It's not that you are incompetent, it's just that you are weak.
Instinctive fear of the unknown, instinctive resistance to things you don't understand, instinctive pressure to impossible tasks, you can only speak my mind with fear.
You always use your thoughts to push back some results you want.
As it turns out, this is just to make your selfishness feel better when you fail.
Therefore, you always leave yourself some room to speak and some retreat.
But you don't know, you always have your opinion, but he has his.
You think he likes you, but he thinks you don't get along enough. You think short hair is the killer of big face, but he thinks your background is enough to cut it short. You think it takes time to warm up for a walk just after graduation, but he thinks I am qualified to run.
Then "How do you know what will happen between you and him if you don't try?" "If you don't try, you will know that short hair is not suitable for you?" "If you don't try, how dare you say that you can't think of a plan and write an article?"
Then, if you feel humiliated, just shake your head and stop contacting. After all, you have lost 99 points of self-esteem, and you still have 1 point of pride. If you cut your hair, wash it hard. It won't grow back in a few months, and it will heat you to death. If you screw up your work, you must learn shamelessly. How can a spirit without death stand the pursuit of afterwaves?
About liking you, you think it takes a lot of time to confirm.
As for the fact that he doesn't like you, you won't know until later, until you hit the wall.
Ma Xiao, I'm your best friend.
Many people will ask me why she doesn't fall in love.
I know why, but I am not very good at answering this question.
Because I am so much like Ma Xiao, I only dig for myself once.
I've always been their emotional counselor. Although I don't know where I got the fake and shoddy business license, they can confidently ask me about the world outlook and methodology of love.
Some time ago, Xiao Yan told me that she is still cheap to turn over her ex-boyfriend's INS. 7.8 years, not still love, just can't let go.
There are some things you haven't said. What you think will still stay in what you think.
You think breaking up is an understatement, and even if you say it, you will have a chance to turn back.
Two proud and ignorant teenagers, he still didn't look back, and you endured very hard.
You think that if you don't look at it and don't contact it, it will fade after a long time.
He went abroad to your foreign land, but I didn't expect that there is such a thing as the Internet. Every move he makes, you have to climb over the wall.
You think he has a new girlfriend, and you will find a new half.
He has changed several times, and you will tell me every time. But I can't wait for you to tell me you have a boyfriend.
You think it's been 7.8 years, and you should have forgotten this relationship long ago.
Sometimes walking on a street corner, you will look forward to the second you meet him and how you will greet him.
Who says Gemini is a playboy? He just hasn't met the person in his heart yet.
Sometimes, I prefer to have a little heart.
Heart, tied to a person, you have no choice but to think, it's torture.
Sometimes, I always encourage Ma Xiao to talk to her predecessor.
What I thought in those days, when I said it, was nothing.
A girl who is too kind to disturb.
Girls who are too reserved always keep silent.
I don't know if people are grouped, but it's strange that there are many girls around me whose love is still blank.
Little Z who wants to fall in love with me every day is silent in front of someone's confidante.
She said that friends can talk for a lifetime, but it is difficult to break.
P Every time a moth throws a fire,
She thinks he can get along with her, she thinks he can always like him, and she thinks she can wait for him.
She said, I must hold love in my own hands, say I like it and fight for it. There is nothing I can't cross.
Little J, living like a cactus.
She thinks that two people must have love before they can be together.
She thinks she likes it and is persistent in treating her well.
Therefore, she always misses it when she knows it.
He gets tired when she likes it.
When she confirmed it, he left.
When she said it, he didn't.
These girls are always willing to "cheap" themselves.
Not bad, but I don't want to make do.
It is not that I don't understand love, but that I don't want to pursue it.
It's not that you don't pay, but that you don't want to take the initiative.
After all, we are all too stubborn.
In other words, we care too much about our face.
Clever and reserved, probably the most disgusting expression I have seen in more than 20 years.
Sometimes, there are words and things.
Say without shame, do without fear,
Not to get the result of your thinking day and night.
Just, let you have a rest.
You thought you liked him when you said it, but it was just a good feeling.
To be clear, you can't let go of your thoughts, just don't want to.
It is reasonable for you to think that he likes you, but he thinks too much.
