Parents of young children from all walks of life deal with problems in different ways. For example, they feel that their children have been wronged in kindergarten, but their attitudes and expressions are quite different. Some parents even reprimand the so-called children who bully their children, or have great dissatisfaction with the teachers. In view of this situation, when we hold parent-teacher conferences, we ask parents for advice through typical cases, commend and thank those parents who can support and understand kindergarten work, set an example for parents to learn and educate parents with empathy. This is just a simple way, but most parents can understand the teacher's painstaking efforts. After emphasizing, parents' reprimands to other children are obviously reduced, and parents.
A parent-teacher conference can eliminate the confusion of many parents and nip things that should not happen in the bud. At the same time, through various forms, let parents know the value of modern kindergarten education and kindergarten teacher work. Only in this way can parents understand and support teachers, and only when parents' educational ideas are consistent with teachers' educational ideas can home-school synchronization really become a reality.
Second, put yourself in another's shoes and take the initiative to adjust.
Children are naturally active, and bumps and bumps happen from time to time. It is understandable that parents are eager to love their children and have excessive words and deeds. However, some parents make a mountain out of a molehill about their children's little pain. When meeting such parents, teachers must be patient, calm and put themselves in their shoes. I have a good method-listening.
Listening to parents' complaints is sometimes practical, and sometimes it may be an excuse to vent their dissatisfaction and grievances with teachers. At this time, the teacher should not rush to explain, just listen patiently. In fact, parents may want teachers to pay more attention to their children. After speaking, he will find that it's no big deal, that is, there are no specific problems to be solved and the teacher has no principled mistakes. After speaking, my mood will calm down and the problem will become much simpler. In addition, it is easy for teachers to know parents' real thoughts from their confidences, which is convenient to solve and achieve satisfactory results for parents.
Kindergarten is no small matter, and teachers have the responsibility to ensure that children are safe and happy every minute in the park. However, there will be some unsatisfactory places in kindergarten work. For your own mistakes, you should be brave enough to take responsibility, dare to face parents' doubts, and handle the aftermath in a frank and responsible spirit, so as to achieve satisfactory results for parents.
Tolerance, understanding, attaching importance to feelings and communication are the most basic principles in dealing with parents' work. Parents and children/kindergartens have a common bond-children, parents expect their children to succeed, and kindergartens cultivate their children to grow sturdily. With this knowledge, family cooperation should be a relaxed and happy thing.