression on the sister and complete it.

I added her WeChat and I didn't chat with her. This is actually a little trick, which increases my mystery and freshness.

After two days or so, I had a simple interaction with her, exchanged basic information and got to know each other.

At this point, many boys like to ask how old you are, where you live, where your company is, and what you like, just like checking your household registration.

It's good to know the information about girls, but don't be too direct. You can introduce yourself first, and then ask the girl's personal information, so that the girl will accept it more easily.

Unexpectedly, we still live in the same building, and she lives above my house!

The second step of the sister chat routine:

At this time, I knew that the second wave of chatting with girls was about to begin:

I talked to her several times, and we all felt very good. I gave her a good sense of security. One day, as soon as I got home, she picked up the express for me.

In this way, we have a second chance. I asked her for a courier and said I would thank her later. I invited her to dinner, but she didn't refuse. In this way, we had our first date.

In the meantime, we also had some small physical contact, but she didn't refuse.

After that, we often go out running like friends, eat together and watch movies.

The third step of the sister chat routine:

On the third date, I held her hand and she didn't resist. I knew that my third flirt's chat routine was about to start, so I invited her to our house.

In this chat, we talked about some wine stories. I asked her if she liked drinking. I really like it.

She said she didn't like drinking very much. I said that Shangdao iced tea tastes great, and it would be better if you added green lemon.

I aroused her a little curiosity, she said, did you?

I invited her directly. I said we don't need to go out for a drink. We have it at home. Next time you come, take yourself and the green lemon.

So the next weekend, we chatted and drank together at my house. The weather is fine and the sunshine is comfortable.

After two glasses of wine, it goes without saying what happened afterwards.

Does it feel great? In fact, as long as you know some skills of chatting with girls and your sincerity, no matter what kind of girls will be moved by you.