Girls, I love you and myself.
But I-there's nothing I can do. Because I think so, too.
Isn't that what people do?
You always think how much this long hair will be reluctant. It lasted 8.9 years.
"distressed?"
"No, it's cool!"
But what he doesn't know is that this is your long hair that you think will last a lifetime.
A knife down, just know that it was once back to the pleasure before liberation!
Every decision is well thought out and has a fuse.
Short, then keep it long.
Ugly, then wait for beauty in the next life.
There is nothing you think you will hate for life.
There is nothing you think you can never do by killing yourself.
When you think it is inappropriate, nothing is really inappropriate.
After all, many things you think will be serious, in fact, the sky is not so easy to collapse.
A lot of things you think you can't bear to give up, but that's it.
You are afraid that your mother will disown you because you hurt yourself by dyeing your hair.
However, she is in a good mood now.
Because, you have grown up.
You're afraid of big faces. Cutting your hair short will make your face look bigger. You're afraid of being too old. Air bangs make you look like you're in act young.
However, the hair stylist said that you have a good foundation and are very suitable. What are you worried about?
Professional people always have professional judgment.
What you think will only be what you think after all. You can't move to the table.
? postscript
Ben is cleaning the broken hair on the floor carefully.
? I bent down, bent my knees, squatted down, took my two big poked hair in my hands and tied it up with my hands.
? Is the picture so pious?
? Don't!
? All I can think about is that you took it before I could take pictures and turn around!
? The end of the postscript
? "Did you get your hair back?"
? "No, why do you want to come back?"
? "sell money."
? "……"
? "Did you get a haircut?"
? "Wow, how do you know that his family has activities? Yes! "
? "... I said you can get a discount on your cut hair. "
? "hmm? ..... oh "
?
Taking this step to try is already my biggest discount.
I-I don't need to change my hairstyle.
You can do even better.
I still think so.
"So much pressure?"
"I'm afraid I didn't do well."
"Don't be surprised, I'm sure I can't do it well!"
"But you have to try!"
This is a dialogue between a rookie in the workplace who has been employed for a week and has no training experience, but will go to the battlefield tomorrow to give lectures and explain various gobbledygook theories.
Yes, important explanations cannot have punctuation marks.
So you can take a closer look.
Do you think odd jobs seem to be the normal daily work of a novice who has just entered the society and can't even respect alcohol?
So, you also think that getting rid of handyman is the most natural "dream" to wake us up every day.
But have you ever thought that if you wake up one day, all the business plans in the company, big and small, are planned and arranged by you, and you are solely responsible for the follow-up of the promotional film shooting, and even the new business projects are planned, implemented and promoted by you, do you dare to come face to face and say loudly, let me do it?
It is estimated that/kloc-0.5% people will turn around and leave, and 20% people will refuse the challenge and would rather continue to do odd jobs; 25% people will naturally make the boss have to teach you; 30% people walk with fear because they don't even have the courage to say no.
So 15% people have been job-hopping all their lives;
20% people rely on handyman contractors to enter the base and steadily improve;
At the age of 3, 25% people are just tools that can be executed but can't think;
30% of people are neither good nor bad. Step by step, give me a push and move me an inch.
The remaining 10%, that is, others need 10 years to complete their three-year career.
You think you should have the opportunity to take on wit, but you should also be able to take on pressure.
There are no cheap clothes in the world, although the profit in this market is 3 times, 5 times or even 10 times.
After leaving school, there will be no days when you can eat, drink and have a fixed income every day, although you can still ask for money as long as you are unfilial and shameless.
There is no shortcut to fooling around in the workplace if you don't work hard. Although some people rely on flattery to get to the top, it is also a technical job.
Therefore, when doing odd jobs, don't think that you are just doing odd jobs.
Finding something to do is your best way to change at present.
So, don't think that being dull is a lifetime.
Finding pleasure in boredom is a great challenge.
So, don't think that you can't bear the pressure.
Climbing a mountain is always more difficult than going down. Take every step.
In short, what you think you can't do is just because you are still far from trying and being cornered.
Even if you are cornered, don't always think that you have the whole world on your shoulders. You are not that great, and the world does not despise you.