I think the starting line is different from the moment people are born, even when they are still in their mothers' stomachs.
Why do you have this slightly negative idea is because you have participated in several closed trainings of Taikang Insurance and met many people. The latest training was 16, a three-day closed formal training. In order to arouse the enthusiasm of the students in the training class, teachers encourage them by showing their own specialties and adding extra points. In my opinion, it may be cold, and I don't want to be bright every time. What impressed me the most was a beautiful woman in our group. Every time the lecturer says that she gets extra points for her performance, she raises her hand as soon as possible. She is confident and generous on stage. Everyone else is the original singer, and she has to accompany her, and she sings very well, almost to the professional level; When I sang on stage, I also had a sense of stage, and soon the atmosphere was set up. Other groups also sing Japanese songs and perform recitations. , are all excellent. On the other hand, they seem unable to get it. Moreover, every time the lecturer said that he was particularly afraid when performing his talents, he dared not point at himself, dared not go on stage, and was afraid of screwing up other people's jokes ... A lot of troubles and drew circles for himself.
I chatted with them privately and learned that their parents are either employees or employees of public institutions. From an early age, they will sign up for various training courses, take them out on holidays and attend children's parties in the best condition. Many times, their parents will respect their ideas and guide them from the front, instead of following the educational method of "a dutiful son is born under a stick". And there are many talents that they can't bother anymore, but they are extravagant in my opinion; And I grew up in the shadow of my brother's outstanding performance. The villagers say that my brother is flexible and I am rigid. My mother often says this and compares me with other peers from time to time, as if her daughter is the worst. In order to get more attention from my parents, I learned to please, be good and obedient, and not make them angry. It was not until I went to college that I slowly began to have my own opinions, but the seeds of inferiority were planted. I envy children whose parents are highly educated. Their parents have a rich spiritual world. They simply enjoy the fun of being parents and don't expect anything in return. Knowing that "the love of parents is far away", they plan their own future from an early age. In order to reduce the burden on their children in the future, they began to plan their later life, buy insurance and manage their finances in middle age to prevent the risks in their later years and put a heavy burden on the whole family. Not to mention the contacts and resources accumulated by parents for half a lifetime, it is another word to use it yourself, but at least there is a way out.
I envy them, but I don't complain. Although I am one step behind the starting line, it doesn't mean that I can't catch up with others.
The environment has created the fate of different people. My parents gave me the best they could, and they also tried their best to change the trajectory of our lives. In rural areas, many people even drop out of school in junior high school to work in primary schools, then get married and have children, and continue to live with their parents facing the loess. My parents, on the other hand, are busy planting crops when they are busy with farming, and go out to work when they are idle, and spend half their lives creating as much wealth as possible for my brother and me to go to college and then settle in Zhengzhou.
I know my shortcomings-cowardice and inferiority, but if I realize it, it means I have made progress. At that moment, it suddenly dawned on me. Since I dare not show myself on stage, I have been suppressing and hating it. It is better to face it directly, overcome your fears and express your thoughts. It doesn't matter if it's wrong. I was not an important person on stage for a few minutes, so everyone forgot when I stepped down. In the next training, whenever I need to go on stage or answer questions, I will grit my teeth. At first, I was very shaken and confused. Later, I summed up my own shortcomings in reflection. Before I went on stage, I sorted out my thoughts and became more and more fluent and confident. Team members say that your handwriting is really good, your thinking logic is clear, and you are very suitable for being a lecturer. God knows how excited I am to hear such praise, and the challenge has succeeded.
It is said that the appearance before the age of 30 depends on parents, and the appearance after the age of 30 depends on oneself. My parents have raised my starting line, and I will try my best to improve my children! I am willing to be a lifelong learner, associate with excellent people, keep reading and studying, improve my professional skills, and draw a strong blueprint for myself and the next generation!